I failed to have sex with her..

[AureliusMaximus]

when you are in your early 20's you will be able to fvck anything that moves because your sex drive and hormones will be wild

Well this happened to me a couple of times in my twenties too where willy wonka went on full blown strike ha ha. So from my perspective of thinking it cannot just be a sex drive/hormone thing but it is on a psychic level too.. Because even though the girls were hot, it is still a mental element to it too.
You just do not fully click with her.

 

[Barrister]

OP - More than likely you are just extremely nervous and it’s causing you to experience this. Not sure what you mean by “grower” d1ck but regardless we have all been in this position - sometimes with hot women even.

If you need to - take a viagra. Do this a few times unless until you’re comfortable and past this and you’ll be fine. I disagree that a woman will be able to tell you are using it unless you let on that you are.

 

[Baibars]

OP - More than likely you are just extremely nervous and it’s causing you to experience this. Not sure what you mean by “grower” d1ck but regardless we have all been in this position - sometimes with hot women even.

If you need to - take a viagra. Do this a few times unless until you’re comfortable and past this and you’ll be fine. I disagree that a woman will be able to tell you are using it unless you let on that you are.

with grower I mean I have a small one when not erect and it’s only normal sized when erect.

how is viagra? If I take it before sex will I have a boner all the time? Because we do other activities too and I don’t want to walk around with a boner.

 

[manfrombelow]

Being too tense and nervous will cause erectile malfunction even for young guys. Don't sweat. It'll get better gradually.

 

[Barrister]

with grower I mean I have a small one when not erect and it’s only normal sized when erect.

how is viagra? If I take it before sex will I have a boner all the time? Because we do other activities too and I don’t want to walk around with a boner.

A low dose won’t make you walk around with a boner. You have to be aroused still to get one - granted it’ll happen very easy after taking it. My guess is you use it once or twice and get over this anxiety and then you’re back to being fine and not needing it after that.