familiarity

[Bingo-Player]

This is the word you lot need to be focusing on if you want to get laid in 2022

For a woman to want to sleep with you she has got to be familiar with you that means knowing who you are, knowing a bit about you , and knowing how attractive you are ....gone are the days of women hopping into bed with someone they met 20 mins ago the risks are just too high for everyone it does still happen of course but if someone charted it i would like to bet the numbers are on their way down

How do you get familiar with a woman ?

Social circles both inner and outer
Work ( its absolutely crazy how easy it is to fvck women you work with if you can avoid the freindzone )
Hobbies
Fitness

Most guys ( including mine) biggest problem is that we spend most of our lives circling around the same handful of freinds who are usually in relationships and our workplaces are dead

I work from home and im sure a lot do .....but when i used to work in this cafe 10 years ago i was getting all sorts of interest from all sorts of chicks i was working with

Hobbies are great for meeting women walking , art , craft , yoga etc

fitness again gym is a good place but it is tricky to gauge interest and know if she is single ......i did end up fvcking one girl in my gym but it took a long time to get the deal done


Overall nearly every single success ive had with hot women has been because of familiarity last year summer i had a foursome with a hb 8 and a hb 7 and another dude

This was made possible because HB 8's best friend was one of my good friends HB 8 knew who i was and trusted me bang half the battle is gone there

Basically just make friends with hot women and they will introduce you to other hot women

That is literally one of the only cheat codes around right now

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Familiarity breeds contempt…just sayin’

I believe women today are looking for ANY reason to disqualify a dude for sex. It has to do with their natural abundance.

 

[Barrister]

I don't agree with this - at least not universally as applied to all women.

Higher value women usually are going to want something more than a single date before they hop in bed. But you can definitely meet chicks off of OLD still and bang them in the same night. That hasn't changed. I will agree that this does not happen a lot, but to say "gone are the days..." is a little strong.

 

[Robert28]

Familiarity will get you friendzoned in 0.2 seconds. And once you go Friendzone you only go down from there “you’re like a brother to me, you’re like family to me, you’re the family friend”. Fuuuuuuck that. Never let a woman get familiar with you, even if she’s a LTR or your wife.

 

[Robert28]

Familiarity breeds contempt…just sayin’

I believe women today are looking for ANY reason to disqualify a dude for sex. It has to do with their natural abundance.

That’s only for average dudes. They’re waking on eggshells and the woman is waiting on them to say one wrong thing or do one wrong thing and it’s “oh there you go, I just lost my attraction over something so silly and it’s all your fault”. Chad doesn’t get these tests and she’s constantly qualifying herself to him, even if he says and does the same thing the average guy did to make her lose attraction.

 

[Who Dares Win]

What you say it's true, I agree that proximity and a certain degree of familiarity really helps.

The problem is that you fit in the "partner through group" dynamics which puts you in the long term/tamed med subdivision...which means lot of rules/demands and no kinky stuff.

I would rather play my much lower odds but getting in the fvck buddy/friend with benefits group so I get much less S, animal sex and none of the obligation coming out of being part of the group.

Every man has to make his choice.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Well not all of us are 6’2”, 245lbs, with 8% body fat and boyish good looks. E.g. Chadwick McChad.

That’s only for average dudes. They’re waking on eggshells and the woman is waiting on them to say one wrong thing or do one wrong thing and it’s “oh there you go, I just lost my attraction over something so silly and it’s all your fault”. Chad doesn’t get these tests and she’s constantly qualifying herself to him, even if he says and does the same thing the average guy did to make her lose attraction.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

You still need to read her and escalate accordingly. Last year I had more chicks on date #1 than I did chicks that wanted to wait for date #2/#3. But even the #2/#3 chicks, I was clear with my intentions and just let them come to me when they were ready. I'm in a relationship with one of them now.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

This is the word you lot need to be focusing on if you want to get laid in 2022

Did the ladyfolk get together and take a vote or something?

Use whatever works, based on your own experience, and keep improving.

True in 3000 BC and true in 4000 AD.