just be your (racist) self?

[espanish]

"just be yourself" "don't make excuses for who you are" "don't censor yourself"

what if the real you is politically incorrect, and even racist?

yes I am racist and I believe everyone's racist, some people are just living in denial, at least I am honest about it.

should a racist guy show his true colors so that he will meet a compatible racist woman?

I mean the point is, when they say just be yourself, if she doesn't like it too bad, to what extent can you really be yourself?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

"just be yourself" "don't make excuses for who you are" "don't censor yourself"

what if the real you is politically incorrect, and even racist?

yes I am racist and I believe everyone's racist, some people are just living in denial, at least I am honest about it.

should a racist guy show his true colors so that he will meet a compatible racist woman?

I mean the point is, when they say just be yourself, if she doesn't like it too bad, to what extent can you really be yourself?

Different degree of it exist. Some just do comedy on the groups but not heavy discrimination or attacking folks. And the highest degree of it is terrible.

 

[TheProspect]

yes I am racist and I believe everyone's racist, some people are just living in denial, at least I am honest about it.

I don't believe everyone's racist...

I believe that people are inherently predisposed to in-group biases, and there's a distinction between that (preferences and inclinations as the result of these in-group biases) and actual racism (believing one race is superior to another).


As to your questions,

"just be yourself" "don't make excuses for who you are" "don't censor yourself"

I mean the point is, when they say just be yourself, if she doesn't like it too bad, to what extent can you really be yourself?

I don't think "just be yourself" is as common advice as you seem to think on this forum. First of all it's vague and overly simplistic, and it doesn't offer any practical actionable steps.

Some guys at their core are pu$$ies, simps, autistic, socially retarded, and desperate. I would never advise them to "just be yourself", because being themselves will undoubtedly cause more problems with women than it will solve.

In your case, if you are indeed a racist, but want to maximize your options, I would say don't outwardly just be your racist self.

what if the real you is politically incorrect, and even racist?

You'll naturally polarize women by being a bit politically incorrect, which is fine, because you obviously wouldn't enjoy the companionship of some woke SJW feminist...

However, when it comes to dating, it's best to steer your conversations away from politics, let alone overt discussions involving race (especially if you hold racist beliefs).

Best of luck.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Depends, people are generally prejudiced but most genuinely racist people I knew had something seriously off about their psyche. I think there is levels to it. For example, I used to think that I did not like Italian Americans that much but come to find over the years, that's not really true or the case. I just cannot stand East Coast Italians because a lot of the ones I met in my time in NYC all acted a certain way. Had an encounter when out with a cute blonde from California I was banging the **** out of for months.

We are out, these two dudes with heavy east coast accents are being loud at the restaurant arguing, I say to her "wish they'd go back to Long Island with that" (Long Island is understood to be home to lots of annoying Italian Americans that embody the worst stereotype of their background). She smirks and whispers to me "I am Italian you douche". I reply saying "oh well, looks like I am getting whacked". She smirks, leans in and says "believe me, I hate those guidos more than you probably do, they make my people look bad".

Point being, yeah I held opinions about people from certain backgrounds but I never genuinely hated them.

Being from Georgia however, I have known people that were genuinely racist and hateful. I mean they will immediately turn and flip on someone of a certain color. Most of the times, there was something seriously wrong with them and their psyche.

 

[espanish]

thank you guys
yes I am not racist in the sense that I hate someone because of their race without knowing anything about them
and i dont understand the concept of superiority inferiority what does it mean when someone is superior to someone else? it's like saying a printer is superior to a laptop. it's meaningless.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

Are you asking is it ok to be racist ? Or is it ok to offend people of a different race than you?

Just know that there are consequences to everything that you do and there are some people in this world that if you don't respect them they will make you respect them.

It's ok to not like someone or something but if you wanna be outward and vocal about it and disrespectful wit it , they then have a right to retaliate because at the end of the day they are just standing up for themselves , because in reality none of us get to choose our race .
That's why it's stupid to be racist , you're having something that's out of control

 

[devilkingx2]

"just be yourself" "don't make excuses for who you are" "don't censor yourself"

what if the real you is politically incorrect, and even racist?

yes I am racist and I believe everyone's racist, some people are just living in denial, at least I am honest about it.

should a racist guy show his true colors so that he will meet a compatible racist woman?

I mean the point is, when they say just be yourself, if she doesn't like it too bad, to what extent can you really be yourself?

Well the question is, are you Hitler?

Being politically incorrect is a good thing and definitely not to be hidden. You don't want any girl that expects you to bow down to the mainstream opinion.

Being full on racist and dropping N bombs on a first date is a bad idea unless you only want to date girls with swastika tattoos.

But back to the are you Hitler question, if you are Hitler then you kind of have to show your true colors and find the 1 in 1000 girls that accepts you for who you are if you want to find love and not just bang chicks until they find your Klan hood.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Thought we all pretty much agreed that “Just Be Yourself” is bad advice.It advocates acceptance of good and bad about yourself and that you don’t have to change to be able to pull.Well if that worked,you wouldn’t have any trouble pulling in the first place,would you?

Well,if you’re racist,can’t say the prognosis is favourable.

 

[devilkingx2]

On the subject of "is everybody racist?" Everybody who thinks for themselves has politically incorrect opinions.

However facts are not racist. Thinking that black people in Chicago, Baltimore, etc. commit a lot of crime is not racist.
Thinking that all black people are basically Chicago gangsters even the ones that live in Rosedale and Springfield Gardens, neighborhoods of Queens (NYC) that are 80-90% black with average incomes of $60,000 IS racist.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Racism is funny. Women love it the most.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You have to be careful what you post online because a lot of stuff can get you cancelled, that is one of the reasons we have to be anonymous in this forums, but When you are with a girl in person its good to speak your f0cking mind, especially if you disagree with some politically correct stuff. Sometimes girls will agree with you and admire that you have the balls to speak ur mind. If she doesnt agree at least she will respect you for not being agreeable.

 

[Snag87]

Why the automatic assumption that he's white? Maybe the proper statement would be, "Well the question is, are you Robert Mugabe?"

Yes, I was going to ask if he was white as well