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[SargeMaximus]

That 7/10 girl I’ve never gotten hard with messaged me this morning at 1 am. I replied but I imagine she’s either asleep or being fvcked rn.

still that’s a huge boon to my ego that she’s still coming back!

 

[Mike32ct]

That 7/10 girl I’ve never gotten hard with messaged me this morning at 1 am. I replied but I imagine she’s either asleep or being fvcked rn.

still that’s a huge boon to my ego that she’s still coming back!

Yeah, it is a compliment or ego boost. Usually, they are merciless and will ghost you if you have a bad night and fail to get a boner for them.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yeah, it is a compliment or ego boost. Usually, they are merciless and will ghost you if you have a bad night and fail to get a boner for them.

I know! And I’ve not gotten a boner 6 times with her! Lol. I only noticed her message this morning at 7am so who knows if I missed my chance but I’m down to go over and not get a boner again lol

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah, it is a compliment or ego boost. Usually, they are merciless and will ghost you if you have a bad night and fail to get a boner for them.

Hmm...has happened to me a few times. Definitely wasn't my experience that they ghosted or became disinterested.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Hmm...has happened to me a few times. Definitely wasn't my experience that they ghosted or became disinterested.

Really? All the pua “wisdom” I heard was you have one maybe two chances before she loses interest

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Really? All the pua “wisdom” I heard was you have one maybe two chances before she loses interest

I guess maybe it's because I hammered them senseless a few times before it happened so they already knew my capabilities?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Women are predictable. They constantly cycle through their options, picking the best one currently available.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I guess maybe it's because I hammered them senseless a few times before it happened so they already knew my capabilities?

In my case I never hammered her at all and she’s still coming back for more. Vibe is on point

 

[Barrister]

That 7/10 girl I’ve never gotten hard with messaged me this morning at 1 am. I replied but I imagine she’s either asleep or being fvcked rn.

still that’s a huge boon to my ego that she’s still coming back!

Probably her boyfriend couldn't get it up with her either so she reached out you for some instant validation. I hope when you say you "responded" you don't mean you instantly responded at 1:00 a.m. - thus confirming that you weren't with another chick. Should have waited until this AM and told her "sorry I couldn't respond last night - I was busy." The implication being clear.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Probably her boyfriend couldn't get it up with her either so she reached out you for some instant validation. I hope when you say you "responded" you don't mean you instantly responded at 1:00 a.m. - thus confirming that you weren't with another chick. Should have waited until this AM and told her "sorry I couldn't respond last night - I was busy." The implication being clear.

If you read the thread you would know the answer to that question of yours.

Anyhow check it out

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you read the thread you would know the answer to that question of yours.

Anyhow check it out

That chick is super into you.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That chick is super into you.

I know, it’s crazy. I never ****ed her and only gotten hard for mere seconds.

@stringpuller I’m not, but she keeps tempting me back. I always think “maybe this time” plus, it’s a huge ego boost. Thisgirl is fit af and yet she keeps coming back to me who can’t get it up with her.It’s also flying in the face of conventional pua “wisdom” which is a huge turn on mentally

 

[Striker_93]

Yes, I have some experience with this one!

Unfortunately I can relate all too well with "not getting it up" lol

Mainly in my younger party years, mostly due to drugs/drinking.

I've casually dated women who I couldnt get it up for a few times in a row and they still blew my phone up, complimented me, still would say how I turn them on, still brung me food, sent me money ect lol I just take it as them being very into me.

Hell, I've had one night stands were I couldn't get it up and those same women still pursued me after the fact, these where random girls who didn't know me from a can of paint.

You gotta have the swagger to back it up though, as in, act like you don't give a fvck and it's not a big deal.......

OP, if you don't mind me asking, what exactly do you think the reason youre having this issue?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

One thing to note is that women take it personally if you can’t get super hard. Like literally they think it’s their fault so that makes them try harder.

 

[SargeMaximus]

One thing to note is that women take it personally if you can’t get super hard. Like literally they think it’s their fault so that makes them try harder.

This is a huge relief tbh. Now I can not care whenever I have ED. With this girl I think it’s a few things, namely she doesn’t shave her ***** and she doesn’t really try to get me aroused. Almost like she has the mentality of “I have a vagina so men are automatically turned on by me” and yeah she’s fit and has a 4 pack etc but for me, unless that energy is there where she’s actively trying to turn me on, it doesn’t matter what she looks like

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I know, it’s crazy. I never ****ed her and only gotten hard for mere seconds.

@stringpuller I’m not, but she keeps tempting me back. I always think “maybe this time” plus, it’s a huge ego boost. Thisgirl is fit af and yet she keeps coming back to me who can’t get it up with her.It’s also flying in the face of conventional pua “wisdom” which is a huge turn on mentally

Probably she is wondering why you don't find her attractive and can't perform with her when every other guy has no issues.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is a huge relief tbh. Now I can not care whenever I have ED. With this girl I think it’s a few things, namely she doesn’t shave her ***** and she doesn’t really try to get me aroused. Almost like she has the mentality of “I have a vagina so men are automatically turned on by me” and yeah she’s fit and has a 4 pack etc but for me, unless that energy is there where she’s actively trying to turn me on, it doesn’t matter what she looks like

Why don't you talk to her about what you'd like her to do?

 

[Robert28]

Hmm...has happened to me a few times. Definitely wasn't my experience that they ghosted or became disinterested.

You must be dating the most understanding women in the history of the world then. They absolutely will drop you if you can’t get it up, even if you’ve gotten it up many times before.

 

[SargeMaximus]

So what is it that turns you off about her if she has a banging body?

I already answered this. Try reading

@BackInTheGame78 Kind of. I asked her about blow jobs and different sexual positions. She’s not open to either. I don’t know how to bring up her bush. Like do you just say “you know, I’d be more turned on if you shaved your pvssy”? I don’t have the text for that convo

You must be dating the most understanding women in the history of the world then. They absolutely will drop you if you can’t get it up, even if you’ve gotten it up many times before.

I like to think it’s my vibe they addicted to

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

This is a huge relief tbh. Now I can not care whenever I have ED. With this girl I think it’s a few things, namely she doesn’t shave her ***** and she doesn’t really try to get me aroused. Almost like she has the mentality of “I have a vagina so men are automatically turned on by me” and yeah she’s fit and has a 4 pack etc but for me, unless that energy is there where she’s actively trying to turn me on, it doesn’t matter what she looks like

If you don’t like the hair maybe you could say you want to make an afternoon of it and trim her/shave her as an erotic thing. Every time I’ve suggested it to a woman they get wet and yes I’ve checked. They love the idea.

As far as her expectations are concerned well, that’s all women. I’ve found it to be like the 9th circle of hell, it’s a self fulfilling prophecy she sees you’re not getting hard, you see it, she starts displaying signs of it, you get more anxious and talk about a boner killer.