How do you pickup Girls at Clubs

[Zimbabwe]

So after a meetup me and the group went to a nightclub, it was super loud music with people dancing but not much interaction outside of established groups

How do you guys pickup at clubs and bars

 

[SW15]

I went to a few venues that could be considered nightclubs in the mid-2000s, prior to the arrival of the iPhone. I was in my early to mid-20s at the time. I was able to get some bangs from nightclubs then.

Even prior to smartphones, the number one distraction is nightclubs is the noise level. It's too loud for a simple conversation. You're going to primarily need to seduce with your look and then isolating her to take her to an adjacent outdoor area where the music isn't as loud. In the mid-2000s, I was able to get some bangs with aggressive dance floor game, which is less common in the post 2010 or post 2015 era.

Once people went inside nightclubs in the mid-2000s, there was almost no texting. Cell phones were around in the 2003-2006 era but few people had phones with keyboards or a keyboard touch option like the iPhone. If you wanted to send a text message, it was an ordeal because you were pressing numbers to get the appropriate alphabetic character. This discouraged a lot of texting other than the simplest messages. I've included a visual below to remind people of what texting would have been like in that era, though this is a newer era feature phone.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

You just go up to them, find something to say and see how they react. Nightclub game is easy. Yesterday I picked up a latina. I speak Spanish (quite rare where I'm from) and it was obvious she was a latina so I approached her in Spanish asking where she originally from. We start talking and within like two sentences she puts her hand on my right forearm as she talks to me. So I do the trick I usually do in nightclubs to see if they're really game and that is, when you talk you lean in to talk into her ear obviously because the music is loud but what I do here is I make sure my cheek touches her's while I'm talking in her ear. If they don't move their face away from touching yours that's green light. From there you escalate. Most hot women are impressed with your balls when you approach, I've had times where I've absolutely ****ed up my opener and they still seem glad you've had the balls to approach her. Just don't be that weird desperate creep that follows a woman around that clearly has no interest in you. You don't wanna be that guy. You know the type.

 

[Mike32ct]

I used to arrive early when the music was low, and the club was still in chill “ultra lounge” mode. That made for easy warmup, and the women were bored and open to chat (pre-smartphones). If things got busier and louder later, that was fine because I had time to adjust.

As an introvert, I was never the guy who could enter the club at midnight when it’s packed, deafening and in full swing and expect to immediately get down to business. I couldn’t instantly just go 0 to 100 like that.

 

[SW15]

As an introvert, I was never the guy who could enter the club at midnight when it’s packed, deafening and in full swing and expect to immediately get down to business. I couldn’t instantly just go 0 to 100 like that.

I identify with this as an introvert. Since I am an introvert and I also don't like staying up late (never have liked that), I eventually concluded my preferences were better suited for day game. In college and in the years after 21, I was doing almost all night game, between big college parties at apartments (hardly social circle game) and bars/nightclubs once I turned 21. It wasn't until my late 20s when I fully realized that I was better suited for non-bar approaching. I wish I had figured that out at 18 instead of 28.

I used to arrive early when the music was low, and the club was still in chill “ultra lounge” mode. That made for easy warmup, and the women were bored and open to chat (pre-smartphones). If things got busier and louder later, that was fine because I had time to adjust.

That's the best way to do it. I'm not sure if that method would be as effective now. A lot of women would be texting and some might even be swiping.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I used to arrive early when the music was low, and the club was still in chill “ultra lounge” mode. That made for easy warmup, and the women were bored and open to chat (pre-smartphones). If things got busier and louder later, that was fine because I had time to adjust.

As an introvert, I was never the guy who could enter the club at midnight when it’s packed, deafening and in full swing and expect to immediately get down to business. I couldn’t instantly just go 0 to 100 like that.

I know what you mean. It seems almost overwhelming. The loud noise and the absurdity of it all.

I would go to the raves and after hour events. I just would approach. I developed mind hacks and found tools for bumping my state. I always started fast. Avoids going into spectator mode. I found role playing and merging sets funny. I also found it funny to pawn off scrubs on hot girls. I remember Natural Tim Happy birthday openers. Pretty much anything will suffice for a girl to escape the mundanity of everyday life.

