Shocked I haven't seen a thread about this due to the high gas prices and all. But for a first date especially what is the furthest you will drive since many of them turn out to be no second dates and a waste? Especially when using OLD.
I've driven 2 hrs and have had women drive 2 hours, 10-12 years ago when I lived in California, where gas prices then were $4 or so a gallon. That being said, this was to their house/my house and sex was pretty much a given.Shocked I haven't seen a thread about this due to the high gas prices and all. But for a first date especially what is the furthest you will drive since many of them turn out to be no second dates and a waste? Especially when using OLD.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
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It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
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I drove 60 miles once! The chick looked okay in the pics, and she played vollyball too. Key word "played." I didn't vet her enough and she was about 30lbs heavier than her pics.I'm actually pretty proud I got a woman to fly to spend the weekend with me for a first date...and a number of repeat dates...
Some dates are worth more effort than others. I have to go 45 miles to the BIG CITY. If I have to go that far to get a date, I'd sure vet that prospect more than someone in my home town I could meet for coffee.
I drove 60 miles once! The chick looked okay in the pics, and she played vollyball too. Key word "played." I didn't vet her enough and she was about 30lbs heavier than her pics.
I do a better job of vetting cell numbers. When I get the number I go on a reverse search site like Spydailer and get their full name. I then go on Facebook and look them up. That way I can see more current pics.
You'd be shocked women use 6 year old pics when I go on FB and see they took the pic like in 2015 and using it on their profile.
This has probably saved me about 25 times from wasting money.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
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Sorry, this is foolish. Not only do I go to her, I offer to pick her up. Getting to her house ASAP sets up the logistics for sex.First date I always make the woman come to me. If she won't come to me or meet halfway then I next. Going to her turf means entering her frame.
Shocked I haven't seen a thread about this due to the high gas prices and all. But for a first date especially what is the furthest you will drive since many of them turn out to be no second dates and a waste? Especially when using OLD.
Zero.
I never drive to dates with new girls, because i am always drinking or trying to drink with them and also because i am too lazy/unmotivated for that.
Always schedule at a place within walking distance to your house/apartment. Setting up logistics in your favor from the beginning is key.
False.
You guys and your ALWAYS and NEVER.....
There are no absolutes!
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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