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Can I get Asian girls as a black man?

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I have an Aunt and Cuz who lives in California. My Cuz loves this high-caliber black lady and they are planning to get married. He decide to stay black in the end. (He dated other types before)
TBH I understand this because interracial dating has its cons for sure.
 

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Depends what type of black.

Black African American - you good, Holmes.

Black Indian? Sh1t outta luck.

Black Lives Matter (No Indians tho).

This is from women, not me.
I've got Caribbean parents but I was born in NY.
 
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His brother went white though and have a few mixed children. He's an anchorman of a major news network in Detroit.
Yeah, I prefer latinas, Asians, and Middle Easterners but I want my wife to be blonde because I like the kids they make. I have blue eye recessive genes and I would love to see them be used for once lol.
 
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Yeah just stay away of Toronto. Mainly beta whites and Asians here. Even Escort ads with asians, especially Filipinas will say no blacks and when I went shopping prepandemic most of the racist attitudes were from Filipinas. This show how race is more important than money.
This is not my experience with Filipino women. A good friend of mine who is Black is married to a Filipino. I know plenty of Filipino women that are married to Black men. Most are former service members. Maybe that is the difference. They met and married these women when they were based there. Interesting.

The fact that they are in Toronto is a bigger factor.
 
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Maybe it's about casting the widest net so to speak. They don't want their pusssies all stretched out from black dudes, then have a drop off in clients as a whole, because they are too gaping now. They are keeping the product they offer in the most marketable state.
nah lol it's because they tend to be terrible customers and you really can't call the police in that situation. No offense, but I can understand this based off working for tips as a delivery driver and waiter in the past.
 

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Haha, if only things were that simple...skin color actually has to do with where your ancestors are from and is directly related to the body protecting itself from too much sun/vitamin D.

The darker the skin, the closer to the equator your ancestors are from meaning they only needed a very small percentage of the strong sun to get their Vitamin D needed. Conversely, the lighter your skin is the farther north your ancestors lived as they needed to capture as much of the weak sun as possible to get the needed Vitamin D.

This is why extremely dark people who live in northern climates tend to have a lot of health problems...there isn't much Vitamin D being generated from the sun for most of the year in these areas and their dark skin shuts the vast majority out anyway. Vitamin D3 supplementation on a year round basis is almost a must, and extremely critical from September through May.

This is also why very light skin people burn easily and tend to get skin cancer at higher rates when they live in southern places...their skin cannot handle all the extra sun it is being exposed to.
Respect for that most illuminating response
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I have tried to be empathetic and listen in on every race thread but there are always two types of guys:

1. The whiners who make every excuse and spread a depressing sad vibe, you notice this vibe in other threads too and realize it is not just race they are down about.

2. The guys sharing success stories.

I have had wings of different races and cultures and almost every time, whenever they talked about race holding them back, there was a far bigger red flag about them and they just used race to mask that. All that said, however, I do understand that different cultures of women act in different ways and that influences the kinds of men they go after.

Where I grew up in Atlanta, we had a ton of Koreans and a ton of Indians. I have also went to different parts of the US been around a lot of Asian and Asian American women. The underlying theme with most of them, particularly East Asian women (Korean and Chinese in particular) is that they are far more obsessed with fitting in than even white girls are. Most of them are quite insecure about their ethnic appearance and desperately want to fit in with White Society.

I have had black wings and known black guys who slayed this demographic hard.

The easiest and most sure-fire way to do it? Do well with above average looking white girls. Asian American women follow whatever white women do. I even had a Korean friend that used to be an incel, got his act together, rejected Asian girls due to being friendzoned by them in his youth, only went for white girls and succeeded, and had Asian American women desperate to screw him.

Point being, if you show that you get hot white girls, Asian American girls will be easy pickings no matter what your background is. I even have a dark-skinned Indian friend who has managed to run up his numbers with them by doing this.
 

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Filipinos beg black culture hard, signing, dancing, dress sense. I find them sexy af, there’s no way a black man can’t get a filipina. I was seeing a half wife half Filipino girl, younger sister of a girl I went to school with. Great cheek bones, almond eyes, hips/ass.

I’m half black/white but very pale, I look Mexican or North African (Algeria/Morocco etc) so I’m kind of desperate for a black or mixed woman to give me black kids. I’m the whitest in my family and I have an issue I guess. I just recently came to terms with the fact my kid might be 3/4 white and basically even more removed from my black culture. Part of me feels stupid for the colour of my kids being an issue, the other part is adamant I can’t breed a white woman and dilute my genes further. Latina seems a great option for me.
 

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Filipinos beg black culture hard, signing, dancing, dress sense. I find them sexy af, there’s no way a black man can’t get a filipina. I was seeing a half wife half Filipino girl, younger sister of a girl I went to school with. Great cheek bones, almond eyes, hips/ass.

I’m half black/white but very pale, I look Mexican or North African (Algeria/Morocco etc) so I’m kind of desperate for a black or mixed woman to give me black kids. I’m the whitest in my family and I have an issue I guess. I just recently came to terms with the fact my kid might be 3/4 white and basically even more removed from my black culture. Part of me feels stupid for the colour of my kids being an issue, the other part is adamant I can’t breed a white woman and dilute my genes further. Latina seems a great option for me.
You are mixed? I did not know that. . Good thing you never dealt with any racist pros.
 