Mindsets - how can I make this fun? EVERYTHING IS FUNNY. Rejection, pickup, pulling. It's all hilarious.

How would I approach HER if I already beat it rotten &&& emptied my balls on her face???? Delusional as ****kkk but again, play to win vs not lose. Play it safe. Walk on ****in egg shells.

Zero ****s given. In all my times I never fought. Few close calls and white knights reacting because I approached their cherish. Danced with some guys girl or something like.

Obviously guys need to be intelligent and cognizant of the surroundings. I saw a thread on rsdnation where a guy approached a girl. The girl previously cheated. The nutty bf bottled him. The kid had shards of glass in his face. Horrific.

 

[Velasco]

Keys to successful bar game are:

-Venue section/timing (venue condusive to cold approach/pull O'clock)
-Dressed like the guys you see get the girls your interested in get.
-Drugs.

LED (Looks Environment Drugs)

Looks: https://looksmax.org/threads/sex-appeal-maxxing-official-guide.120684/ Environment: Drugs:

www.sosuave.net

 

[Young OG]

So after a meetup me and the group went to a nightclub, it was super loud music with people dancing but not much interaction outside of established groups

How do you guys pickup at clubs and bars

Find clubs that have outdoor areas. The one that I frequent has an outdoor area in back with a bar. I approach out there because the music isn't loud. I also occasionally will approach inside and tell the girl to come out back so I can hear her better.

 

[IKO69]

They pick you up brother. You don't have to do anything. I hope you are going to the club with friends. Hang around...what invariably happens is as a group they'll position themselves around you, waiting for you to talk to them and/or they start looking at you and stuff, making it obvious.

This is what I did in the mid to late 2000s

 

[anonymous12345]

They pick you up brother. You don't have to do anything. I hope you are going to the club with friends. Hang around...what invariably happens is as a group they'll position themselves around you, waiting for you to talk to them and/or they start looking at you and stuff, making it obvious.

This is what I did in the mid to late 2000s

I've experienced many times and read about that women if they're attracted to you will stand next to you facing their back. I find it odd, but they do it. I have never acted on it, because I haven't figured out any good way to do it. Tricky at a restaurant for instance. Tap on their shoulder? Position in front of them and convo? Anything particular to this?

 

[Bingo-Player]

I've experienced many times and read about that women if they're attracted to you will stand next to you facing their back. I find it odd, but they do it. I have never acted on it, because I haven't figured out any good way to do it. Tricky at a restaurant for instance. Tap on their shoulder? Position in front of them and convo? Anything particular to this?

Grab her by the waist and turn her towards you trust me even if she isn't interested most women love this because it allows them to naturally submit to their submissive instincts

Contrary to what you read online women actually love being touched in certain areas just not obviously her boobs or vagina

 

[IKO69]

I've experienced many times and read about that women if they're attracted to you will stand next to you facing their back. I find it odd, but they do it. I have never acted on it, because I haven't figured out any good way to do it. Tricky at a restaurant for instance. Tap on their shoulder? Position in front of them and convo? Anything particular to this?

Anything innocuous. I know people talk about the right pick up line --- the best pick up line will fail if there is no interest will fail while "hi" will work when there is interest.

You can say whatever you want to start a conversation they are hoping you will. I'll tell you what I do/did. I would wait till one of them looked at me: you'll notice in these situations one either she or her friends will glance at you from time to time - then I would just talk to them as a group by asking a situational question. At club id ask what they thought of the music or what they were drinking. I've used these tons of times and they always worked if there was any interest.

