Reasons a woman only meets up once?

[SW15]

She didn't "all the butterflies" immediately. If you're dealing with women on swipe apps, they have extremely high expectations for a first date given that the women have hundreds of options at any given time.

 

[logicallefty]

Her interest level in you was mediocre, and other guy(s) have came along who she is interested in more than that.

 

[Zimbabwe]

It means she likes the way you look but not the way you act. You need to improve your social skills (charisma and confidence).

 

[BadBoy89]

She didn't "all the butterflies" immediately. If you're dealing with women on swipe apps, they have extremely high expectations for a first date given that the women have hundreds of options at any given time.

+1. Spot on.

If you meet women online or by through a set up, you have to be James Bond + Brad Pitt. If you meet them naturally through some connection or common interest, much lower threshold,

 

[hardboiled85]

You are a beta time ***** that she **** teases and ****s around with until her alpha ****s gets off work.

 

[SW15]

+1. Spot on.

If you meet women online or by through a set up, you have to be James Bond + Brad Pitt. If you meet them naturally through some connection or common interest, much lower threshold,

I agree that starting an interaction with a woman online makes it more likely to have a "one date, no sex, no second date" type interaction.

I don't agree with the part about a set up. I would think the threshold on a set up by a mutual acquaintance or friend would be lower than that of a swipe app. A lot of beta males get into relationships from social circle setups.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

We have drinks, and then... .

They decide they aren't interested in repeating the process.

Why is this difficult to understand?

 

[spred]

They decide they aren't interested in repeating the process.

Why is this difficult to understand?

Corect since time immemorial.
Man sets up a firm date.
Woman accepts -means she is interested
Man sets up another date. Woman accepts - she is still interested.

if woman rejects or postpone without counteroffer - she is not interested.
Corey Wayne has an expression for this,”women vote with their feet”. Means if she shows up she is interested. If not, no.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Sometimes u feel like u have great chemistry online and when u meet IRL, for whatever reason (in my case, some girls turned out to be a whale/catfish), the attraction is gone, just like that.

But it works both ways, sometimes I wasnt feeling a girl online, or I thought she dosent look that good in her pictures, but I gave them a shot anyways, and in person they looked so hot! My attraction went off the charts.