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Never approach a fat girl

espanish

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There is a misconception out there that fat girls have lower standards and chance of rejection is lower with them. Shy guys are often told "start approaching fat girls first to gain confidence" Wrong!

Fat (and ugly) girls actually have higher standards. I don't know why. Are they living in denial? Are they trying to overcompensate for their physical appearance? Whatever the reason, do not make the mistake of thinking just because a girl is fat or ugly she is going to be easy or not have an attitude.

Approaching a fat girl will actually lower your confidence. Why? because when you get rejected by an attractive girl, at least you can justify it in your head "she has many options" but when you get rejected or given attitude by a fat/ugly girl you are like "are you kidding me?"
 

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There's times where that old liking for a little chubbiness crops up, and I find myself flirting with one at a party. If they got okay tits and their belly doesnt stick out, I can afford to bang them. To me, it's more about flexing and getting some poon. If I get rejected, I don't let it hurt my ego. She knows and I make it known that I can easily go over to the other skinny girl next to her. It's more of playing the field rather than commitment.
 

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The real problem is allowing the opinion of unattractive women, or any people whatsoever, to influence your opinion of yourself.

All the guys want an 8 or higher woman, even if they're ugly. This is no different, even if it's delusional.
 

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There is a misconception out there that fat girls have lower standards and chance of rejection is lower with them. Shy guys are often told "start approaching fat girls first to gain confidence" Wrong!

Fat (and ugly) girls actually have higher standards. I don't know why. Are they living in denial? Are they trying to overcompensate for their physical appearance? Whatever the reason, do not make the mistake of thinking just because a girl is fat or ugly she is going to be easy or not have an attitude.

Approaching a fat girl will actually lower your confidence. Why? because when you get rejected by an attractive girl, at least you can justify it in your head "she has many options" but when you get rejected or given attitude by a fat/ugly girl you are like "are you kidding me?"

Yes I agree. Thats why I always punched above my weight. I got rejected? No problem, I knew it was a long shot. But if a tried punching below my weight and got rejected my self steem would take a hit.
 

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one thing it could be is that some attractive women are nice from their pleasant and positive experiences in life, whereas some fat women are mean because life has been hard for them.

Another thing it could be is that just because you think of her as fat and ugly and lucky you're talking to her, doesn't mean she thinks of herself that way. Self esteem may be more important than her actual looks in that regard.

Another possibility is that she can sense (or assumes because she has a chip on her shoulder) that you're only talking to her because you think she'll be easy.
 

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There is a misconception out there that fat girls have lower standards and chance of rejection is lower with them. Shy guys are often told "start approaching fat girls first to gain confidence" Wrong!

Fat (and ugly) girls actually have higher standards. I don't know why. Are they living in denial? Are they trying to overcompensate for their physical appearance? Whatever the reason, do not make the mistake of thinking just because a girl is fat or ugly she is going to be easy or not have an attitude.

Approaching a fat girl will actually lower your confidence. Why? because when you get rejected by an attractive girl, at least you can justify it in your head "she has many options" but when you get rejected or given attitude by a fat/ugly girl you are like "are you kidding me?"
Lol
 

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In my experiences, unfit women have been vastly unpleasant to me than fit women.
 

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On the attitude subject, yes, absolutely the hotter ones are nicer. I'm sure we understand that fat women shouldn't be so picky, but it seems the law of nature is against us with the abundance of simps. And it's a self fulfilling prophecy cause when men keep going to the hotter ones, it just makes the fat and ugly women more bitter and it just feeds into itself. They think they're the fat queen of Wonderland, but that fictional world is where they reside.

"OFF WITH HIS HEAD!"
 

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one thing it could be is that some attractive women are nice from their pleasant and positive experiences in life, whereas some fat women are mean because life has been hard for them.
That taken in account, I have seen body-shaming on my bus before and its out-of-line. Infrequent, but maybe two or three times too many. Along with the passive-aggressive drivers, girls body-shaming pics of older men on their phones, probably before there are even old enough (and legal enough) and mature enough to understand.....I've seen it all. I needed to use this bus route for work and work-related things, its a bit heartfelt issue when society doesn't allow you not to work.
 

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I think it's because they have enough options and interest from men to boost the ego. Those fatties have more options then most men. They are spinning plates easier than men. Dudes banging them and marrying them are two different things.

I think this is only the case for guys who haven't accepted the realities of how easy it is for women to get sex. It shouldn't phase guys who have accepted it.
How does one even get a boner thinking about obese women?
 

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It’s wild. Post wall women be having three page lists. Ok sweetheart, enjoy dying alone with your cats.
Remember that thread i made with old profiles mainly of post wall women and their requirements and biographies were literally 4 pages long?
 

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How does one even get a boner thinking about obese women?
Personally, I don't. I just care about the important things on her body on the chest and between the legs.
 

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Just approach fat girls with the Humpty Hump line...

"Hey yo fat girl, come here--are ya ticklish?
Yeah, I called ya fat
Look at me, I'm skinny
It never stopped me from gettin' busy
I'm a freak
I like the girls with the boom
I once got busy in a Burger King bathroom"

You'll get laid 100/100 with this one
 

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There is a misconception out there that fat girls have lower standards and chance of rejection is lower with them. Shy guys are often told "start approaching fat girls first to gain confidence" Wrong!

Fat (and ugly) girls actually have higher standards. I don't know why. Are they living in denial? Are they trying to overcompensate for their physical appearance? Whatever the reason, do not make the mistake of thinking just because a girl is fat or ugly she is going to be easy or not have an attitude.

Approaching a fat girl will actually lower your confidence. Why? because when you get rejected by an attractive girl, at least you can justify it in your head "she has many options" but when you get rejected or given attitude by a fat/ugly girl you are like "are you kidding me?"
Women have an abundance of options, whether they're skinny, fat, slender, young or old. Even a woman that society would call unattractive could have a choice of men to service her, so even this abundance its only natural her confidence will grow and she will become more selective about who she sleeps with.


 

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One of my good friends has a wife. The wife has a good friend who is a fat woman. She is rude to almost all men in any sort of interaction. She does manage to get laid.
 

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One of my good friends has a wife. The wife has a good friend who is a fat woman. She is rude to almost all men in any sort of interaction. She does manage to get laid.
I think many of them are rude because they're mad they're fat so they take it out on others, especially if they're not fat.
 
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