Thinking about leaving need advice

[bigwuz]

After 6 years 3 kids (one not biologically mine) I'm finally thinking of leaving my wife man the thought enters my mind daily. On top of cheating on me in 2018 she's mean to my other son from a previous relationship and doesn't let me discipline the kids the way I want. We do not have the same goals in life she's content with living in public housing I had my own house before her and I got together and Iet things fall apart my friend says he'll let me move in with him in Dallas Texas but I'm unsure as I have children here in Indiana what would you guys do

 

[bigwuz]

Also want to say I really don't post on here much anymore. Life has me

 

[EyeBRollin]

Get rid of her. Cheating is unacceptable. This broad doesn’t respect you and is trying to impart that onto the children as well. Lawyer up, mate. This could get ugly. You may have to accept not seeing the kids, alimony, and child support.

Also, the house you bought before marriage should be yours after divorce.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Talk to a lawyer definitely before even mentioning it to anyone you know in real life.

 

[Jack22]

Definitely do what @Who Dares Win says and get a good attorney. He'll walk you through your options and tell you how to go about it.

 

[bigwuz]

The thing is I'm not thinking about divorce just leaving her but I have these kids with her trying to figure it the best way to do it also she wouldn't divorce me

 

[Jack22]

The thing is I'm not thinking about divorce just leaving her but I have these kids with her trying to figure it the best way to do it also she wouldn't divorce me

Yeah, but if you're planning on moving minors (even if they're biologically yours) across state lines and she decides to file a false police report against her husband saying that he abducted them, things aren't going to look too good. Some attorneys offer free first consultation, it'd be a good idea to explore your options before doing anything as I'm sure she's not going to sit idly by as she loses her meal tickets. I'm just a 20 year old r*tard though, what do I know?

 

[SW15]

@bigwuz - Leave this relationship for sure. I also recommend following @Who Dares Win's advice about discussing stuff with an attorney too.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Obviously all of it is complicated, but if you can

EJECT, EJECT, EJECT.

NEVER TOLERATE CHEATING (other than your own).

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yes, leave her.

 

[bigwuz]

I do alert have an attorney for my other baby mamas I just don't know I guess I'm probably gonna just save up get my CDL back and move out because this is not working out for me

 

[jimwho]

And when you do leave, TAKE your biological kid with YOU. Your Son will be tortured every Fkng day because he
Is a reminder of you. And a male, and she's proven to be immature and classless. Get that kid out of there.