reddit: I have found that men my age no longer see me the same way? Is settling for a less attractive man my only option now?

[MatureDJ]

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/697tc7
my opinion: She'll be a wonderful wife for the poor Beta sap that wifes her up ...

 

[SW15]

1. No one gives a rat's butt about her supply chain management job. That doesn't create erections. She clearly doesn't know about attraction.

2. 5'6" and 136 are not bad stats but she does need to work out more.

3. She lives in Los Angeles and is White/Hispanic. Not bad. Los Angeles has a surplus of men.

4. Her personality doesn't shine in this.

5. She does need to lower her standards or find a new market. She's trying to seduce high level executive males. Not happening.

6. It's been 5 years since her original post. Maybe she's gotten married and had babies.

7. Her best bet was to find some AFC/basic beta male.

 

[biggoal]

1. No one gives a rat's butt about her supply chain management job. That doesn't create erections. She clearly doesn't know about attraction.

2. 5'6" and 136 are not bad stats but she does need to work out more.

3. She lives in Los Angeles and is White/Hispanic. Not bad. Los Angeles has a surplus of men.

4. Her personality doesn't shine in this.

5. She does need to lower her standards or find a new market. She's trying to seduce high level executive males. Not happening.

6. It's been 5 years since her original post. Maybe she's gotten married and had babies.

7. Her best bet was to find some AFC/basic beta male.

31 years old and in LA? there are tons more women more attractive wise than her. It sounds like she's a dime a dozen there. Also, those men she described have better paying jobs than her which hot women who are gold diggers find appealing.

Sounds like she's bitter because she can't get a guy with a high status job and is miserable working.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Chickens come home to roost sooner or later. At least as men we can always get better imo

 

[EyeBRollin]

Lol, Women don’t understand their own hypergamous ways.

Problem is she waited too long. She thinks her fancy management job entitles her to top tier men. She is basing her sexual expectations on her socioeconomic status. This is a common fallacy modern women subscribe to.

Men, invest in pet food. She’s one of the millions of old single hags that will “settle” on being pet moms.

 

[biggoal]

Lol, Women don’t understand their own hypergamous ways.

Problem is she waited too long. She thinks her fancy management job entitles her to top tier men. She is basing her sexual expectations on her socioeconomic status. This is a common fallacy modern women subscribe to.

Men, invest in pet food. She’s one of the millions of old single hags that will “settle” on being pet moms.

31 isnt old. Her problem is shes entitled and feels bitter she has to work.

She wants a guy who makes 190k a year so she can stay at home and be a house wife.

She's trying to aim for the top 8 percent income earners.

200k men are not a dime a dozen. They have a high skill that earns them that.

You see these women on old for years. They want a doctor, lawyer, or vice president.

When a woman is aiming for these 200k guys theyre competing with other women.

She could easily find a decent guy if she wants. Her problem is shes so picky and wants a wealthy guy. Most guys dont make 200k a year.

She smells like a big time gold digger.

 

[EyeBRollin]

31 isnt old. Her problem is shes entitled and feels bitter she has to work.

She wants a guy who makes 190k a year so she can stay at home and be a house wife.

She's trying to aim for the top 8 percent income earners.

200k men are not a dime a dozen. They have a high skill that earns them that.

You see these women on old for years. They want a doctor, lawyer, or vice president.

When a woman is aiming for these 200k guys theyre competing with other women.

She could easily find a decent guy if she wants. Her problem is shes so picky and wants a wealthy guy. Most guys dont make 200k a year.

She smells like a big time gold digger.

31 is old. Men with money don’t have to choose post-wall women. If they are with one, chances are they were married before he had the money.

This chick will be a professional cat lady. Invest in pet food.

Men, listen carefully. Women will not settle. They’d rather be miserable, lonely bvtches than wife to an AFC.

 

[biggoal]

31 is old. Men with money don’t have to choose post-wall women. If they are with one, chances are they were married before he had the money.

This chick will be a professional cat lady. Invest in pet food.

Men, listen carefully. Women will not settle. They’d rather be miserable, lonely bvtches than wife to an AFC.

I thought post wall was over 35 on here?

A guy in his early 40s with a good job isn't going to be marrying some 23 year old chick just out of college. Tom Brady, Aaron Rodgers both date, marry women 30 and over.

usually when it's an extreme age gap it's like a guy in his 50s with money getting the chicks 25 years younger who are gold diggers. I don't see pre wall women going for men over 50 unless they're gold diggers. Most men I see mid 30s to mid 40s usually have spouse within 5 years of them.

