Every Man Here Needs To Date Multiple Women

[zekko]

no need to do anything to hurt the girl, but she has to know that you can but choose not to. she should never think you have no choice or that she is the best you can do.

You are correct. Of course, either I can get other women or I can't. Either she will think I can get other women or she won't. If she respects me and sees me as a man of value, she will assume other women will see that also.

I'm not going to bang some other chick in front of her to prove it to her. I will interact with other women in her presence, like any normal person. Perhaps she will infer that some are or could be attracted to me, I don't know. They say that a woman's friends might influence her opinion on such things - but I seem to notice that women seldom have positive things to say about their friends' chosen men. Anyone else notice that?

 

[metalwater]

- but I seem to notice that women seldom have positive things to say about their friends' chosen men. Does anyone else notice that?

yes, that's a big yes. they sit around and chat about a husband that they are not friends with the girl if the guy is of high value. they are not friends with the girl because the guy keeps his ltr away from the harem. all very insidious and it works. your absolutely right in the observation, but likely not with the reason.

 

[derby1]

In the UK About 3 years ago, I elevated my plate spinning game to another level. I thought my daughter and I could do with a few free holidays.

So i logged onto OLD and lured a load of single moms into a false sense of security, ones who lived in Historical cities or by the beach.

I made them believe a LDR/LTR was on the cards, and we would go and stop in all the places they lived, there was also zero chance of them meeting each other.

Had some great times. and my accomodation was free whilst i went into places Like Bath city for the day.

 

[Don Dark Horse]

3 plates. Have 2 over together and rotate in 1 is actually spin 1.
Or have all 3 over at once.

Not sure if you being serious or trolling here, @stringpuller

 

[HayashiST]

no

Spin plates dude

 

[MatureDJ]

I need to be able to spin a single plate before I can think of spinning multiple ones.

 

[2Rocky]

When you are dating multiple women, there usually is a hierarchy . There is always "the One to beat". The rest are "Contenders". Ironically the one to beat is seldom the most attractive.

 

[Don Dark Horse]

100% serious. If your into that sort of thing.
I dont know what it is about me but ive always attracted Bi or Bi curious girls. My whole dam life.
You would be quite suprised what women are into when you dont judge them sexually.
Never had 3 at once. But im open to it. Could get a bit crowded though.

I've never invited more than one girl at a time over before, so will def keep this advice in my back pocket.
What is it about you, do you think, that attracts those types of girls?

When you are dating multiple women, there usually is a hierarchy . There is always "the One to beat". The rest are "Contenders". Ironically the one to beat is seldom the most attractive.

What makes the "one to beat" that way?
I can imagine it would be the girl that falls most into your frame.

 

[Glassguy]

Keep the bases loaded! One in your bed, one on deck, and several others on the reserve list. Approach dating just like women do and your results will improve.

I agree. When you run a rotation, you're playing the game most women TRY to play. Plan on burning through a lot of women in a year, thus it's important to always have 4-5 on standby.
For me, 2-3 steady plates is perfect. Sometimes 4 isn't bad depending on how needy the current women are in the rotation.

It's easy in the beginning because the women don't expect to see you more than once a week. So 3 chicks, 3 evenings. The longer you spin them, the more they expect and it gets tricky.

Every man that can get dates should run a rotation at least once or twice while he is single. It gets your game sharp, creates abundance and most importantly, when/if you find yourself in a LTR that's stagnant or going sideways, it's easy to eject because you know how easy it is to get 3-4 women back on your lap.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Keep the bases loaded! One in your bed, one on deck, and several others on the reserve list. Approach dating just like women do and your results will improve.

I try but a common theme with me is it’s relatively simple to get one girl but once I try and get another, all my prospects dissipate and disappear. It’s like they all know somehow and women don’t want to share

 

[BadBoy89]

After finishing with my ex last year i took a few months to get my head together and then ended up going on a rampage sleeping with anyone that submitted to my charms

What did you do that was charming that they submitted?

 

[EyeBRollin]

youre going to catch oneitis for the right girl regardless of how many plates you are spending

Nah. There is no “right girl.” She has to be the best option

 

[zekko]

almost in all ways one of the most damaging events for a man other than death is being dumped by a woman he loves.

