the benefits of porn and masturbation

[ananas]

here we list the benefits of porn and masturbation:

porn:

• enjoyable to watch
• develop sexual desire to get a partner
• develop imagination to not be boring in bed with girls
• if you have low libido, it can increase it

masturbation:

• enjoyable to do
• release sexual need
• help you to focus and work once you're done with it
• help you sleep
• it's fun and free
• if you have low libido, it can increase it

now it's your turn to add more points to the lists

 

[mrskinnypantz]

It relieves the thirst, temporarily

Pick any girl you want

 

[lost_blackbird]

Regular indulgence keeps me from even considering making an approach to the real thing tbh.
Not that I'm complaining. After a fap I'll not have a single sexual urge or thought all day.

 

[Serenity]

Regular indulgence keeps me from even considering making an approach to the real thing tbh.
Not that I'm complaining. After a fap I'll not have a single sexual urge or thought all day.

This is exactly it. Getting the release also releases all the motivation to get the real thing. I have experienced this, I used to be shy and just not go there. Porn and masturbation only served to moderate my motivation to break through that barrier. At some point I got this idea and I quit both porn and masturbation, the horniness was through the roof and with my self-imposed strict limitations I'd do almost anything to get pvssy.

I know how it sounds "anything to get pvssy", but it's not the same as the nice guy way, being a supplicating idiot. It was anything that might actually work. It breaks you out of the usual approach, you literally go crazy and try crazy stuff just to get that release.

If someone is struggling to get the real thing, the last thing they should do is masturbate and watch porn. It only works in the short term and like hard drugs you'll have to keep doing it, but it solves nothing and doesn't bring you a single step closer to the full experience.

if you have low libido, it can increase it

I hate this point the most. Yes it can, for porn and masturbation. For getting your d!ck inside a real pvssy and experiencing a truly satisfying release? Absolutely not!

Advocating for porn and masturbation is bordering on blasphemy on a forum dedicated to getting actual women. On that note this thread doesn't belong in Don Juan Discussion which is about meeting, dating and attracting women. I'm moving it to Anything Else.

 

[lost_blackbird]

This is exactly it. Getting the release also releases all the motivation to get the real thing.

I know, it's why I do it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Porn & fap decrease desire to find a real woman.

 

[Serenity]

I know, it's why I do it.

You don't want the real thing?

 

[lost_blackbird]

No thank you.

 

[BadBoy89]

This is exactly it. Getting the release also releases all the motivation to get the real thing. I have experienced this, I used to be shy and just not go there. Porn and masturbation only served to moderate my motivation to break through that barrier. At some point I got this idea and I quit both porn and masturbation, the horniness was through the roof and with my self-imposed strict limitations I'd do almost anything to get pvssy.

I know how it sounds "anything to get pvssy", but it's not the same as the nice guy way, being a supplicating idiot. It was anything that might actually work. It breaks you out of the usual approach, you literally go crazy and try crazy stuff just to get that release.

If someone is struggling to get the real thing, the last thing they should do is masturbate and watch porn. It only works in the short term and like hard drugs you'll have to keep doing it, but it solves nothing and doesn't bring you a single step closer to the full experience.


I hate this point the most. Yes it can, for porn and masturbation. For getting your d!ck inside a real pvssy and experiencing a truly satisfying release? Absolutely not!

Advocating for porn and masturbation is bordering on blasphemy on a forum dedicated to getting actual women.

I don’t think it’s ”blasphemy”, just discussion.

I quit it too and my horniness was through the roof, yet the girls still told me to go hell, with more gusto because I was more horny.

One thing positive about porn, is if a man watches a lot of it with “hot” women, I think he be alot less nervous with the real thing. Because he’s seen it over and over and over again, it’s not big deal. If a guy has never seen hot women, the real thing is a big deal.

The problem all men, who are not naturals or genetically blessed, have is by the time they find out the ”secrets“ of seducing women and improve, the women are all already 30 and used up. If women had to be virgins before, let’s say marriage, this site would mean 1000x more. But to kill yourself to get someone else’s leftovers? Tough pill to swallow.

 

[Serenity]

I don’t think it’s ”blasphemy”, just discussion.

It's my opinion about it. The discussion is allowed.

I quit it too and my horniness was through the roof, yet the girls still told me to go hell, with more gusto because I was more horny.

Interesting, so the difference must be how this drive is channeled. Not only did it get me out there, but I actively used it find new ways where old ways didn't work. Did you try anything new?

