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A lot of issues men have with women is that they expect women to love them “unconditionally” like their mothers and this is never the case. Female love is conditional, transient, and fleeting. Females only care what they can “get” out of the man. The “love” they give the man is for something in return. Yet since men have brought up by the love of the mothers, they believe women should love them with no strings attached.
A man’s only job is to have sex with a woman and get her pregnant. A man can want friendship and companionship from a woman, but companionship is fickle and the law encourages women to leave men who don’t make them happy. On top of that, women don’t make good friends. They exist to have sex with, get pregnant and make babies, that’s it. Other than that, there is not much a woman can do for a man that a guy cannot.
Everything in society must have a use otherwise it is considered worthless. It is the same thing with women, women past the fertile age are almost useless to men. They can be contributing useless members to society, but for the individual man, they are useless.
So remember men:
Women do not love unconditionally
A woman’s only job is to get pregnant
If a man follows these 2 rules, he will be successful with women.
Providing unconditional love is something even parents struggle with, so there's no point in making it sound like an issue exclusively with women.
As others have mentioned, this is too rudimentary to be of value, and is self-fulfilling. If you think all women are not friend material, then how can you expect to ever have any? It sounds like you come to women out of lack, to fill some void, and then are disappointed and frustrated when that void isn't perfectly filled so you demote all women to the role of 'strictly cvm dumpster'. You're putting too much pressure on others to provide for you emotionally, rather than showing a genuine interest in others because you enjoy making them feel valued.
I have female friends that I don't fuuck, and it doesn't bother me because I know how to assert my boundaries. Many women have an emotional depth that makes the average guy seem like an inanimate object by comparison. It's unfortunate that you haven't been able to see this for yourself, but all you really need to do is keep your mind open and have more than two boxes to put women in. The more categories you have for women (and people in general), the more you're able to empathize with them, until hopefully you realize boxes are pointless and everyone is unique.
Here's a good mental exercise to train an open mind; when you sense you're frustrated with a woman, put her in your friendzone and treat her accordingly. If you still feel bothered then demote her to acquaintance. Create these general categories and let people move between them according to how compatible they are to your core principles. Let their movements between these categories help you expand and strengthen your principles for a fulfilling life.
You'll find that some people have qualities you truly admire, despite not lining up perfectly with all of your expectations. A truly aware man finds inspiration to grow in all of his interactions, and is bothered by none of them (because he's skilled in the art of regulating his relationships). Even someone that's angry with you is an opportunity to practice patience and asserting boundaries.
Women are much more than baby makers, just like men are much more than relish dispensers.