That's true. It's painful, I'm not going to lie. But it isn't anything I haven't been through before. As unpleasant as it may be, I know it isn't going to kill me.

 

[MatureDJ]

When you are dating multiple women, there usually is a hierarchy . There is always "the One to beat". The rest are "Contenders". Ironically the one to beat is seldom the most attractive.

I've read that in those crazy polygynous Mormon communities, the wives compete to sexually please the husband so that they get a shorter cycle in the rotation.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I've read that in those crazy polygynous Mormon communities, the wives compete to sexually please the husband so that they get a shorter cycle in the rotation.

Sounds like i need to convert, too bad we don't have Mormons in Australia.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

After Reading the excellent thread from @cola I started to do a lot of thinking about dating multiple women vs strict monogamy.

“Should I be going on dates with the same girl until I decide I want her or not and then move to the next one? Or should I go on dates with a couple different girls and then decide which one I want?

I feel like if I date more girls, I’ll be able to pick someone who I really want and not just the first person who wants to be with me. The first person might be great though but why limit yourself to one at a time?

If a woman wants exclusivity, she has to earn it from you. My goal for 2022 is to have a rotation of at least 3 women at the same time.

@Zimbabwe mate, after a decade + of pickup. In this time, I can count a handful of baeeeees worth the time. I'm saying 99% were hit and run material. Even if the handful, none I'd play house with.

Much of game is subconscious and you project it outwardly. I'm not able to see you irl but I can say from go, you put off the play house vibe. Not playboy.

Grow teeth. Be an absolute neanderthal. The old school pickup notion was to be unapologetic. I'm taking my d out. If not her, I'm chatting up her hotter younger sister or friend. I don't get this vibe from you. Not saying that you have to become a hit man. I'm saying fellas need to become a mercenary. She wants to make am man civilized. Not be civilized off rip.

There should be a invisible msg of "unavailable." My life is my own. Will not commit. Not playing house. This isn't you but be able to shift gears. Pick her after going on a rampage. Most pick the first semi cute ran village bicycle before divorce rapey. You got run way. You got time. Get bank. Focus on more important things then play house.

 

[MatureDJ]

Sounds like i need to convert, too bad we don't have Mormons in Australia.

The demographics required for a stable polygynous society makes it de facto instable. The Mormon sects that still practice polygyny have to cull its excess men (they are termed the "Lost Boys"):

Lost Boys: Young men excommunicated from the polygamous FLDS cult

The term “Lost Boys” refers to hundreds of young men who have been excommunicated or pressured to leave polygamous religious sects of the Mormon Church. This is most often the case in the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (FLDS) — a high-control cult. Many of the boys...

www.religionnewsblog.com

It really is OVER for LostBoyCels.

 

[2Rocky]

Sounds like i need to convert, too bad we don't have Mormons in Australia.

Oh you do....

As of 31 December 2019, the LDS Church reported 154,595 members in 308 Congregations in Australia which is the largest body of members and congregations in Oceania. This is an increase of 30,945 members since 2009 which is the largest increase of members in Oceania.

But to be honest, few people would want to live their life in the manner necessary to be a true fundamental polygamist.

Mainstream LDS doesn't allow polygany anymore....

 

[Zimbabwe]

Oh you do....



But to be honest, few people would want to live their life in the manner necessary to be a true fundamental polygamist.

Mainstream LDS doesn't allow polygany anymore....

I honestly wonder why this is even illegal in the first place, they allow two men to marry but not one man to multiple women.

Most women would rather be the third wife of Chris Hemsworth then the only wife of Seth Rogan.

 

[Hal9000]

The good thing about dating multiple women is that it keeps you from getting the dreaded "oneitis" which I think most of us agree is to be avoided at all costs. It also really accelerates your skill and comfort levels with women. I mean, you can either date one girl for a few weeks, then have a few weeks looking for the next one, etc, or you can be seeing multiple girls the same week and learning from every experience with each of them. Its a real force multiplier compared to dating one girl at a time. I'm not advocating a lifetime of plate spinning, as it can be exhausting, but it certainly has its advantages if you can pull it off for a while.