"Stranger Danger"

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So I asked this girl out. She didn't reject me but said, "Stranger Danger. What if I mean you harm?"

How to deal with such resistance in general?
 

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So I asked this girl out. She didn't reject me but said, "Stranger Danger. What if I mean you harm?"

How to deal with such resistance in general?
Laugh it off and reply with something like "Well I guess you'd end up getting spanked in public then for being such a bad girl" and smirk at her.

Stop being so serious...playful, fun and silly gets you far
 
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So I asked this girl out. She didn't reject me but said, "Stranger Danger. What if I mean you harm?"
That was a playful response.

She was probably hoping you would respond with a playful response.

Useless to come up with responses after the fact, but try to put yourself in a playful frame of mind before talking to ladies.

And EXPECT a little bit of subtle, playful negotiation from girls that are interested in you.

She actually gave you an opening but you didn't take it.
 

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Laugh it off and reply with something like "Well I guess you'd end up getting spanked in public then for being such a bad girl" and smirk at her.

Stop being so serious...playful, fun and silly gets you far
This was a good response. I said something stupid "I knew you want to do me no good." but there was another text to which I replied "Don't know about that but I fancy a shower right now. I know you do too. So we can do it together and save some water" to which she replied "you need to die"

Am I doing right?
 
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At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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That was a playful response.

She was probably hoping you would respond with a playful response.

Useless to come up with responses after the fact, but try to put yourself in a playful frame of mind before talking to ladies.

And EXPECT a little bit of subtle, playful negotiation from girls that are interested in you.

She actually gave you an opening but you didn't take it.
Should I text the above response now (which will be double text) or wait for her to respond?
 

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This was a good response. I said something stupid "I knew you want to do me no good." but there was another text to which I replied "Don't know about that but I fancy a shower right now. I know you do too. So we can do it together and save some water" to which she replied "you need to die"

Am I doing right?
That was incredibly awkward phrasing and something kinda weird to just bring up out of nowhere.
 

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It seems like she's serious with the "you need to die" comment. Like she's saying "fvck off".
 

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She doesn't want you conversating with her or she's tryna to be extra cautious and safe bc of many recent news headlines where people are being harmed on dates, maybe I'm be a little extreme but that's how id take it. Maybe you look like a creeper too, idk.
 

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Girls are generally risk-averse. A girl with a high level of interest would not say something that could easily be misunderstood. So even if she's being playful, she seems to have low interest (at best).
 

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So I asked this girl out. She didn't reject me but said, "Stranger Danger. What if I mean you harm?"

How to deal with such resistance in general?

Say "I'm a big boy, I can take it."

If you're hung, say "I'm a big boy..." and let the pause hang (slightly to the left)
 

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Agree & amplify is your friend here.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Laugh it off and reply with something like "Well I guess you'd end up getting spanked in public then for being such a bad girl" and smirk at her.
I’d go as far as to say that you are the best at texting game that I’ve seen on the net.

If you haven’t already (and I’ve overlooked it) I’d like to encourage you to create a posting about typical text and smooth ways to reply. You’ve really got this thing down to a science.


I probably have a reputation of being more critical than most, but when someone deserves praise, I’ll give it. You’re texting style certainly deserves that recognition.
 
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