A girl I like keeps calling me kid

[taiyuu_otoko]

Maybe she's thinking of Billy the Kid.

And she's hoping to see your slinging gun...

 

[Striker_93]

It's called teasing, shes teasing you, your younger than her so it makes sense, it's not that deep lol I don't understand the need to make a thread about it but hey.

And most likely shes not interested.

 

[HaleyBaron]

So I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. She's very receptive. She flirts and all that. But lately, whenever I try to flirt or move things forward, she somehow finds a way to call me kid/kiddie, etc.

Our last conversation was like this -
I sent her a screenshot of ingredients of some fragrance I was looking up and I sent her this
Me - I wouldn't mind wearing some *her name*(same as that of a flower used in colognes) on me today
Her - you need to level up your flirting game kiddie

Was it that bad? What should I reply?

That disrespect. You're being played, kid.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That disrespect. You're being played, kid.

Which level of disrespect? What if she plays like this, but serves him, comes to him and he gets sex when he wants it?

 

[HaleyBaron]

Which level of disrespect? What if she plays like this, but serves him, comes to him and he gets sex when he wants it?

If she really said what he claimed she said, she's not even worth the time of the day. Even if she was playing and eventually you get her into your bed, it wouldn't even be fun. Personally and I think for all men, we vibe more with women that like us than those who put us down.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If she really said what he claimed she said, she's not even worth the time of the day. Even if she was playing and eventually you get her into your bed, it wouldn't even be fun. Personally and I think for all men, we vibe more with women that like us than those who put us down.

I agree 90%. Those "micro aggressions" do add up.

 

[Striker_93]

Jesus guys she's just teasing him lol my God you would of thought she disrespected his dead mother or something, relax.

 

[bat soup]

So I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. She's very receptive. She flirts and all that. But lately, whenever I try to flirt or move things forward, she somehow finds a way to call me kid/kiddie, etc.

Our last conversation was like this -
I sent her a screenshot of ingredients of some fragrance I was looking up and I sent her this
Me - I wouldn't mind wearing some *her name*(same as that of a flower used in colognes) on me today
Her - you need to level up your flirting game kiddie

Was it that bad? What should I reply?

It all depends on the context. Does she let you finger her whilst she calls you kiddie?

 

[Lostsoul19]

It's called teasing, shes teasing you, your younger than her so it makes sense, it's not that deep lol I don't understand the need to make a thread about it but hey.

And most likely shes not interested.

I've never dated an older woman so I have no idea how to handle it. I guess I'll have to drop her. She just said "You're not my type"...

 

[Dr.Suave]

I've never dated an older woman so I have no idea how to handle it. I guess I'll have to drop her. She just said "You're not my type"...

She did u a favor. U should be focusing on women who are younger than u anyway.

 

[MatureDJ]

Is she a cougar?

 

[darksprezzatura]

Go for the kiss. Disregard chatter. Don't overthink this. You got it.

 

[B80]

Jesus guys she's just teasing him lol my God you would of thought she disrespected his dead mother or something, relax.

Yeah, it may be some weird term she likes to use with him/other people in general. May not be deliberately malicious or patronising .

 

[zinc4]

Shes dominating you. The next time she says it tell her "get lost " and be done.

This.

I know this girl's personality type. Latin women especially love to pull this **** i have noticed in a vain attempt to be the dominant one in the interaction. I would only try to bang her and nothing else OP. That is enough of a red flag for me to not pursue her for anything other than sex.

Some posters here might view it as harmless banter or playing around. But to me it signals very bad glimpses into her real physche and personality.

 

[B80]

This.

I know this girl's personality type. Latin women especially love to pull this **** i have noticed in a vain attempt to be the dominant one in the interaction. I would only try to bang her and nothing else OP. That is enough of a red flag for me to not pursue her for anything other than sex.

Some posters here might view it as harmless banter or playing around. But to me it signals very bad glimpses into her real physche and personality.

Weird how women do stuff like that, as they're supposed to be more socially intelligent in general.

Recall years ago in SE Asia, a friend was 'seeing' a Thai girl and she kept calling him her boy/little boy as he was a few years younger than her. Drove him up the wall and came to an end as she wouldn;t take the hints that he hated it. I thought maybe it had something to do with English not being her 1st language, but she seemed pretty 'switched on', 'streetwise' in general. Very strange how she didn;t seem to realize how patronizing it came across.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This.

I know this girl's personality type. Latin women especially love to pull this **** i have noticed in a vain attempt to be the dominant one in the interaction. I would only try to bang her and nothing else OP. That is enough of a red flag for me to not pursue her for anything other than sex.

Some posters here might view it as harmless banter or playing around. But to me it signals very bad glimpses into her real physche and personality.

Tell her azz to get lost... She can call you daddy or get the hell outta there.