Bar date ask out

[IamtheAlphamale]

So I've been working a bunch of girls at my work. And there's this 19 year old Asian girl who I've been messing with work wise for a few months. I work in a factory and she's in the department beside me. Anyways she's infatuated. So she was in my department for the first time on Friday and had my break and was sitting alone.

So I went up and just sat down and talked to her. The most boring part of the conversation was when I asked her hows it going. She replied. I asked hows it going again. She said something else. Then I asked hows it going again. The conversation was basically her freaking out with happiness.

Anyways She asked me if I drink tequila with crazy enthusiasm. I said I don't drink. Minute later I asked if she smokes weed and she asked if I do and I said no. Then she said she's never drank or smoked weed. I thought she was lying but I was happy she was validating to me.

Anyways my plan is to seed that I'm going to the bar Friday night on Monday if I get a chance then the next day tell her she should come with me. But we don't always work in the same department so it's not for sure I can even talk to her.

Suggestions for the ask out wording etc?

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I'm thinking actually I'm going to say this :

I'm going to x bar after work Friday night. You should buy me a drink

 

[Black Widow Void]

I'm thinking actually I'm going to say this :

I'm going to x bar after work Friday night. You should buy me a drink

This type of invite, is something that you hear on YouTube or read about in pick up books… But these so-called ‘gurus’ fail to realize that there are different dynamics to every situation.


You don’t drink and does she… But you’re asking her out for a drink?

Maybe there’s more to the tone of this conversation then you are explaining… Or the sounds kind of contradictory.

You’re not exactly winning a popularity contest and responses here, but if you’re willing to add a little bit more information, I’ll try to offer you some tips. As with any information here, there’s no 100% guarantee or ‘one shoe fits all’ , but I don’t think your intro itself would be very effective under the described circumstances .

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

This type of invite, is something that you hear on YouTube or read about in pick up books… But these so-called ‘gurus’ fail to realize that there are different dynamics to every situation.


You don’t drink and does she… But you’re asking her out for a drink?

Maybe there’s more to the tone of this conversation then you are explaining… Or the sounds kind of contradictory.

You’re not exactly winning a popularity contest and responses here, but if you’re willing to add a little bit more information, I’ll try to offer you some tips. As with any information here, there’s no 100% guarantee or ‘one shoe fits all’ , but I don’t think your intro itself would be very effective under the described circumstances .

Yeah I've been thinking about this too. I gotta do it in one go and not seed it.

What about "I'm going to x bar Sunday night you should come"

What kind of information do you mean?

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

This type of invite, is something that you hear on YouTube or read about in pick up books… But these so-called ‘gurus’ fail to realize that there are different dynamics to every situation.


You don’t drink and does she… But you’re asking her out for a drink?

Maybe there’s more to the tone of this conversation then you are explaining… Or the sounds kind of contradictory.

You’re not exactly winning a popularity contest and responses here, but if you’re willing to add a little bit more information, I’ll try to offer you some tips. As with any information here, there’s no 100% guarantee or ‘one shoe fits all’ , but I don’t think your intro itself would be very effective under the described circumstances .

I'm checking out the bar tonight so the internet says it will be slow. I'm thinking I'm gonna play this game with her where we both write on a bunch of pieces of paper random stuff (push pull ridiculousness) and tell a story by drawing the paper

 

[Black Widow Void]

“We should grab a drink sometime. I was thinking about heading over to _____ (insert local hang out) on ____ (insert day). You should join me.”

Don’t be surprised if you get a response that says she can’t make it (could be legit or might not be). This is part of the territory that happens at times.

If she asks for a rain check or says she’s free some other day, it’s still worth a shot. If she doesn’t, then despite her not being receptive, you’re able to get a clear idea of where she stands and cut bait.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

“We should grab a drink sometime. I was thinking about heading over to _____ (insert local hang out) on ____ (insert day). You should join me.”

Don’t be surprised if you get a response that says she can’t make it (could be legit or might not be). This is part of the territory that happens at times.

If she asks for a rain check or says she’s free some other day, it’s still worth a shot. If she doesn’t, then despite her not being receptive, you’re able to get a clear idea of where she stands and cut bait.

I don't have her number either actually. I'm just going to do it in person. I was thinking about getting the number on the date. I actually expect 100 percent she will be down as long as she's 19 and not 18

 

[Black Widow Void]

I actually expect 100 percent she will be down as long as she's 19 and not 18

Looks like other forum members were smarter than me (they ignored your posting). If you are 100% certain, then you’ve wasted my time.