IS anyone else finding their having to correct womens behaviour often?

[derby1]

I currently have 3 plates, these women are okay and in their own mind they are classy and respectful.

the truth of the matter is theyre not as good as they perceive.

I feel Im constantly having to check them for their behaviour and little things they do, that are borderline disrespect.

It absolutely gobsmacks them, that a man would have boundaries.

Is this all simps fault?

the women turn up for everything,pay for nights away, drive me around, pay a lot, give me great sex, so I doubt they view me a "beta"

Its like they lack self awareness of little things they do.

and theyre so used to men being pathetic?

your thoughts

 

[Zimbabwe]

Because nobody ever holds women accountable for their actions, they are never taught how to be proper adults so this is why they often behave like overgrown children

 

[derby1]

Because nobody ever holds women accountable for their actions, they are never taught how to be proper adults so this is why they often behave like overgrown children

I agree because Ive certainly shown no weakness on the grand scheme of things.

I find it pretty draining tbh.

and lots of women have the same traits.

Im 39 now, so most great women are in LTR's

 

[Steno]

What specific behaviors are they doing that bothers you? I am assuming that you are trying to eventually promote a plate to LTR status. If you aren't looking for anything serious or long-term then you shouldn't care too much about their behavior since their just plates.

Also, you can only control a woman's behavior to a very very small degree. If a woman's behavior is causing you headaches then you should consider dropping her, its not worth the stress. Also be observant and notice the traits and habits they have that are not complimentary to what you are looking for so that in the future you can filter these women out faster.

 

[The Duke]

Standing up to a woman never ends. They will always test you to some extent. Ignore most of it, but drop the hammer when it gets bad. Pick your battles. Never be afraid to walk away. She always needs to have a little fear that she can be replaced or she will not respect you as she should. Yep they are all little girls at the end of the day.....It's good and bad.

 

[Murk]

I had a call yesterday from a girl who was with a friend and wanted somewhere to chill, I'd finished work and due a blowout so they come over, I have alcohol, weed and cocaine in deep supply at this house.

I quickly realised how 24 year olds disgust me, they are feminist brainwashed c*nts and I really wish people had more mental fortitude. The friend she brought had a stint escorting (grew up in care, but a hot blonde hippie hoe) and raised 3some ideas, the girl I know (I met her when she was 19 and we always stayed in loose contact sex every so often) is a mess with an autistic boyfriend that abuses her. I got turned off sex/3some idea and asked them to leave. Did they leave? No. They wanted to argue with me, to the point I had to stand up and raise my voice (I don't like being aggressive with women) and kick them out.

Women are so entitled, these utter tramps came to my home where I gave them drink, drugs and food (I'd cooked salmon and asparagus which looking back I probably should have charged them £100 for the scumbag probably never had a decent home cooked meal in their life from an adult) and the ungrateful entitled little ****s don't take my first NO for NO. Even the thought of using them for sex repulsed me. Young women are so ****.

Seriously thinking about going to church to find a young women. This new age feminist agenda is ruining people.

 

[derby1]

this is my point lads, Ive given off no beta vibes whatsoever, and I feel like Im constantly having to do soft nexts, and withdraw my attention.

A plate swore at me on a date 3 weeks ago, it was late she had a drink ( whatever).

So I literally left her in the city at 3am in the morning On her own. (This was the punishment I felt reasonable at the time)

the day after she apologised, but strangely when we hooked up 2 weeks later she said "but you still came back"

I found this weird as I was prepared to leave her in a dangerous city, I explained I didnt consider her disrespect worth ghosting.

it gets tiring.

 

[Murk]

but strangely when we hooked up 2 weeks later she said "but you still came back"

Women are gluttons for punishment, you treating her like sh!t was a turn on, "but you still came back" haha these h0s willl be saying that for the rest of their lives.

Women love being degraded and used, I've heard it from their mouths, I've questioned female friends, they love the power dynamic, hence being a good guy never wins.
.

 

[derby1]

Women love being degraded and used

she gets wet AF when I deem her unworthy, I spat in her mouth over the woods, last week and she hasnt shut up about it.

youre fully right, might have to put her on ice soon, though, Its getting stressful.

I just want an enjoyable time.

 

[Murk]

she gets wet AF when I deem her unworthy, I spat in her mouth over the woods, last week and she hasnt shut up about it.

youre fully right, might have to put her on ice soon, though, Its getting stressful.

I just want an enjoyable time.

It's why women like r4pe play and rough play, the aggressive caveman vs helpless women dynamic is the most natural thing in the universe.

They all love hair pulling, hard fvcking, dominating, aggressive sex, not during menstruation when I change to tender/aggressive mode but everything else, especially around ovulation week it's aggressive domination.

I'm someone this didn't come naturally to, I evolved to become the above but then it became me, it's natural and I think men and women are normal feeling this way.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I currently have 3 plates, these women are okay and in their own mind they are classy and respectful.

the truth of the matter is theyre not as good as they perceive.

I feel Im constantly having to check them for their behaviour and little things they do, that are borderline disrespect.

It absolutely gobsmacks them, that a man would have boundaries.

