Guidance for interacting with women online

[Bingo-Player]

Personally if i could avoid it i would , however it's a necessary evil for establishing basic rapport , building trust and arranging dates

Over the last 5 years a common issue i am noticing is guys are way too available online and are way too fvcking nice and polite

Social media - liking pictures , commenting on pictures , constantly reacting to stories , constantly spamming the DM's with crap

OLD - generic boring conversations about how the day has been , what she does for work and what is she having for dinner

Whatsapp / text - constantly initiating convos , double texting, morning and goodnight

NONE of this is going to get you laid , it may get you an expensive dinner date if she is bored or kind of likes you

But it aint getting you laid and ultimately in the highly competitive landscape that is modern relationships trust me that is what you want as quickly as possible

Stuff ive found that does work

Belittling her

Being cheeky infact be as cheeky as you possibly can without being nasty ....... (last week i told a chick if she kept lying her nose would grow and it was big enough already .........3 days later i was fvcking her)

Openly talking about and showing her other women you are fvcking or talking too

if you aint got any material get another phone message yourself pretending to be a plate and use screenshots

( urggh look at this chick wont leave me alone constantly nagging for sex )

Leaving her on read for 1/2/3/4 days at a time

Using terms like "good girl" when she does something that pleases you

Leaving her initiate

Telling her to shutup for a bit because you are too busy to be flirting with her right now

When things get a little saucy explain to her how you will be fvcking her and where you will be nutting , ( PRO TIP they nearly all love being choked and having their hair pulled ) it is like #1 female fetish

I ain't going to lie to you guys to get this kind of badass manly demeanour exuding from your messages isn't going to happen over night and you will need to alter your real life behaviour to match

If your a nice guy its gong to feel wrong really wrong but i promise you it is what they want and in the long run you are going to get way way better results than trying to be Ryan Gosling in a romantic comedy

Society wants you to believe you need to treat her like a princess and to a nice guy she even says she wants to be treated like a princess

IT'S ALL LIES

She wants to be subservient to her man it is biologically programmed into her she will be happiest and most satisfied when she knows she is serving and satisfying her man

You have to assert dominance over her and allow her to bend to your will .....being the "bad guy" ALWAYS allows her to do this which is why women fvcking love bad guys

 

[darksprezzatura]

Naive to (faux) Bad boy to Wise is a transition over decades.

Some parts of what @Bingo-Player says will help open up opportunities for you guys.

But remember, a pretense/facade will automatically put you in a woman's frame (though fake it till you make it would help you push boundaries and be confident).

My two cents would think of yourself like a king, a ruler of your environment with set boundaries. Fair but just.

Doesn't necessarily require pretense, but ruthless about himself and about those he cares about.

 

[Bingo-Player]

It took me 10 years from age 20- age 30 ( now ) to get to grips with actually understanding how to handle women

You don't have to be a badass all the time ....BUT in the initial stages and sex sessions you do to peak her interest then she wants to keep hold of your because she knows your different

She literally hears

"how is your day / weekend going" 50 thousand times a week

do not fall into that herd

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Personally if i could avoid it i would , however it's a necessary evil for establishing basic rapport , building trust and arranging dates

Over the last 5 years a common issue i am noticing is guys are way too available online and are way too fvcking nice and polite

Social media - liking pictures , commenting on pictures , constantly reacting to stories , constantly spamming the DM's with crap

OLD - generic boring conversations about how the day has been , what she does for work and what is she having for dinner

Whatsapp / text - constantly initiating convos , double texting, morning and goodnight

NONE of this is going to get you laid , it may get you an expensive dinner date if she is bored or kind of likes you

But it aint getting you laid and ultimately in the highly competitive landscape that is modern relationships trust me that is what you want as quickly as possible

Stuff ive found that does work

Belittling her

Being cheeky infact be as cheeky as you possibly can without being nasty ....... (last week i told a chick if she kept lying her nose would grow and it was big enough already .........3 days later i was fvcking her)

Openly talking about and showing her other women you are fvcking or talking too

if you aint got any material get another phone message yourself pretending to be a plate and use screenshots

( urggh look at this chick wont leave me alone constantly nagging for sex )

Leaving her on read for 1/2/3/4 days at a time

Using terms like "good girl" when she does something that pleases you

Leaving her initiate

Telling her to shutup for a bit because you are too busy to be flirting with her right now

When things get a little saucy explain to her how you will be fvcking her and where you will be nutting , ( PRO TIP they nearly all love being choked and having their hair pulled ) it is like #1 female fetish

I ain't going to lie to you guys to get this kind of badass manly demeanour exuding from your messages isn't going to happen over night and you will need to alter your real life behaviour to match

If your a nice guy its gong to feel wrong really wrong but i promise you it is what they want and in the long run you are going to get way way better results than trying to be Ryan Gosling in a romantic comedy

Society wants you to believe you need to treat her like a princess and to a nice guy she even says she wants to be treated like a princess

IT'S ALL LIES

She wants to be subservient to her man it is biologically programmed into her she will be happiest and most satisfied when she knows she is serving and satisfying her man

You have to assert dominance over her and allow her to bend to your will .....being the "bad guy" ALWAYS allows her to do this which is why women fvcking love bad guys

It's Disney's fault.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Kdw8]

I can debunk everyone one of your claims "that work" .

