Something is wrong with women who don't want kids

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The fact that women WANT to work 40 hours a week seems absolutely pathological to me. Who would CHOOSE to pursue a “career” if they didn’t HAVE TO. It makes no sense, it reveals something about the confusion with “progressive” views of society.
  • The urge to procreate is the basic fundamental need of every organism.
  • Women are hard-wired to like kids psychologically (which is why most of them become dog mums as an alternative)
  • Women have hormones that signal child-bearing.
  • Women have maternal instincts that make them want to care for other humans, big and small.
If a woman does not want kids, she is literally fighting off strong societal, hormonal, and psychological urges that make her want to have children. I would consider this "something wrong." It doesn't make her a monster, it doesn't make her inhuman or less human. Women really like to debate this point and say it's sexist and women aren't "made for making babies" but speaking purely from a objective stance, yes something is not "right". It absolutely points to something being off that a woman can just ignore or override the fundamental signals that have been apparent in human history since the beginning of time.
 

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The fact that women WANT to work 40 hours a week seems absolutely pathological to me. Who would CHOOSE to pursue a “career” if they didn’t HAVE TO. It makes no sense, it reveals something about the confusion with “progressive” views of society.
This is a good thread topic. If I had more time, I’d address other parts of it. I agree that this is pathological for women to pursue white & pink collar jobs over being a homemaker. I have worked white collar jobs. They stink. They are most meaningless. Blue collar jobs, which are mostly males, are more fulfilling in a way but also stink in a way.

McJobs (low wage, service sector jobs) are terrible too. I get the sense that most regular participants on SoSuave aren’t dealing with women who work at a Walmart or McDonald’s location. Those women do tend to have kids.
 

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The fact that women WANT to work 40 hours a week seems absolutely pathological to me. Who would CHOOSE to pursue a “career” if they didn’t HAVE TO. It makes no sense, it reveals something about the confusion with “progressive” views of society.
  • The urge to procreate is the basic fundamental need of every organism.
  • Women are hard-wired to like kids psychologically (which is why most of them become dog mums as an alternative)
  • Women have hormones that signal child-bearing.
  • Women have maternal instincts that make them want to care for other humans, big and small.
If a woman does not want kids, she is literally fighting off strong societal, hormonal, and psychological urges that make her want to have children. I would consider this "something wrong." It doesn't make her a monster, it doesn't make her inhuman or less human. Women really like to debate this point and say it's sexist and women aren't "made for making babies" but speaking purely from a objective stance, yes something is not "right". It absolutely points to something being off that a woman can just ignore or override the fundamental signals that have been apparent in human history since the beginning of time.
What you are talking about is the result of conditioning by so called authorities. If someone can be conditioned in such a way, they could also be conditioned by you too. Why don't you date one of these career feminists and turn her into something else.
 

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Sounds like your in the wrong forum, mate.

Here ya go:

I remember this guy once at tv in an Eastern European country that I was living back then .

Basically he was harassing a reporter to appear on live tv , and then when he had the chance he just said “ I went country by country in the world to sleep with women , and now I am here and want sleep with as many women as possible from here “

the only image that I have in my head was this extremely hairy fat guy clowning around . I doubt that he was any good at seduction . He looked and was acting like a total idiot .extremely Low social intelligence

his forum is a very good example of how clowny he is
 

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OP- breathe buddy. Sounds like you are going through red pill rage. Try to remember women are what they are and don’t take them too seriously.

Women by nature are followers. Absent a strong male they just do what society and their girls tell them to. In the West that means they are told to work, travel, and fvck random guys until 30-35 years old then some new age sensitive-Chad alpha male will fall from the sky and marry them. Single women keep (and make!) other women single.
 

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The fact that women WANT to work 40 hours a week seems absolutely pathological to me. Who would CHOOSE to pursue a “career” if they didn’t HAVE TO. It makes no sense, it reveals something about the confusion with “progressive” views of society.
  • The urge to procreate is the basic fundamental need of every organism.
  • Women are hard-wired to like kids psychologically (which is why most of them become dog mums as an alternative)
  • Women have hormones that signal child-bearing.
  • Women have maternal instincts that make them want to care for other humans, big and small.
If a woman does not want kids, she is literally fighting off strong societal, hormonal, and psychological urges that make her want to have children. I would consider this "something wrong." It doesn't make her a monster, it doesn't make her inhuman or less human. Women really like to debate this point and say it's sexist and women aren't "made for making babies" but speaking purely from a objective stance, yes something is not "right". It absolutely points to something being off that a woman can just ignore or override the fundamental signals that have been apparent in human history since the beginning of time.
Her success and career doesn't matter.
 

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Women being physically weaker rely on the group much more than men do (men at least have a choice) therefore tend to follow and believe whatever trend is going in that area/moment.

Most of them are groomed at school, just like guys that face the pro-weakness propaganda.

There is also a large number of women coming from disfunctional families that clearly cant be fully functional.
 