Is this all simps fault?

the women turn up for everything,pay for nights away, drive me around, pay a lot, give me great sex, so I doubt they view me a "beta"

Its like they lack self awareness of little things they do.

and theyre so used to men being pathetic?

your thoughts

The problem is you have to really drill them, get them to stay on point, and back them into a corner, and only then will they admit fault. Before that, they'll blame you, gaslight you, or just have poor excuses.

And once you do it, it's not like they just change their ways. I think you need to walk away and show her you won't tolerate it at some point. You may even have more than once. It's really up to you whether you think it's worth the energy and sanity to deal with it.

But yes, women are not used to anyone putting their foot down like that. When women pull back, go distant, hot to cold, etc, most men's reaction is to suffocate her with attention and work on addressing his "character flaws" that are pushing her away.

 

[derby1]

And once you do it, it's not like they just change their ways. I think you need to walk away and show her you won't tolerate it at some point. You may even have more than once. It's really up to you whether you think it's worth the energy and sanity to deal with it.

for the last 3-4 years ive noticed im having to pull all these strategies off with women in the early days.

the early days should be enjoyable.

theyre used to being pandered

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

for the last 3-4 years ive noticed im having to pull all these strategies off with women in the early days.

the early days should be enjoyable.

theyre used to being pandered

I think it's because we know how women work more than they do, on an unconscious level we can understand most of their behaviors even if we don't quite know their thoughts and intentions. As such you would have to pretend nothing is amiss and put your head in the sand. The idea of a honeymoon phase is kind of moot, you're either ignoring the signs or the girl is putting up an act which you'll just deal with later anyway.

 

[EyeBRollin]

If you live in the west, listen carefully.

There are no great women and few good women. You have to train and mold your woman into being a great one. It’s going to take a lot of teaching and patience. I recommend getting an immigrant or first generation woman from a non-Western country. They have good enough home training to work with and are only halfway poisoned by the Western culture.

Women in the West are fvcking clueless when it comes to what men require and want. They could care less. Proceed accordingly.

 

[Solomon]

I had a call yesterday from a girl who was with a friend and wanted somewhere to chill, I'd finished work and due a blowout so they come over, I have alcohol, weed and cocaine in deep supply at this house.

I quickly realised how 24 year olds disgust me, they are feminist brainwashed c*nts and I really wish people had more mental fortitude. The friend she brought had a stint escorting (grew up in care, but a hot blonde hippie hoe) and raised 3some ideas, the girl I know (I met her when she was 19 and we always stayed in loose contact sex every so often) is a mess with an autistic boyfriend that abuses her. I got turned off sex/3some idea and asked them to leave. Did they leave? No. They wanted to argue with me, to the point I had to stand up and raise my voice (I don't like being aggressive with women) and kick them out.

Women are so entitled, these utter tramps came to my home where I gave them drink, drugs and food (I'd cooked salmon and asparagus which looking back I probably should have charged them £100 for the scumbag probably never had a decent home cooked meal in their life from an adult) and the ungrateful entitled little ****s don't take my first NO for NO. Even the thought of using them for sex repulsed me. Young women are so ****.

Seriously thinking about going to church to find a young women. This new age feminist agenda is ruining people.

Wait you have 2 thots in your house who invited you for a 3some you offered food, drugs and booze then got mad that they wanted to repay you with sex?

WTF

 

[Solomon]

They could care less. Proceed accordingly.

And can you blame them? men are very easily replaceable not just because of the simps, but the Chad's and Tyrone's are simping too
I remember in 2012 when the misc did an expertment with a hideous fat chick a real 2. The men that went after her where leagues above her in looks and status. In 2022 It has gotton 100X worse

The truth is most men are desperate for sex and a relationship

 

[EyeBRollin]

And can you blame them?

I don’t worry about it. She either can submit or get nexted.

 

[Solomon]

I don’t worry about it. She either can submit or get nexted.

That's the mentality to have unfortunately younger women are embracing feminism, pansexualism, liberialism at a rapid rate
Espeically Gen Z women, they really belive their idelogies

They basically want a stay at home boyfriend so they can thot it up in the club with their girlfirends lol

 

[derby1]

Women in the West are fvcking clueless when it comes to what men require and want. They could care less. Proceed accordingly.

yeah theyre solipsistic as fkc,

I explained to one the other day Im not happy with her behaviour, she replied.

"Im sorry you feel that way"

fortunately I had a good reply.

"I dont want pity I want understanding" I then soft ghosted for 48 hours, whilst she blew my phone up.

Its all very unenjoyable imho.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Read David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" to get a really good understanding at why you have to constantly correct a woman's behavior (specifically, why women do it). The TLDR version is that women misbehave in order to feel your masculine energy... they crave masculine energy and misbehaving is the button they can push any time they want to feel it.

It's a huge shame that men are taught growing up that women's tests and boundary pushing are to be taken literally, respected, and catered to, and that if you do not, you are a dictator, unreasonable, and a toxic male. This component of feminism has had massive consequences on men and women. Women definitely aren't happier now, nor are men, but for different reasons. Women got what they thought they wanted, yet don't see how unhappy it is making them (they don't know why they are unhappy, they just know that they are unhappy and frustrated), and more men have trouble dating and making relationships work because of their societal programming.