“Because I can”

[SargeMaximus]

Hey guys so I was talking to this girl online and we went to Snapchat and I asked what she’s looking for then she mentioned her ideal age range which isn’t my age so I’m like “why are you talking to me then?” And she goes “because I can” so I ended it there but wtf?

 

[Billtx49]

Hey guys so I was talking to this girl online and we went to Snapchat and I asked what she’s looking for then she mentioned her ideal age range which isn’t my age so I’m like “why are you talking to me then?” And she goes “because I can” so I ended it there but wtf?

Whether true or not, she’s either signaling higher status or desirability to you and definitely projecting her frame on you… Why?

 

[Barrister]

Stop letting the sh1t these women say affect you so much. Play it off or don't even bring it up. Why are you asking her "what she is looking for" in the first place? Hell she probably isn't even sure what she is looking for.

FYI - If you are in your 30s and she is in her 20s, if age is the only category we are talking about, you have a great chance to bang a woman if all other things are aside.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Stupid questions elicit stupid responses. Why would you even ask her about her "ideal age range"? If she's talking to you, assume she's interested.

 

[derby1]

you failed a sh!t test

Exactly

Respond : "Good job I'm fine as Fck for 34"

 

[Velasco]

Stupid questions elicit stupid responses. Why would you even ask her about her "ideal age range"?

Reread. He didn't ask her about her ideal age range. She just mentioned that as one of the things, in response to him asking her what she's looking for.

But u right about stupid (sperg) question eliciting rude responses

 

[Zimbabwe]

Firstly why did you add her on snapchat? Just get her number and organise a date.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Interesting responses. A few things:

- she was 47

- I can’t help if I’m Asperger’s and dont appreciate the hate. It solves nothing

- I have no idea why she was projecting that frame. Everything was fine till that point

- I switch to Snapchat because I like to give girls a choice number or texting app. Some girls don’t want to be text stalked so I remove that possibility

 

[SargeMaximus]

….a FORTY SEVEN year old woman using Snapchat and this doesn’t set anyones alarms off?

I don't have a clue what it's like dating at this age but if it means I need to resort to Snapchat, then someone...please shoot me.

“Newfangled technology!” Am I right?

 

[Alvafe]

better question is why are you wasting time on a 47 woman? are you asking for her introduce her daughters to you?

also you guys want to find a woman over the internet and can't undertand why there is so much crap?

 

[SargeMaximus]

better question is why are you wasting time on a 47 woman? are you asking for her introduce her daughters to you?

also you guys want to find a woman over the internet and can't undertand why there is so much crap?

Are you new? I’ve tried the whole “approach and pua” thing years ago for a few years to no effect. I went my own way and went exclusively online and began getting laid on the regular. Countless times. Mostly 5-6’s but a few 7’s and even a few 8’s.
Therefore I will be continuing with online since it’s the only way I’ve ever gotten laid. Ever.

 

[Stuffnu]

Always redirect - never disclose.
Be playful..
Young enough to show you my Tonka toy.
Old enough to show you a few tricks.…

 

[DonBud94]

Really comes down to meeting women online, don't. Most if not all have issues, some are bat crazy. I wouldn't even bother. But if you do bother don't take them serious until they have proven they should be taken seriously.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Always redirect - never disclose.
Be playful..
Young enough to show you my Tonka toy.
Old enough to show you a few tricks.…

Genius. How would you suggest I develop that, whatever that is? I don’t talk like that at all and it’s so foreign to me

 

[SW15]

Stupid questions elicit stupid responses. Why would you even ask her about her "ideal age range"? If she's talking to you, assume she's interested.

Agree. Never ask dumb questions.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Agree. Never ask dumb questions.

I didn’t ask her what her ideal age range was. Read the OP

 

[SW15]

I didn’t ask her what her ideal age range was. Read the OP

Asking a woman her ideal age range is a silly, disqualifying question.

 

[derby1]

OP this is a masterclass in handling women, notice the indifference, aloofness, and fun comebacks....

 

[B80]

OP this is a masterclass in handling women, notice the indifference, aloofness, and fun comebacks....

Yeah I think thats definitely am important ingredient dealing with women, particularly those you've only recently met. If you start getting defensive or breaking down their comments with logic, its on a downhill spiral, as women don;t respond well to it, even if what you're saying is factually correct.

Woman I used to sleep with years ago has recently been in touch and usually ignore or make silly remarks to 'disarm' her when she steps over the line/sh1t tests, which seems to work. Every now and then I'll push back and disagree more overtly/prove her wrong and she just gets funny about it, spoils the vibe. But as shes bored in her 40's/attraction seemingly very high, keeps coming back for more later on, but I'd imagine someone new/online dating would move away from you.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Stop letting the sh1t these women say affect you so much. Play it off or don't even bring it up. Why are you asking her "what she is looking for" in the first place? Hell she probably isn't even sure what she is looking for.

In 15 years in the field and thousands of interactions with women i have not once met a woman who genuinely knows what she is looking for

The question "what are you looking for" is despised by most women because they want a man to show them what they are looking for

Its like one of them generic questions you should never ask a woman very similar too "how's your day going"