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You are mixed? I did not know that. . Good thing you never dealt with any racist pros.
They filter me out over the phone when they hear my deep voice “you black” “bebe which country you from” typical Eastern Europe chat.

I get it, black men take less ****, they can’t give sh1t service and expect you to not ask money back or get confrontational. Sometimes its the size, they sometimes say I’m too big. Either way it’s not a racist thing imo. I’ve said I’m Spanish and turn up and bang then no complaints.

ANYWAY, I’ve done some thinking and I’m not going to pay for sex any more, I don’t need it, not even for sexual thrill/excitement, I can use my gf for that. No more escorts for Murk.
 

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Escorts in general say no blacks, that’s not an uniquely Asian thing
Yes, but there are different ratios with different women who say that if you scroll through the adult classifieds. If I were to compare Filipina woman as a subset, and white women as a sub-set, then Filipina escorts then its a vast difference. Maybe 50/50 white escorts might have no black on their ads, but that's okay because there is just so much of them. Asians may have it similar ratio. But when you look at Filipinas, it's almost like 80-90% of their ads are no blacks, and they might only be 5 - 6 of them in the whole set. To be fair, some of them say no Filipino men too. Blacks escorts also have a mix that say no blacks as well, but there are enough that are not saying it (ie like as in whites, non-Filipina asians), that it you shouldn't really feel bad it if you want an experience with that type (ie unless you happen to crush on a specific escort that says no black and you are black yourself, but at that point, that's not good idea anyway).

However, the problem is if you are black and you want a Filipina escort specifically then you would feel screwed by that set-up. There might be the odd one or two escorts out there that don't have it, but even then, you know their preference is always a white client, or they are in a temporary business slump and when things pick-up they might put no blacks too, or they may be very fat and not conventionally attractive, etc...
 
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They filter me out over the phone when they hear my deep voice “you black” “bebe which country you from” typical Eastern Europe chat.

I get it, black men take less ****, they can’t give sh1t service and expect you to not ask money back or get confrontational. Sometimes its the size, they sometimes say I’m too big. Either way it’s not a racist thing imo. I’ve said I’m Spanish and turn up and bang then no complaints.

ANYWAY, I’ve done some thinking and I’m not going to pay for sex any more, I don’t need it, not even for sexual thrill/excitement, I can use my gf for that. No more escorts for Murk.
Well it looked like you had a successful hobby before you quit it. I've heard of people saying, "just say you are from Cuba", I guess "Spanish" is a variation of that. Its encouraging to hear that racism didn't ruin your experience.

I know what you are saying with the other excuses, but I feel that the reason some of them say no blacks, is they are trying to please their other racist white clients and feel that will somehow taint their fantasy, especially if it's a young barely legal, or really exotic type of escort and their net income stream would go down.

For example, how many 18 year old escorts did you see? How many Indian, Filipina, or exotic looking type of escorts did you see that didn't hassle you about your race?
 

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Well it looked like you had a successful hobby before you quit it. I've heard of people saying, "just say you are from Cuba", I guess "Spanish" is a variation of that. Its encouraging to hear that racism didn't ruin your experience.

I know what you are saying with the other excuses, but I feel that the reason some of them say no blacks, is they are trying to please their other racist white clients and feel that will somehow taint their fantasy, especially if it's a young barely legal, or really exotic type of escort and their net income stream would go down.

For example, how many 18 year old escorts did you see? How many Indian, Filipina, or exotic looking type of escorts did you see that didn't hassle you about your race?
Yes, we don't really have many South American/Latino people in the UK so Spanish was just my go-to meaning I'm tanned, they think white, I think when I get through that door and they see me they are not saying no (it's easy money when a handsome in shape man pays them for sex as opposed to the usual troglodytes paying for sex).

I agree it's partly to appease the white clients, who may not be racist, but to know some big masculine long d!ck guy isn't allowed to bang them probably makes it more appealing, again, they're not racist just insecure. Black men make other races insecure. I felt it myself. The thing is, a lot of black men are just the same as white men, shy, insecure, not dominant like the stereotypes have people think. Most of my friends and all my family are black so we both know black people can't be generalised as masculine with big d!cks.

Regarding escorts I saw, a lot were young, 18 I dunno, they always knock years off so you can't trust ages. I did bang a girl so inexperienced it was like a first date. We were on the best, she seemed nervous, we started kissing (full clothed) and it turned into sex, just like real life scenarios. Usually its, you hand them the money "take your clothes off" while they go to stash it, they walk in and go to business. Anyway I digress, it was mainly eastern europeans - Romanian, Hungarian, Polish, Russian, Some Colombian/brazilian. It's legal here in the UK too, so a completely different ball game to the US, where I've also punted, it's much riskier in US, you feel like any of them could be an undercover sting. That made it more risky and appealing to me, I did escorts in Miami and Orlando, way more expensive and less bang for your buck, I feel sorry for US punters.

Lastly, you shouldn't be caring about an escort's racism, seriously wtf, they don't see black guys? You choose someone else. They don't owe you sh!t, take your money elsewhere. Seems like you are not using escorts like I was, for the fun/thrill, rather than any deeper meaning.
 

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