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It hurts more to men when relationships are broken off than to women.

IKO69

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It is different. Men suffer more in the short term, women in the long run. When a woman has what she thinks is the "perfect" guy and it doesn't work out, it is very damaging. Often she tries to find a carbon copy of that guy or someone even better, usually someone that doesn't exist. What happens is it leaves her frustrated and she'll make poor choice after poor choice. You've all met women like this, they are pathetic. They are the single 35+ year olds here on spring break lol.

They can fall off and get back on the saddle again while they are young but it doesn't last forever. That's the double edge sword when it comes to looks. I know someone will say "But they still get attention from guys when they are older" - yeah, undesirable guys that they would've laughed at 10+ years before.


I think it does effect men more in the short term. But long term, definitely the women. I had a ex-wife that crushed me after she cheated on me. It took months for me to get my head half way right after being together for almost 15yrs. But years down the road, and on her second divorce who still reaches out to me? She has experienced pain and never healed. She has carried that with her all these years. She never dealt we it when she should have. Women tend to internalize and carry baggage with them. They aren't great problem solvers like men who fix things and move forward.

Failed relationships definitely scar women. I've seen the carnage in women I've dated.

Address your problems, forgive, and forget. And go find another woman to share good times with. Remember no woman lasts forever. Enjoy your time with them, and when it's done move on to the next one.
I really liked this post and in MY experience I have found this to be exactly right. If you younger guys take this wise man's words, internalize it and shift the focus from women to yourself, you will not sweat any of this stuff. Issues arise because men often put a woman's needs above their own.
 
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It hurts when they break up with u, but u know what? Everytime a girl broke up with me, she did me a favor, because even though it hurt really bad, evetually I ended up finding someone hotter or younger, or both.
 

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Sort of. Women are more valuable than most men until about the age of 27-30. Then it flips. From there, average men are more valuable than average women on the sexual market.

Top tier (<10%) men are simply more valuable than women. It is much more difficult for a woman to “replace” one of those guys. Hence, “alpha widowed.”
The typical 30 something woman is more in demand than the typical 30 something man.


This is because women have so much more options, if you can go on tinder and have 99+ likes in 3 minutes you wouldn't care when a relationship ends.

For a man it's a lot harder to find a girl to date, so we are more emotionally invested
Accurate.

Generally women between 28-36 have a deep desire to give birth and become mothers. If they don’t, they become impossible to deal with.
This is true if they are childless. If you get a 28-32 childless woman pregnant, she's not going to abort even if she attend pro-abortion rallies regularly.

It actually starts much younger than that. That's why little girls like playing with dollies.

Unfortunately, nature's redpill is that women start menstruating super young.

So if you said "28-36" and look at the hard evidence and biology then you'd have to say that women always have deep desires to give birth and become mothers. 28, in nature's eyes, is an ooooooold woman. The reason she's not doing it at 18 is because she's at the casino with a giant pile of chips, playing the tables, and hoping for the big win (her alpha). This casino is facilitated by beta simps who are under the thumb, entirely, of the female hypergamous mating strategy.
In the last 30-40 years, women have gotten much older at their first child birth. In the San Francisco area, the typical woman doesn't have her first kid until her early 30s and mid-30s if she has a bachelor's degree or higher.


In the early 2010s, when there was an unplanned pregnancy in my social sphere, the woman was 28. I remember thinking to myself at that time that in any other era, this wouldn't have been considered a young pregnancy.

Its easy to get over a relationship when you've got literally a hundred guys begging you to be next. Guys usually end up alone and have to start over finding someone else from scratch, which could take weeks, months or forever. Big difference in the two post break up realities.
This is accurate. It's pretty easy for a woman to get over a breakup because her vagina is in such demand. Many times, the woman arranges the monkey branch before she breaks up with a him.

It is different. Men suffer more in the short term, women in the long run. When a woman has what she thinks is the "perfect" guy and it doesn't work out, it is very damaging. Often she tries to find a carbon copy of that guy or someone even better, usually someone that doesn't exist. What happens is it leaves her frustrated and she'll make poor choice after poor choice. You've all met women like this, they are pathetic. They are the single 35+ year olds here on spring break lol.

They can fall off and get back on the saddle again while they are young but it doesn't last forever. That's the double edge sword when it comes to looks. I know someone will say "But they still get attention from guys when they are older" - yeah, undesirable guys that they would've laughed at 10+ years before.
@IKO69 -- I guess you see 35-40 year old women on Spring Break there in Miami looking for young penis. For those of us not in Spring Break destinations, we are unaware to that reality.

Most of the time, it is the women that end the relationship, so they are less hurt. They are focused on what's next.

There are situations where women end an LTR or file for divorce and then they can't re-create what they had. That's when women suffer. In the short run, this rarely happens because they can monkey branch easily into something or experience the pleasure of having their vaginas be in demand big time. It feels good to have a 1,000 swipe queue or a flooded inbox either on an app or men trying to slide into DMs on Instagram, Twitter, or LinkedIn.
 

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Can you elaborate? What are some example of this carnage? Little things they say here and there?
InAbility to bond in future relationships, eating disorders, drinking, pills, inability to dismount from the cahk carousel, using social media for validation, lifetime members of dating apps.
 

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I love a girl as much as she loves herself. Which means I give zero of it to girls who dont love themselves [mental issues, fat, etc], and a lot to the girl who is happy and feminine and non annoying.
 
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