article: How Do You Tell Your Wife She’s Too Fat? And you don’t find her attractive anymore?

[MatureDJ]

How Do You Tell Your Wife She’s Too Fat?

And you don’t find her attractive anymore?

medium.com

I asked my friend what the problem was. He told me he loves her, she’s the best woman in the world, and he’d do anything for her, but something has changed with her weight, and she’s just gaining more and more. She’s close to three-hundred pounds now. It’s getting to the point that he’s not finding her attractive anymore, which bothers him.

She’s gained so much weight now that her knees hurt when she walks anywhere. Going up the stairs leaves her red-faced and out of breath. She can’t collect the kids from school because she can’t walk that far now (it’s a fifteen-minute walk). She can’t get out to see her mother or friends without needing a ride, as she finds it too uncomfortable to get behind the wheel and drive herself.

 

[Dr.Suave]

"Yo b1tch! Lose some weight"

Joking aside. Once u no longer find her attractive, can u really put the genie back in the bottle?
I guess sometimes you can, sometimes you cant.

I remember when I was in high school. There were some whale girls that were friends. One of them got some kind of surgery and in a short amount of time became very thin. I never found her attractive because in my mind she was always going to be a whale.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Two options:

1) You don’t. Accept her fatness.

2) Get your divorce attorney ready and start cheating. When you get caught she will either go nuclear and file for divorce or (there is a tiny chance) she will at that point wonder why you stepped out to screw other chicks. Chances are, she will just divorce you.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Sit her down, and let her know that the weight is a problem. Bring up solutions like a diet plan and working out at the gym with you.

If she refuses then you cheat on her.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Not getting married in the first place fixes this

 

[metalwater]

why should she take care of herself unless she is or planning on cheating? the guy told that he will do anything for her and had her on a pedestal. he needs to pull back some. if a woman stays good-looking it is because she is getting attention outside or sees the man getting attention outside. it is one or the other; no exceptions.

in this extreme case, he should have a talk with her out of concern for her health (no need to tell her that he has lost interest). he also should softly demonstrate he has options. unless she is sick, this is a form of disrespect. the same applies to men that become slobs, if the woman stays looking good, who is that for...

 

[lost_blackbird]

She’s close to three-hundred pounds now. It’s getting to the point that he’s not finding her attractive anymore,

This is the reason why these women are the way they are. He should have been disgusted the day she passed 150lbs and withheld
the diq until she sorted herself out. He's watched her turn into Jabba the Hutt over YEARS and stood by and let her do so while still
tossing the occasional trouser sausage her way to validate her efforts to become a walking heart attack. My question is simple.
What guy really wants to bang a chick who is pro wrestler weight? He should have voted with his feet so to speak and boarded up
the hole between her legs until you don't have to lift a huge flesh roll to even be able to see it. In my mind, he's just as culpable for
the state of her as she is, by virtue of staying with her and by doing so endorsing her self abuse.