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What’s Your Favorite Pull Excuses to Bring a Girl Back to your Room?

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Here’s a fun one. At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter lol. But I want to know, what are your favorite excuses to pull a girl back to your room to close the deal, once she’s already at your house?

The line I personally like is: “Hey, let me show you some music that I wrote.” I have a laptop and a decent pair of speakers in my room. I also make hip hop beats and some EDM every now and again.

This line works nearly every time. I like it because it’s not super high pressure for me to execute at all, and it has a good bit of plausible deniability for the girl.

I also like it because it motivates me to write more tracks even with my busy ass life lol.

Once she’s in my bedroom, a line I like to use that is kind of cheesy but works well is “Are you a good kisser?” Again, I know it’s cheesy but that line has a very high hit rate lol.

One of my friends brings them to his room and shows them his guitar playing. He shows them how to play guitar and kino’s them at the same time.

He also uses the excuse he wants to show her some videos on his computer. It’s in his room because it has to stay plugged in or it dies. (And that’s actually the truth lol.)

So just for fun, I want to know what lines you use to bring the girl back to your bedroom. This should be interesting.
 

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Here’s a fun one. At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter lol. But I want to know, what are your favorite excuses to pull a girl back to your room to close the deal, once she’s already at your house?

The line I personally like is: “Hey, let me show you some music that I wrote.” I have a laptop and a decent pair of speakers in my room. I also make hip hop beats and some EDM every now and again.

This line works nearly every time. I like it because it’s not super high pressure for me to execute at all, and it has a good bit of plausible deniability for the girl.
I've done something like this. "Hey let's watch a movie at my house"

I've made out with chicks really hot and heavy in my car and complained that it was too public, then suggested my place where it was more private.
 

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you may laugh, but I 've told women who were interested and already in the foolin' around stage..." I'm gonna take you home and **** the **** outta you." And her reply was "OK, let's go..."

If you build up the sexual tension enough and she is hooked she will be on board. You won't have to play games....

Plausible deniability for her reputation is another story. Then you can be more creative.

But the nice thing about these older women is they know the score and they want to get laid as much as you do. They appreciate a man who is direct and to the point.
 

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These are all good lines. Being direct will be the most effective IF the girl's interest is high. Being indirect will work with medium to high interest.

1) If you have a dog, well everyone loves dogs. She will want to say hi to your pup. And of course, he will be in your house->room.
2) If you play music, well who doesn't like music? Especially live. Show her your musical talent in your room.
3) If you happen to strike a conversation around movies/films/docs, then what better way to end the night than checking out something you've both been wanting to see that came up during the conversation.
4) If you paint or sculpt, well recreate Ghost.
5) If you both love to read, show her your library.
6) If you end up doing an outdoor activity and both are dirty/sweaty, well she is always welcome to have a shower at your place.

And

7) If you have a hot tub or pool, well you should have started the date there in the first place.

Enjoy!

Modern Man Advice
 

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I am assuming this thread is mainly for when shes at ur place for the 1st time.

For me, I usually start of just hanging out in the living room with her, listening to music or watching random stuff on youtube. After like 30 mins to an hour I start ramping up the escalation, and once the escalation starts to get really hot I say something along the lines of "its a bit uncomfortable here, lets go to the bedroom".

When I am rusty and have been a bit of a ***** when it comes to escalation, then I usually offer a massage. I always plant that seed earlier on in the interaction so it doesn't feel contrived when I offer it, and things flow very naturally and smoothly from there.
 

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During our talk, I bring up how I love the classics (Sinatra, The Ramones, The Beatles, Stones, etc). I invite her up to see my vinyl collection.
So, the same concept! Great music as well.

Like I was saying, I like a line like this because it doesn't take a ton of willpower or effort for me to execute on the date. I'm not like "Oh shyt, I haven't kissed her yet, what do I do?" Instead I just use a line like that, and I can move things forward from there. It's much easier for me mentally when I have a plan for the date.

And I don't have to worry about running out of time on the date itself(definitely has happened to me in the past) because I can run that routine whenever.
 

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you may laugh, but I 've told women who were interested and already in the foolin' around stage..." I'm gonna take you home and **** the **** outta you." And her reply was "OK, let's go..."

If you build up the sexual tension enough and she is hooked she will be on board. You won't have to play games....

Plausible deniability for her reputation is another story. Then you can be more creative.

But the nice thing about these older women is they know the score and they want to get laid as much as you do. They appreciate a man who is direct and to the point.
Epic. I can't say I've ever been that direct unless I've already fvcked them before.
 

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These are all good lines. Being direct will be the most effective IF the girl's interest is high. Being indirect will work with medium to high interest.

1) If you have a dog, well everyone loves dogs. She will want to say hi to your pup. And of course, he will be in your house->room.
2) If you play music, well who doesn't like music? Especially live. Show her your musical talent in your room.
3) If you happen to strike a conversation around movies/films/docs, then what better way to end the night than checking out something you've both been wanting to see that came up during the conversation.
4) If you paint or sculpt, well recreate Ghost.
5) If you both love to read, show her your library.
6) If you end up doing an outdoor activity and both are dirty/sweaty, well she is always welcome to have a shower at your place.

And

7) If you have a hot tub or pool, well you should have started the date there in the first place.

Enjoy!

Modern Man Advice
Exactly!

And you can always customize these lines to your personal talents/situations/strengths.
 

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I am assuming this thread is mainly for when shes at ur place for the 1st time.

For me, I usually start of just hanging out in the living room with her, listening to music or watching random stuff on youtube. After like 30 mins to an hour I start ramping up the escalation, and once the escalation starts to get really hot I say something along the lines of "its a bit uncomfortable here, lets go to the bedroom".

When I am rusty and have been a bit of a ***** when it comes to escalation, then I usually offer a massage. I always plant that seed earlier on in the interaction so it doesn't feel contrived when I offer it, and things flow very naturally and smoothly from there.
Very nice. So when you've escalated more, you're a bit more direct on the spectrum of things.

Yeah, that has tripped me up before. I've been on dates, had the girl in my house, and been like "I haven't escalated enough. I haven't kissed her. I've only ran a slight bit of kino. What do I do now?" And then I'd end up running out of time, and not closing the date.

So in that case, whenever I need to move things forward, I can just invite her back to my bedroom using one of these lines ("Let me show you my Sinatra collection.") Then you could easily tell her to sit beside you, and just move things forward from there once you are in your room and the door is closed.
 

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Honestly... if she’s into you.. I just say “ we are going back to my place.. hope you don’t have plans tomorrow morning because you will be sore” I have never had a chick say nah... I’ve gotten “ we can’t do anything because it’s my time of the month”... which I usually follow up with “ well is your mouth broke as well?”
 
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