I'll be 39 this year and TBH if I had money and wanted to be married I'd rather have a hot lady around my age like Gisele Bündchen than some airhead 22 year old ditzy bimbo who plays games. There are a lot of women over 30 who are hot. Even Gisele for example if you're a guy around her age and thinks she's old and post wall then they must be gay or something.

People like Brady don't want to put up with bullsh*t. Being a pro sports player he could get a young hottie if he wanted to.

 

[zinc4]

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/697tc7
my opinion: She'll be a wonderful wife for the poor Beta sap that wifes her up ...

Clearly her looks are on rapid decline and her annoying career obsession doesn't help.

Most women can only look hot through their teens and early to mid 20s. Especially the average western woman.

There are plenty of high earning men who will wife up a super fit and young looking 30 year old women. I have seen many times. Even.40 year range. These women exist who stay hot looking for a long time. They usually are not your typical western cows though and take very good care of their selves diet and exercise wise. Asian, south american or eastern European descent usually.

 

[Robert28]

Another one flung off the carousel before she was ready to be. I bet she still thinks she calls the shots and acts like it when she goes on dates now. News flash, she doesn’t call the shots any longer, she just thinks she does.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Women prioritize career, live that party girl, bar star fast life get wrecked by their own stupidity. On my come up, by mid twenties women were playing house or eagerly vetting fellas. After sex and the city and all the ****ery fed boot first women are reaping the rewards of their hard work. Lulz! Not SRS

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Another one flung off the carousel before she was ready to be. I bet she still thinks she calls the shots and acts like it when she goes on dates now. News flash, she doesn’t call the shots any longer, she just thinks she does.

There's a dork somewhere watching 6 day long rp vids beating his chest and watching pron. Tons of dorks around the corner willing to bend the knee. Fellas marry the village bicycle.

 

[biggoal]

Another one flung off the carousel before she was ready to be. I bet she still thinks she calls the shots and acts like it when she goes on dates now. News flash, she doesn’t call the shots any longer, she just thinks she does.

A woman should never be in charge! You need to hold frame. Too many men would simp on just the first date though. Hold frame.

 

[MatureDJ]

2. 5'6" and 136 are not bad stats but she does need to work out more.

That's getting close to being chunky. If she has big knockers, and her waist is still small, this would work for me.

 

[EyeBRollin]

People like Brady don't want to put up with bullsh*t. Being a pro sports player he could get a young hottie if he wanted to.

Tom Brady has been married for over 12 years.

 

[dude99]

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/697tc7
my opinion: She'll be a wonderful wife for the poor Beta sap that wifes her up ...

The wall is pretty hard isn't it!!



Let me sum up her letter with coles notes

"Dear readit. I am self centered and focused 100% on looks. I demand a hot guy for my entertainment and selfish needs. I find it unnerving and bothersome that the attractive guys that i want to have a relationship with want girls more attractive than me. Why are they so selfish?"

 

[Smok1nAce]

I'm 31 and was just talking to a girl maybe 34-36 at work.

she's unmarried still 80 grand in debt from school and is so focused on the rat race she's going more in debt to buy up property to build an "empire", her words not mine. Her ego is sooo big.

I almost felt bad for her but I'm no captain save a hoe and feel bad for anyone guy who gets close to her. Shes not a bad looking women extremely average, but she so focused on trying to be something she not it's destroying her happiness.

Once you see it you cant unsee it, its very eye opening. I have contempt and feel sorrow for alot of career women because most of them are not cut out for it. It dives them to pursue things that ultimately make them unhappy and alone, but because they are the only ones to blame for their actions it makes them create a wall of egos to save their pride.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

That reality is quite common among single women her age. At least she is honest to say "find a guy I am not attracted to but checks every other box".

In my experience, a single woman that age simply gets a dog. The dog then becomes their adventure partner, love of her life, child, etc, etc.

There is too little context to know how she really is. As we all know, most women say one thing but act another. So while she sounds like she's got it together, who knows in reality what she's truly like in person.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Zimbabwe]

No one gives a rat's butt about her supply chain management job. That doesn't create erections. She clearly doesn't know about attraction.

Women have this really weird idea that Men actually give a sh*t about their jobs.

She does need to lower her standards or find a new market. She's trying to seduce high level executive males. Not happening.

In most cases these women have absolutely nothing of value to offer, yet they expect the top quality men to date them.

It's also hilarious reading the entitlement in the comments from these low value 40 year old women. It's a real lack of self awareness

 

[biggoal]

I just messaged a cute 45 year old who viewed my profile. Divorced, degree, and has kids.