 

[Bingo-Player]

To answer OP's question really club game you need to take a shotgun approach speak to everyone and anyone that wants to talk

To get chicks in the club you need a couple of things

1) Good physique

2) Good height 5 ' 10 absolute minimum as its an ultra competitive environment

3) status in the club you need to be a on a table ideally with women on it .....dont just bounce from set to set as some will notice and you will look a clown

4) Money ( although not essential it does help )

5) Confidence to talk to her sexually

in the club everyone is thinking about getting sex she wants to hear what you are going to do to her and how you are going to do it


Last night i was out i pulled one of the hottest brunettes in my life .....i had a table in the club as it was my birthday and her and her freinds sat with us .....she was sat across from me and rubbing her foot against my leg so i knew she was interested

I waited for a few people to go to the toilet and i dragged her next to me .....i told her i was going to kiss her and she said "ok" she was so fvcking hot i wanted to bang her on the table

BUT then i got heightmogged she went to the toilet and some guy who was like 6ft 4 swooped her she didnt give me a second glance after that

That is how ruthless club game is

It was ok because i dusted myself down and pulled a cute little 18 year old bit young but hot

Club game is the harshest mistress of them all if you have a fragile ego forget about it

 

[anonymous12345]

Club game is the harshest mistress of them all if you have a fragile ego forget about it

Tell me about it. I approached two girls, they said they were lesbians which they demonstrated -- but then made out with some chad-ish guy too. I should have moved faster, there was an opportunity for moving in for a kiss with one of the girls. That chad looked at me and laughed in a mocking manner for his "victory" over me. But with a laugh at me like that, that surely downgraded it...

Well, next time.

I find it hard to adapt between different contexts, I can't follow my intuition. Club/day game, different ages, different backgrounds, etc. For instance, difference in aggressiveness/escalation between club and day/social circle game.

 

[pancakemouse]

They pick you up brother. You don't have to do anything. I hope you are going to the club with friends. Hang around...what invariably happens is as a group they'll position themselves around you, waiting for you to talk to them and/or they start looking at you and stuff, making it obvious.

This is what I did in the mid to late 2000s

You didn't need to tell us you haven't been at a club in 15 years.

Saying: "They pick you up brother. You don't have to do anything." was sufficient.

 

[IKO69]

You didn't need to tell us you haven't been at a club in 15 years.

Saying: "They pick you up brother. You don't have to do anything." was sufficient.

It is no longer my scene, but it still holds true now. I'm sorry you must be one of the unlucky ones

 

[pancakemouse]

It is no longer my scene, but it still holds true now. I'm sorry you must be one of the unlucky ones

No longer my scene = zero relevant infield experience = keyboard jockey

I went out 30 nights in Miami and was a club promoter there over the last three months.

Girls do not pick up guys in cold approach scenarios like they used to. The game has changed, especially post-pandemic. I don't blame you for your ignorance, but I encourage you to dedicate two more weeks to trying to go out to free venues and seeing how the game is played now in 2022.

 

[IKO69]

No longer my scene = zero relevant infield experience = keyboard jockey

I went out 30 nights in Miami and was a club promoter there over the last three months.

Girls do not pick up guys in cold approach scenarios like they used to. The game has changed, especially post-pandemic. I don't blame you for your ignorance, but I encourage you to dedicate two more weeks to trying to go out to free venues and seeing how the game is played now in 2022.

Of course you were the promoter. I wouldn't expect you to claim anything less here on sosuave troll

 

[IKO69]

Reality.

There are dudes here like @Striker_93 who claim that women cold approach and throw themselves at hot dudes in clubs en masse. It's just stupid. We gotta call out these liars. I think their sole purpose is to come into the manosphere to make other guys feel like sh1t.

Being a hot guy means very little to women in 2022 - you need to combine it with game and status. And even then she's not going to throw herself at you. Women with any calibration don't "throw themselves at" or even cold approach guys they've just met.

I really don't think or see the point in guys coming to a community like this to make people feel bad, but I also do wonder why some of you guys are threatened by and challenge the obvious. If a guy looks good and has success and status as you said, yes, he will have a very easy time. We have all seen this in our own lives when it comes to regular people, nevermind those of a certain status or class.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I really don't think or see the point in guys coming to a community like this to make people feel bad, but I also do wonder why some of you guys are threatened by and challenge the obvious. If a guy looks good and has success and status as you said, yes, he will have a very easy time. We have all seen this in our own lives when it comes to regular people, nevermind those of a certain status or class.

You do raise a good point, we should be doing what we can to uplift other guys here. The thing is the bar keeps getting higher and higher for men, the average guy now is a fitness junkie. A couple of decades ago most men were skinny and had a terrible fashion sense.