Was this a **** test and is it recoverable?

[cdub384]

I knew I ****ed up the second I sent it.

 

[Serenity]

You revealed yourself with "I need to know what other buttons I can push". You could have saved it better by agreeing in an exaggerated way if you wanted to preserve the playfulness there, being an assh0le while not actually being one.

If that's where your messages stand right now it's not too late, you can still go "actually, yes being an assh0le is the best and annoying people is my favorite hobby" or something like that which is in character for you.

Btw, the se^2 actually made me chuckle.

 

[devilkingx2]

I would've been like "nah, I'm sure everybody loves me [sunglasses emoji]"

Since she hasn't responded yet we can't say if anything went wrong or was messed up. It may be a case of overthinking and she just responds like normal.

Btw, the se^2 actually made me chuckle.

Seconded, I thought that was clever too.

 

[Striker_93]

Bruh, its a simple text conversation, ain't no damn sh!t test or anything, your overthinking this to the extreme, it's not a chess match.

It could be a thousand reasons why she hasn't responded.

It ain't that deep

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Her waiting for you to send another desperate text because you think you messed things up and you actually sending it is where you would screw up.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Instead of the response that was wrote. I wonder if, "Are you one of those girls who takes her self too seriously, and can't laugh or have fun" would have been better.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

You didn’t mess up. Let her think whatever you’re doing fine and the se^2 **** was funny aswell. Like my man Striker puts it, it aint that deep. Overthinking will **** you up way more than sending a ‘wrong’ response. If she wants to disregard you for something so small she was never worth it anyway.

 

[Bigpapa]

I knew I ****ed up the second I sent it.

Too much back and forth with no objective in place

you have to lead towards sex , not clown towards sex

 

[Barrister]

Would need to know more information - but if you haven’t even taken this chick out yet this is way too much texting/DMing. But as far as whether you messed up here - no, I think you’re overthinking it.

 

[BuckledWheel]

It doesn’t sound like she done much wrong. It’s very bad text game you’re running. You’re reading into this too much. Take a look at this guys text game: www.playingwithfire.com also on YouTube. I’m not a fan of his but his online dating game is solid. It will give you a few tips. Good luck.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It doesn’t sound like she done much wrong. It’s very bad text game you’re running. You’re reading into this too much. Take a look at this guys text game: www.playingwithfire.com also on YouTube. I’m not a fan of his but his online dating game is solid. It will give you a few tips. Good luck.

Yeah the texting is pretty bad honestly...

It should be fun, light hearted and serve to make her smile when she sees texts from you because she is looking forward to the interactions...

Highly doubt that's what's happening here.

 

[Bigpapa]

Yeah the texting is pretty bad honestly...

It should be fun, light hearted and serve to make her smile when she sees texts from you because she is looking forward to the interactions...

Highly doubt that's what's happening here.

kinda the same thing that I was telling to one of my friends who is a lawyer .

his way of talking , both Verbally and written is so complex that you have to read it 2-3 times .it was just tiring to listen to him

since he started talking way more simpler his success increased significantly

Same thing with guys who over joke , even though it is a good thing to have the ability to tell jokes , you should not use it too much as you will be viewed as a clown

 

[BuckledWheel]

It doesn’t sound like she done much wrong. It’s very bad text game you’re running. You’re reading into this too much. Take a look at this guys text game: www.playingwithfire.com also on YouTube. I’m not a fan of his but his online dating game is solid. It will give you a few tips. Good luck.

The link took the site elsewhere? Search playing with fire on YouTube the guy’s called Alex.

 

[zinc4]

I knew I ****ed up the second I sent it.

You are overanalyzing. Try not to think so much and trust your gut more.

 

[RobbyDog]

Who cares? It’s just one broad. There’s millions more.

I find where so many of us go wrong, is we try to figure out what’s going on in a woman’s head, and make it “right”. Men are problem solvers by nature, but unfortunately this usually makes thing worse. Indifference is the key.

 

[Tilex]

Ugh!
It's very cringeworthy to ask about sh!t tests and then post online text conversations.

The reason why I say this is because there's nothing organic about this interaction.
For all we know you could be talking to an A.I. bot on the other end.

Real sh!t tests happen in person.
Everything online is phony.

 

[Skyline]

This wasn’t a sh*t test but you definitely failed by flirting/pressing too hard.

This doesn’t seem like the correct interaction to compliment her tits when she is venting. You tried being playful but ended up being blatantly flirty and h*rny.

Flirting too hard benefits nobody. Flirt here and there and then do something else. It can still be playful but it has to come off genuinely interested in the conversation.

Fun and playful isn’t always flirting.