Going out with Older Ecuadorian tomorrow night (48-49)

[oc16]

I met her on Facebook dating months back. She is from Ecuador and speaks very limited English and I only know a few words in Spanish.

I am 44 and she is 48 or 49. I would not call her hot, but she does have some sex appeal.

I am NOT looking to have a relationship with her, but just some fun.

I am supposed to meet her about an hour away at a Portuguese Restaurant. She lives in a not so nice town too.

I am wondering if it is even worth it since the communication is going to be very difficult.

What do you think?

 

[SW15]

Pass. Cancel now. The combination of her being old, her limited English + your limited Spanish, and the distance between where you two live makes this a bad prospect.

 

[Billtx49]

First dates can be difficult, but too many negatives involved here, plus you’re not on home turf for the meet up…
This spells time waster.…

 

[oc16]

First dates can be difficult, but too many negatives involved here, plus you’re not on home turf for the meet up…
This spells time waster.…

Yeah, but at 48 or 49....she's horny right?

 

[Billtx49]

Yeah, but at 48 or 49....she's horny right?

Age has Nothing to do with horny…
Introspection and Recalculate your motive.

 

[SW15]

Yeah, but at 48 or 49....she's horny right?

More like 38-43. 45+ is menopause and lack of horniness.

 

[oc16]

More like 38-43. 45+ is menopause and lack of horniness.

Probably should cancel

 

[MatureDJ]

I met her on Facebook dating months back. She is from Ecuador and speaks very limited English and I only know a few words in Spanish.

I am 44 and she is 48 or 49. I would not call her hot, but she does have some sex appeal.

I am NOT looking to have a relationship with her, but just some fun.

I am supposed to meet her about an hour away at a Portuguese Restaurant. She lives in a not so nice town too.

I am wondering if it is even worth it since the communication is going to be very difficult.

What do you think?

I think you are acting like a man that is out of options - an hour away to tap an older chick that is about to be old enough to join AARP? The way some of these Latinas are, she might be a great-grandmother by now.

 

[oc16]

I think you are acting like a man that is out of options - an hour away to tap an older chick that is about to be old enough to join AARP? The way some of these Latinas are, she might be a great-grandmother by now.

Should I go or not?

 

[MatureDJ]

Should I go or not?

Since you have no other options, I guess the answer is yes.

 

[SW15]

Should I go or not?

No. Cancel. Doing nothing is better than a bad experience.

 

[corrector]

Just play it by ear and just flow with the moment. Maybe she can be a cuddle bear.

 

[Kdw8]

Not gonna work out if you speak none of her language. What if she has a husband at home and she's bored of him or cheating ?

 

[Kotaix]

Did you go for it?

There is nothing wrong with not being able to speak to eachother. In a way that is the purest form of interaction. No bullsh!t, just honest attraction (assuming it's there).

I've known of couples that fvcked like rabbits and could barely speak to each other.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Why on earth would you want to fvck a woman who is nearly 50?? If you were 70, I could maybe understand it. But you are only 44. Have some respect for yourself.

 

[SW15]

Why on earth would you want to fvck a woman who is nearly 50?? If you were 70, I could maybe understand it. But you are only 44. Have some respect for yourself.

A few weeks ago, he hesitated on an opportunity with a 43 year old woman.

Don't underestimate how approaching her in the first place makes you look confident in her eyes

Was out at a crowded bar last night, live music. Blonde was across the bar and my friend was like "Wow, that girl is like a 9"! I looked at her more closely and realized it's this woman I have known throughout the years. I would see her and her family and my Aunt's and Uncles at various...

www.sosuave.net

 

[oc16]

Why on earth would you want to fvck a woman who is nearly 50?? If you were 70, I could maybe understand it. But you are only 44. Have some respect for yourself.

Hahahah

 

[oc16]

I cancelled.

Round trip travel time was 2 hours, not so great neighborhood, hard to communicate and probably no sex.

Not to mention 75.00 in food and gas.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I met her on Facebook dating months back. She is from Ecuador and speaks very limited English and I only know a few words in Spanish.

I am 44 and she is 48 or 49. I would not call her hot, but she does have some sex appeal.

I am NOT looking to have a relationship with her, but just some fun.

I am supposed to meet her about an hour away at a Portuguese Restaurant. She lives in a not so nice town too.

I am wondering if it is even worth it since the communication is going to be very difficult.

What do you think?

Time and time again we talk about drinks only on a first date and yet people continue to want to pay for meals for these chicks. No restaurant, drinks only would be what I think.

 

[corrector]

I cancelled.

Round trip travel time was 2 hours, not so great neighborhood, hard to communicate and probably no sex.

Not to mention 75.00 in food and gas.

Foolish choice. You sought a comfort zone and found it here. Fortune favours the bold. Cancelling and chickening out is always the easy way out. You have no options so you needed that exerience. Stop talking yourself out of it or you will continue making these threads well into your 50s.

You need to open up that part of the mind and stay in the zone. What else did you do with your time that was more profitable than that?