It seems that when I talk to a girl I have the most success when my first line is something that could get me slapped. I don't know how guys say something casual (like "do you come here often?") and get numbers, that has never worked for me. And I find that the first line is so important. I can see them closing when I say something casual and their boyfriend defenses going up. And I can see them open up when I say something offensive. When I say something offensive it's no longer an uphill battle.
Why is this? My explanation is girls like a man who has an edge and a risk taker and saying something that could get you slapped is the ultimate risk? I don't know I am just brainstorming, maybe it sounds offensive to me but it's not. Like this weekend I saw this milf getting out of an uber and I told her "I saw your panties when you were getting out of the car" I expected her to say "ew get away from me you weirdo" and walk away but I could see her instantly open up.
What's the difference between ballsy and offensive?
Why is this? My explanation is girls like a man who has an edge and a risk taker and saying something that could get you slapped is the ultimate risk? I don't know I am just brainstorming, maybe it sounds offensive to me but it's not. Like this weekend I saw this milf getting out of an uber and I told her "I saw your panties when you were getting out of the car" I expected her to say "ew get away from me you weirdo" and walk away but I could see her instantly open up.
What's the difference between ballsy and offensive?