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biggoal

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I just noticed on POF now once you send a single message it won't let you message that said person again unless they reply back to you. I've noticed the last couple years OLD sites have been taking features away or make you pay for upgrades to get full usage.

Match LLC killed OKC a few years ago.
 

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That actually sounds like a good thing to me, no need to waste time on people who don't want to talk to you.

But yeah they're all money making schemes, their goal is to profit, getting you laid is purely coincidental.
 

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I'd say only message them when they're online, but POF is beyond dead now.

If we're lucky we might be able to keep them quarantined. We're going to need a lot of hazmat tape though.
 

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I'd say only message them when they're online, but POF is beyond dead now.

If we're lucky we might be able to keep them quarantined. We're going to need a lot of hazmat tape though.
All the OLD sites pretty much suck since they were bought. It's a monopoly with Match LLC owning most of them. They've also neutered Match as well now. Gotta pay for more features.

OKC sucked but was "okay" before Match bought it because you could easily message and search for people. They changed the entire format when they purchased it.

tinder when they bought it limited the swipes you do before you gotta start paying for Gold.
 

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I just noticed on POF now once you send a single message it won't let you message that said person again unless they reply back to you.
You need to understand it’s a good business move. Keeps the horny male spammers from going overboard and blowing up the females inbox and becoming a nuisance. Making them walk away when no interest is shown by her…
 

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You need to understand it’s a good business move. Keeps the horny male spammers from going overboard and blowing up the females inbox and becoming a nuisance. Making them walk away when no interest is shown by her…
Actually i think if you pay for the premium you get unlimited messaging.
 

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POF has been dead for years. OKC has also been dead too.

In the late 2000s/early 2010s, they might have been viable. A lot of garbage dates could be arranged from them. "One date, no sex, no second date" type dates if you sent out enough decent messages.

Women never took their OKC and POF prospects seriously during that time.

Swipe apps changed the game. Tinder has a short period where it was good at producing quantity of dates before it went to shiit. Bumble and Hinge too on quantity. Everything is shiit now.

Approaching strangers has always been the better play for putting yourself on quality dates. Better yet, warmer approaching or having a viable social circle. Nothing beats social circle for quality. The downside of social circle is that you have to be more blue pilled to do it in a lot of cases, though a serial monogamist alpha/sigma could do it if he had semi-extended relationships.
 
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