Why is it so much harder to get matches on bumble or tinder

[EyeBRollin]

It could be your location. I’m in Sydney and absolutely surrounded by beauties. I can go from a stroll down Bondi beach and see literally 100’s of 10s.

100s of 10s?

Stop the cap! (Lie detector determined that was a lie)

 

[zekko]

I've never used OLD, but I would be tempted to use the worst pictures of myself I could find. So that when we meet, she would think "Wow, he really looks better in person". Everyone always says use the best pictures you can get, but then I'm afraid that would have the opposite effect lol.

 

[biggoal]

Ive been to Tampa and I wasn’t blown away. I believe you.

Wow. That metro area is among the youngest areas of the state of FL. Unlike my area which is the oldest.

Would you say it was because most were fat or maybe covered in tats? My area has a median age of 13 years older than the tampa area.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Umm...it's not?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I've noticed it's harder to match with women seeking flings and casual dating, but actually easier to match with LTR women and provider hunters.

I phucking hate being a magnet for them.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I phucking hate being a magnet for them.

Why not just play em'. Give them the provider vibes, smash, then dash. They have it coming... With them playing the game hard for a decade plus, time for the game to play them.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I've noticed it's harder to match with women seeking flings and casual dating, but actually easier to match with LTR women and provider hunters.

I phucking hate being a magnet for them.

I would gladly swap places with you, all I seem to attract are Slvts who just want to be Fvcked and chucked.

 

[Mike32ct]

I've never used OLD, but I would be tempted to use the worst pictures of myself I could find. So that when we meet, she would think "Wow, he really looks better in person". Everyone always says use the best pictures you can get, but then I'm afraid that would have the opposite effect lol.

I did that accidentally. I used a 6-mo old face pic (thinking it was recent). It was taken before significant weight loss. She told me I look younger in person.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

The first pic what is up with her hips? They seem awfully wide compared to her torso. When she hits 30 shes going to be pretty hefty around the waist with that type of build.

Wide hips are extremely attractive. Obviously you never find someone to date. You're extremely picky while offering very little yourself.

 

[zekko]

Wide hips are extremely attractive. Obviously you never find someone to date. You're extremely picky while offering very little yourself.

Wide hips are attractive up to a point. If they're too wide, they look weird. There's quite a balancing act involved when it comes to attraction.

Funny thing, wide hips is one thing women are insecure about, they tend to think their hips are too wide. But wide hips is part of what attracts males to them ("good birthing hips"). But they can get out of control, especially if they're too fat.

 

[biggoal]

Wide hips are attractive up to a point. If they're too wide, they look weird. There's quite a balancing act involved when it comes to attraction.

Funny thing, wide hips is one thing women are insecure about, they tend to think their hips are too wide. But wide hips is part of what attracts males to them ("good birthing hips"). But they can get out of control, especially if they're too fat.

Kim Kardashians are too big.

 

[devilkingx2]

Kim Kardashians are too big.

I don't believe in too big (on women who are not fat) when it comes to things like boobs, asses and to some extent hips and thighs.

 

[zekko]

Kim Kardashians are too big.

I think so. It's a matter of taste, however. Shoot, some guys even have an obesity fetish.

 

[Jack22]

I think so. It's a matter of taste, however. Shoot, some guys even have an obesity fetish.

It looks nice on camera, but if I saw them in real life it would freak me out.

 

[bat soup]

I got banned from hinge for unknown reasons… they don’t tell you and that’s where most of my dates were coming from. I scored a few from Bumble and Tinder was my least used. I bought the bumble premium for a month and I’m still getting nothing, I’m using the same pics from hinge so I know it’s not that.

The problem is that men and women are not equal.

 

[MatureDJ]

The first pic what is up with her hips? They seem awfully wide compared to her torso. When she hits 30 shes going to be pretty hefty around the waist with that type of build.

There is nothing wrong with that chick's hips - they are very feminine, and I would hit it; I might even fap to it . These chicks don't tend to get round, but rather pear. That said, dollars-to-donuts she is pro.

 

[MatureDJ]

... it could be they're desperate for cash.

No, it's the frustrated men that are desperate that are shelling out the cash. I'm even ready to start shelling it out.

 

[MatureDJ]

Ive been to Tampa and I wasn’t blown away. I believe you.

Most of the hotties in Tampa seem to be at Mons Venus.

 

[MatureDJ]

I don't like transactional sex. Banging a woman you've genuinely seduced is just an all-round better experience.

But sure. With 1K you could bang 2 high class 18-year old student hookers. Or you could bang 20 on tinder. You know what's hilarious? Those same hotties on Seek Arrangement are also on Tinder banging guys for free.

I guarantee that the men that are paying for the poon are at a lower tier than then men that are getting it for free.

 

[MatureDJ]

Tinder and Bumble have some bizarre algorithms, I swear they are designed to make men frustrated so they'll buy the paid version. It definitely didn't used to be like that. They also do a bait and switch by making your profile more featured in the beginning.

I've only ever used Hinge for the past few years now, and despite it having way less users, I get more matches on there, and of higher quality. Just use bluestacks if you want to bypass the ban.

I remember using bluestacks - what a memory hog that was! (Now that I have a much more powerful system, I might try it again.)