Some people really live in their heads and and in an imaginary world. You belittle a woman, she blocks you, bc who's dealing with random uncalled for disrespect from a stranger, when you probably weren't on her radar to begin with and you chose to interact and hit her up to her in the first place, not vice versa. Why should she even continue interact with you dude? She'll call you an angry manlet attention seeking incel, think you're some bitter ugly heartbroken dude hiding behind the screen, and go about her day and be more careful with who she interacts with online.

Some of you don't interact with women, just normally and on everyday life, and it shows. There's some good advice in this site which is why I frequent and check it out often, but stuff like this is weird, I only imagine mentally and socially inept or autistic people using advice like this . Imagine trying to implement this stupidity in normal everyday convos HAHA.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I have done both - learning the when and how to deploy each is where the money is…

 

[Toddz]

If your attractive and good with women you don't need to treat them badly.

I personally do very well with online dating and with dating women from IG. I usually message back and forth a few times screening logistics and looking for red flags, then ask them out if they meet my initial criteria. I avoid initiating the seduction process until in person because it's unnatural. I'm not a nice guy and supplicate by any means, but instead cool/good/mysterious guy.

I screen them. Naturally it puts them in a position where they are qualifying themselves for me. When you qualify a woman, it puts them below you and subconsciously she'll see you as higher value than 99% of the other dudes chasing her and trying to tap it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Be direct and sexual and if she is receptive, set up a meet.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Belittling is bad advice. I’d take this OP with a grain of salt.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I can debunk everyone one of your claims "that work" .

Some people really live in their heads and and in an imaginary world. You belittle a woman, she blocks you, bc who's dealing with random uncalled for disrespect from a stranger, when you probably weren't on her radar to begin with and you chose to interact and hit her up to her in the first place, not vice versa. Why should she even continue interact with you dude? She'll call you an angry manlet attention seeking incel, think you're some bitter ugly heartbroken dude hiding behind the screen, and go about her day and be more careful with who she interacts with online.

Some of you don't interact with women, just normally and on everyday life, and it shows. There's some good advice in this site which is why I frequent and check it out often, but stuff like this is weird, I only imagine mentally and socially inept or autistic people using advice like this . Imagine trying to implement this stupidity in normal everyday convos HAHA.

DO whatever you want i don't care , i am telling you after having hundreds if not thousands of interactions with women both online and offline

The advice i give is the stuff that gets them going the stuff that will make them think about you in a master way , not chatting crap about work and how her yoga class went what she is eating for her dinner LMFAO

Yea ok you aren't going to be straight up rude from the get go im not advocating that , but once a line of communication is established you can begin to dial up the tempo

Otherwise just keep posting threads about why chicks ain't replying to your messages

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

This is how you get dropped lol

 

[Bingo-Player]

Why is this advice only for interacting with women on line? Women are women whether on line or in real.

If a man is gonna be brash and ballsy, a "bad boy," then be that way both on line and in real. Otherwise it comes off phony and disingenuous.

In any event, some of the advice is true (being cheeky and asserting dominance for example), best to balance it with being kind, caring and sentimental sometimes too.

It's that balance between brash bad boy and sensitive good guy that will have her obsessed with you.

Even after you stop seeing each other, she will never forget you.

IT is both but we live in a world where 70% of men will no longer approach IRL so i have tailored specifically to online

But if you look at some of the response in this thread most are too petrified to even attempt this kind of stuff behind a screen

There is good reason books like 50 shades of grey are bestsellers i can sure as hell tell you guys ain't buying it

Women are fantasists being this nice caring polite guy can only ever allow her to fantasise about him to a certain degree and there is a high probability she will get bored

One of my ex's friends actually had to tell her boyfriend to be more rough with her in bed and she was literally the most timidest looking girl next door you could picture

 

[Bingo-Player]

This is how you get dropped lol

This mindset of caring if you get dropped is what will get you dropped playa

 

[Hamurabimbi]

‘Find the enemy and shoot him down. Anything else is nonsense.’
Manfred von Richthofen

seems like guys overcomplicate OLD. If you match. She already likes you. Let her know you want her. Save the conversations for the date. Below is an example of what I do, usually works.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

You may get dropped, but on the other hand, you might have her totally obsessed with you. For life if you do it right.

There is no in between with something like this, she either goes for you in a HUGE way or will take offense and dump.

It's a risk with a huge payoff if done correctly.

Learn balance.

And yeah I'm just a woman lol but I have experienced both. And I know which style I respond to.

I'm experiencing it now with current guy I'm dating and have experienced it in the past, and I STILL think about him.

I’ve come to the point in my life where I’ve realized gaming toxic women is pointless and can put you in a terrible position later in life if you’re unlucky. Gaming a toxic chick is like participating in the Vietnam war, yes you will win every battle but you will still end up losing in the relationship with all of your resources drained up and nothing to show for unless a kid, divorce, cheated on, lawsuit, and etc count as trophies.

Go ahead, spend your time and energy on gaming these women and come out of these relationships damaged and jaded by all of them. At some point, mature guys realize when the notch count number is just a number and it’s time to focus on other things.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Personally if i could avoid it i would , however it's a necessary evil for establishing basic rapport , building trust and arranging dates

For someone who has been an online deviant for decades, the answer is to just treat them like men. Girls will do everything in their power to make sure you know they're one so it becomes easy attention giving to them. Online, their breasts and looks and everything female that men like is hidden, so they literally have no advantage.