One thing positive about porn, is if a man watches a lot of it with “hot” women, I think he be alot less nervous with the real thing. Because he’s seen it over and over and over again, it’s not big deal. If a guy has never seen hot women, the real thing is a big deal.

I do not believe this at all. I had watched a ton of porn before going out into the real world, did it soothe my nerves? Absolutely not, porn and real sex is vastly different. Your argument kinda makes sense from a logical standpoint existing in a vacuum, but it just doesn't apply to reality. Imagine watching porn for years and finally getting the chance to live it out, it's still a big deal. Only attitude adjustment, often through getting wrecked by a woman can teach you to not think it's a big deal. At least that's what did the trick to me, bad chick, got hurt, next time I wasn't that naive and it seriously upped my game.

The problem all men, who are not naturals or genetically blessed, have is by the time they find out the ”secrets“ of seducing women and improve, the women are all already 30 and used up. If women had to be virgins before, let’s say marriage, this site would mean 1000x more. But to kill yourself to get someone else’s leftovers? Tough pill to swallow.

Uhm, what?

 

[Plinco]

here we list the benefits of porn and masturbation:

porn:

• enjoyable to watch
• develop sexual desire to get a partner
• develop imagination to not be boring in bed with girls
• if you have low libido, it can increase it

masturbation:

• enjoyable to do
• release sexual need
• help you to focus and work once you're done with it
• help you sleep
• it's fun and free
• if you have low libido, it can increase it

now it's your turn to add more points to the lists

There is a lot of material out there that discusses the harm in watching porn. I suggest you read it.

 

[ananas]

I'm gonna add a point:

• you get your orgasm the exact way you want it, unlike when you are with a girl. it allows you to make it much more agreeable

I had two experience with stopping masturbation:

• When I was about 22yo. It increased my libido way too much, I was getting a lot of boners while simply walking in the street. Making me look like an absolute creep. I was also unable to focus on more important things like getting money or reading.
• When I was 27yo. It totally killed my libido. A bit in the same way that fasting kills your apetite: after 2 days of no eating you don't have hunger anymore, at all.

I'm really unsure that only having a retardly high libido will make you get girls, that's what every 15yo boys have and many are struggling with girls.
If you can see women only as tools to make your penis giggle, maybe that's the issue? Companionship can bring so much more than that.

masturbation and porn are cool and okay. no need to practice non sense asceticism to get girls.

 

[Serenity]

I'm really unsure that only having a retardly high libido will make you get girls, that's what every 15yo boys have and many are struggling with girls.

Yeah, thinking about it some more it's not enough by itself. If they can't channel that energy productively they'll only end up frustrated.

Worked for me, but I did use it productively to achieve my goals. I know many guys out there keep doing the same things over and over expecting a different result, which is really insane.

 

[BadBoy89]

Uhm, what?

Just saying this site is good, but by the time the guy gets his “Game” together, the hot girls he wants have already slept with a lot of guys. Of course it’s reality, but still.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I think masturbation by your means cause you built too much steam may be a good option but watching porn out of boredom and fap only to seek temporary pleasure is a sure way to mess up your brain.

 

[Barrister]

Weird thread to have posted on a pickup forum. I certainly don't think masturbation is "bad" for you in any way - but if you overdo it it definitely will affect your overall drive for real sex. I haven't watched porn in years and don't really have any strong urge to do so. If you are getting pvssy I am not sure why you would have any desire to watch porn. I watched enough porn from age 16-21 to have plenty of ideas and to have implemented them by now. So it isn't an advantage for that either.

Nothing on the porn/masturbation front beats out actually banging women.

 

[Gamisch]

Interesting topic . Porn is imo a raw representation of reality, like a thriller movie or even a comedy show or movie can be.

One could say" it's just prostitutes being filmed". But imo it's just a woman having a good time. The camera and the title porn, will make most woman over performe in some cases . And if you've ever visited a prostitute, one knows in reality such a visits can be extremely formal, I stead of passionate, which proofs porn goes beyond simple prostitution.

And one could even argue, even a incel who never gets women still gets to know what's going behind closed curtains. Because at the core of it, a woman should be able to enjoy sex to the max. You want your woman to let it all go and go all in sexually , there where many occasions when I felt the sexual chemistry was "movie like ". Not a bad feeling. Or even how a counterintuitive comment or move led to her doing things I've never seen before.

Its both spirituality and emotionality necessary for men , as crazy as it sounds . A man needs to at least know what a woman looks like when she is on her freakiest nastiest ect at the end of it we can even connect it to a forum like this:if your woman is not " over performing " she is not into you(bold option).