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If a woman does not want kids, she is literally fighting off strong societal, hormonal, and psychological urges that make her want to have children. I would consider this "something wrong." It doesn't make her a monster, it doesn't make her inhuman or less human.
Most women want kids. Try interacting with childless women in their 30s.
 

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I’d rather have a woman that didn’t want kids over one that was carrying around other guys kids.
 

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Women being physically weaker rely on the group much more than men do (men at least have a choice) therefore tend to follow and believe whatever trend is going in that area/moment.

Most of them are groomed at school, just like guys that face the pro-weakness propaganda.

There is also a large number of women coming from disfunctional families that clearly cant be fully functional.
I know a chick that doesn't want kids. She's 28, all tatted up. Claims to be bisexual. From a messed up family. Claims to have sexual "trama". She's very moody. Has had a string of short term relationships and is always chasing small time celebrities trying to get their attention. She's attractive but not worth the headache. The girl had problems.
 

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I’d rather have a woman that didn’t want kids over one that was carrying around other guys kids.
Same here. There are often times where men are choosing between a childless woman who doesn't want kids vs. some single mom with kids from some other guy. The childless woman who doesn't want kids is the better choice there.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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The childless woman who doesn't want kids is the better choice there.
Best choice for dating.... and never marrying... what's the point of marriage when the girl doesn't want kids?
 

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Best choice for dating.... and never marrying... what's the point of marriage when the girl doesn't want kids?
There is no point in marrying then. I'm not one to talk about the point of marrying since I've made it to my late 30s without marrying.

I was in my mid-20s when 2008 hit. My career was hugely affected by that downturn. Even if I had strongly desired kids, my life was in no position for having kids during the most ideal years for having kids. Depending upon the moment, I've either been ambivalent or haven't desired to have kids.

A lot of blue pill men, whose voices are never heard on this forum because they don't participate here, end up marrying some woman for the point of having kids with her. What they don't realize is that when they have kids with her, it is more likely than not that at some point before the first child turns 18, he and that woman will split up.
 
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I've noticed that most women in their 40's who didn;t have kids are a bit f**ked up, more scatty etc. Whether thats why they didn;t have kids or caused by not having kids, I'm not sure. Although tbh plenty who do have kids are messed up, so who knows :D.
 

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I've noticed that most women in their 40's who didn;t have kids are a bit f**ked up, more scatty etc. Whether thats why they didn;t have kids or caused by not having kids, I'm not sure. Although tbh plenty who do have kids are messed up, so who knows :D.
The women who make it to their 40s without kids often acquire pets. Good luck finding a petless, childless 40-45 year old woman. @EyeBRollin made the great point that these childless, pet owning women are no different than single moms of children. Single men, especially older single men (30s/40s men) tend to cut 30s/40s single women with pets breaks simply because they don't have children.

Single moms in their 40s are messed up too.

If a woman is not in a secure relationship when she's 40, she's likely damaged goods. Though the women that are in marriages and not actively on the market aren't usually as happy as they'd like for you to believe.
 

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The women who make it to their 40s without kids often acquire pets. Good luck finding a petless, childless 40-45 year old woman. @EyeBRollin made the great point that these childless, pet owning women are no different than single moms of children. Single men, especially older single men (30s/40s men) tend to cut 30s/40s single women with pets breaks simply because they don't have children.

Single moms in their 40s are messed up too.

If a woman is not in a secure relationship when she's 40, she's likely damaged goods. Though the women that are in marriages and not actively on the market aren't usually as happy as they'd like for you to believe.
Yes, don't blame people if they judge me negatively/scummy, but I've been seeing a married woman (shes been with him nearly 20 years) for a weeks now. I don;t bring up and she apologized and said she won;t mention it again, but the other night she said she made up her mind she wanted to have an affair with me a year or so back. She said she doesn;t know why as on paper he's been a good provider, and it wouldn;'t make sense to people around her if she was to leave him/have an affair, but she feels miserable and alone, something missing from her life. she said she hasn;t felt like this and so happy since in her early/mid 20's. I've read similar before, where people have affairs for years and years, whilst keep up happy family facade to the outside world. As if that once a week or so time with the other person somehow completes their life. Difficult to be provider type for so long and keep women happy/satisfied I guess.

She said she even said to him 'jokingly' the other day that she wants a divorce and to leave him when he attempted to have sex with her. She said she really doesn;t know much about him despite being with each other so long, and doesn;t really want to either. Communication really bad and she feels she can't talk to him on many levels like she can with me and doesn;t really know much about him, what he's thinking good or bad, as never really indicates as he's such a closed book. she can pretty much do what she wants and he doesn;t question it. She appears to have lived separate life to him with kids, taking them everywhere for sports, clubs etc whilst he just stays at home (outside of work). even goes on holiday with kids whilst he stays at home. She works as nurse, so basically just tells him shes working overnight if she stays at mine.
 
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