As a high smv male you will attract your own unique set of circumstances
this is for men that are good looking and have their **** together (6ft, 6figures etc). There are of course many men who are high smv who are average height and average money etc, but I’m talking about superficial appearance and how it relates to others behaviour
you will often get universal respect from kids and men that are younger than you - more specifically an intense admiration…like the being that cool uncle/superhero they aspire to be.
You will get IOI’s from high smv prime women (this doesn’t mean every woman will like you or IOIs will lead to anything)…but in general, you get IOI’s daily…more intense/direct in environments like clubs or the workplace…and the hot young 20 year old girls are approachable and do not get turned off by your displays of power (eg c0ckiness, bragging, dressing good etc)
The following people will hate you, especially if you display any signs of high self esteem or outward display of power -
-some women that are not high smv (especially older ones) and feel you do not validate them/treat them as good as higher smv women. some will have a real personal agenda against you, for no reason. They would only accept you as a complete shell of yourself, if you were more feminine, witheld any outward displays of power and acted with lower self esteem/seek their validation - they basically see you as nothing more than a measuring stick for their own smv. If you are good looking male, alpha, and succesful, they want to destroy you…because they resent what you represent (dominance)
-some men who have low self esteem or are out of touch with their own masculinity will also treat you with disdain and attack you in passive aggressive ways. It’s usually always passive aggressive and highly manipulative (sometimes hard to detect), often designed to poke at your confidence! These people may be disguised as friends
as a high smv male your life can sometimes be lonely - the only fruitful relationships can be younger men who seek your mentorship, other high value men (although naturally they will be equally independant, narcissistic and busy…unless you have a shared goal), or high smv women that you’re sleeping with
Since many men bond over ‘mediocrity’ and shared failures…as a high smv man, your upbeat attitude, dominance and desire to win will often turn people off. Most high smv guys can superficially charm people but are lonely and dedicated to their craft - see Kobe Bryant
The only way to really build friendships is with other high smv men that are working towards a similar goal as yourself (eg building a business together, sport team members etc)
my advice to high smv men is to focus on yourself and keep a low profile in public. All interactions should be ‘nice’ and not opinionated. Only show ‘alphaness ’ around close male friends or girls that are clearly attracted to you. Because of what you represent (dominance), you are a force - so People that like you, will REALLY like you. Anyone that doesn’t clearly REALLY like you, isn’t on your side and sees you as a threat. With average guys, people can be ‘on the fence’/impartial and it can develop into something more …but with high smv men, people either love you or hate you from the start…and with those that love you (male or female) there will be an INSTANT connection. The girls will be extra receptive and the men will be instantly open. Do not force anything.
So when you’re in public, hide your alpha. This isn’t high school…In the real world, winners/jocks are resented by many. Good looking and successful guys that are shy/nice/low profile are loved by society because they boost people’s self esteem. These guys don’t get laid (unless in the context of beta bux), but they are liked.
But when you’re confident, dominant, aloof, arrogant or ‘too smart’/opinionated you will rub many people the wrong way…save it for the people that really like you and what you represent…it is the ‘x factor’ thats get you laid with the hotties and helps you bond with other alpha males but needs to kept under wraps
interested to hear the experiences of others
