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Fat B*tches ruin hookups and making new girl acquiatainces

HaleyBaron

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I would not have written this thread if I did not have the same pattern throughout my experience talking with girls. But seriously, I really hate fat b*tches. They always ruin what you have going with a girl. To give summary, I've been getting attention all night at a super bowl party. Eventually, one girl reached out to me and we talked and vibed. Even her friends were liking me. But then her fat b*tch of a friend convinced her to go home. I didn't take it too much of a loss cause I have other girls, but this got me a little fed up with how this keeps being a thing.

We need to find some way to negate fat b*tches ruining our hookups. These self loathing women ruin the fun of thousands of guys every night. I usually never lose my cool, but this is one subject that drives me up the wall.
 

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Game/Open girls you're not interested in first and become friends with them, while cueing in the girl you're interested in.

I've been fat once in my life, so I feel some empathy for fat women. Considering its a bigger struggle for them to lose weight compared to men (lack of testosterone)

Not here to preach, but live and let live, people have their own set of insecurities to deal with.

Imagine girls discussing "I'm sick of those guys with small d!cks, they ruin everything for my hot chad interests"
 

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I really hate fat b*tches. They always ruin what you have going with a girl. To give summary, I've been getting attention all night at a super bowl party. Eventually, one girl reached out to me and we talked and vibed. Even her friends were liking me. But then her fat b*tch of a friend convinced her to go home. I didn't take it too much of a loss cause I have other girls, but this got me a little fed up with how this keeps being a thing.
I'll agree that overweight women seem to be the worst about cocckblocking. However, a decent amount of average looking women and fit women cocckblock too.

The best way to avoid cocckblocking is isolation. Non-bar, non-private residence party venues are some best places to approach women when they are not alone and not being influenced by their friends. About 10 years, I shifted most of my approaching efforts to non-bar venues in part for the isolation factor and in part because I didn't like staying up late to meet women.

@HaleyBaron -- In your time zone, the Super Bowl ended at a reasonable hour, so that wasn't applicable last night but night game often ends quite late. I'm also curious about the party itself since I started a thread on Super Bowl parties this week.


Was this is a close, social circle type event? Was this party organized primarily by single, unattached people or marginally attached people? Mostly single attendees?

Game/Open girls you're not interested in first and become friends with them, while cueing in the girl you're interested in.

I've been fat once in my life, so I feel some empathy for fat women. Considering its a bigger struggle for them to lose weight compared to men (lack of testosterone)

Imagine girls discussing "I'm sick of those guys with small d!cks, they ruin everything for my hot chad interests"
I have some empathy too because losing weight is a major ordeal. It's best not to gain the weight in the first place because of the unpleasantness of the weight loss process.

I have heard the school of thought @darksprezzatura mentions with group dynamics. This is why I prefer to do day game and isolation. I've never enjoyed approaching groups, even groups as small as 3 people. Of course, I've never had a good wingman to work with when doing approaches. For lone approachers like myself, non-bar venues tend to be better but some parties can be ok for lone approachers. Depends on the party.

Some size queen women might have that discussion. There are women out there only interested in having sex with men with large penises.
 

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That's why your suppose to socialise with everyone including the big girls, get em on your side not against you, but I think it's hilarious how fed up you are about it , and don't say you hate fat b!tches
Bruh it ain't that deep, lmaoooo
 

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No excuses, but a sometimes dudes need a bunker buster. Obviously, it depends on how fat. 10-20 lbs isn't that bad, plus the BJs feel better. However, on the flip side would be an anorexic female. Quite possibly worse than an fat one. Either feels like you're fvcking a skeleton or there's literally nothing to grab on to.
 

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Part of the game. Get a wingman, both of you gotta take one for the team now and then and bang each others c0ckblockers.
 

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@SW15 Public event so lots of singles and couples alike. It felt like a typical night out at the club or bar. Bunch of dressed up females standing around while the men watched football. Then afterwards, the real socializing began.
 

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Imagine girls discussing "I'm sick of those guys with small d!cks, they ruin everything for my hot chad interests"
Women do discuss that though. Rather openly too.
 

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You gotta figure a girl's friends into your equation. Often they will go out in a group. If you are vibing with a girl and one of her friends shows up unannounced, be ready for them to pluck her and have a plan B.

That could be :
Offer to be their driver or have a ride lined up they can join
Have an alternate party/event to steer them to
Have a wingman ready to fall on the grenade or distract the potential **** block.
Get invited to join them to where they are going
Get the Mother hen to give you her blessing to isolate the friend you are interested in.
 

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Offer to be their driver or have a ride lined up they can join
Have an alternate party/event to steer them to

Have a wingman ready to fall on the grenade or distract the potential **** block.
Get invited to join them to where they are going
Get the Mother hen to give you her blessing to isolate the friend you are interested in.
So the bolded four is basically what I did. We all expressed we were hungry, so I was like "I'll drive us." And I know the logistics, I did speak with the fat one, too, cause I knew she was the Mother Hen. But unfortunately, she was convincing the girl down across from me. I have a math equation that the better you look, the more upset the mother hen will be against you. The exception is if the person looks really rich or has lots of fame, then that trumps everything. In the end, it's all about if the girl herself chooses to ignore her fat friend. It means I wasn't that desired despite her feeling all over me. Or she has options [which is normal these days].

It is what it is.
 

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It is what it is.
So did you get contact info from your target? Sometimes there is no winning that night, and the sooner you recognize it , the less time you waste. Or you just outlast it.

  • I had one girl all over me on the dance floor but didn't want to disappear on her friends. I got her number and texted her from my house. she held firm. The next morning she texted me to "hang out"
  • Me and a buddy lured 3 girls back to our campsite and were both isolated when the third wheel realized what was happening and literally hollered she was leaving. I should have had a wingman for her too.
  • My platonic female friend had a hot female friend visiting. I hung out with them through 3 different venues and back to the platonic friends house. Eventually the platonic friend had enough to drink and went to bed leaving me alone with her friend.
  • Met a tall woman who loved french kissing me on the dance floor. Her friends show up and get my number. I think they searched my phone # on social media, didn't like what they saw , grabbed her and whoosh....out of there...
So as you can see...Win some and lose some..
 

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We all need to listen to @Pan87 and stop giving Fat chicks validation by sleeping with them. Men need to have some standards and self respect
 

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@SW15 Public event so lots of singles and couples alike. It felt like a typical night out at the club or bar. Bunch of dressed up females standing around while the men watched football. Then afterwards, the real socializing began.
My Super Bowl Party thread was focused more upon private residence type events than public events. A public event would feel similar to a typical night out at the club or bar. Thank you for providing that detail.
 
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