Flirting with and getting attention from women 10+ years younger is much more exciting

[oc16]

I doubt I am not alone in this. I am 44 and not too attracted to women within 5 years of my age range.

I had a woman (fairly attractive) at the gym give me a slight smile while she was on the cardio machine. It didn't really excite me one bit since she looks around my age. If this same woman was early 30's or younger; I would feel very good about myself and excited.

Anybody else feel this way? I didn't have much luck with women in my 20's, I wonder if I unconsciously feel I need to make up for what I never had.

 

[manfrombelow]

Of course men are wired to drool over young fertile female. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[characternote]

Pretty normal and probably an element of, as you say, feeling like you missed out

A few years back I wrote an FR here and I was already like 30, and I smashed some super hot 17/18 year old. The sort of girl i'd just see on the bus or walking down the street and assume i'd have more chance of winning the lottery than banging, but I was able to get her. Felt amazing for a few days. Not that I was ever 'incel' or anything, but I certainly wasn't out banging hot teenagers when I was young so I understand that feeling of playing catchup with the young ones!

I recently started banging another hot young one (posted about her in a recent post of mine. She also actually knows that 17 year old! Small UK town struggles!) and it's a nice little ego boost

 

[Kotaix]

Men are hardwired to be attracted to fertile women. And I get way more attention now than I did when I was younger.

 

[Snag87]

Yea, I'm bored by women remotely close to me in age. I'm 34 and had sex with two 19 year olds this year. My ideal girl is 18-20.

 

[SW15]

Yea, I'm bored by women remotely close to me in age. I'm 34 and had sex with two 19 year olds this year. My ideal girl is 18-20.

Two 19 year olds as a 34 year old is impressive.

 

[Plinco]

Yea, I'm bored by women remotely close to me in age. I'm 34 and had sex with two 19 year olds this year. My ideal girl is 18-20.

I know what you mean.

 

[Snag87]

Two 19 year olds as a 34 year old is impressive.

It's less impressive because I lied and told them i was 27...

 

[SW15]

It's less impressive because I lied and told them i was 27...

Yes. Lying about your age makes a longer term relationship out of the question. Once a woman finds out the lie, you're finished.

 

[Snag87]

Yes. Lying about your age makes a longer term relationship out of the question. Once a woman finds out the lie, you're finished.

You really don't believe she'd ever stay? I think it's possible. Unlikely but possible.

 

[corrector]

That is why I would target building an online penpal relationship with a yonger girl in another country than than meet an older lady in person locally. It is next to impossible to meet a yonger girl through OLD locally as many of them have upper age restrictions.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

That is why I would target building an online penpal relationship with a yonger girl in another country than than meet an older lady in person locally. It is next to impossible to meet a yonger girl through OLD locally as many of them have upper age restrictions.

Still plenty of younger girls to meet on OLD. At least if you are in an area with a decent size population. Thank goodness for girls with Daddy Issues.

 

[MatureDJ]

I knew a 54 y.o. guy that was banging a 16 y.o. chick , and he said that the erectile problems he had been having with his former 40-something women had gone away.

 

[Jor-El]

I knew a 54 y.o. guy that was banging a 16 y.o. chick , and he said that the erectile problems he had been having with his former 40-something women had gone away.

We can only assume,he was in,at least,reasonable shape,otherwise,praise the lord! Ha

 

[corrector]

Still plenty of younger girls to meet on OLD. At least if you are in an area with a decent size population. Thank goodness for girls with Daddy Issues.

Yeah, doesn't hurt to send out winks or messages to local 18-24 year olds as opposed to just focusing outside the country.

 

[corrector]

I've looked through the Christiancafe website, and there are only 9 girls who are locally listed between the ages of 18-25 years. I've winked at all of them and sent a message with one of them. Based on the numbers and my own profile, the likelihood of getting anywhere is likely nill to very low chance.

The number slightly improves when I add more distance from my address, but nothing too dramatic. Even if I look for a total in my own country, there are only 71 girls who are listed between 18-25 y/o. In Ontario it's only 29.

Now think about this. People complain about a very low reply rate with OLD, like you have to send out 10 messages before you might get a reply here or there. What are you going to do if there are only 9 who are likely getting allot of attention already on there?

However, the situation changes dramatically with two other countries: Africa and South-East Asia.
In South-East Asia there are 464 girls who are 18-25 years who have profiles that are up.
In Africa there are 646 profiles that are up who have girls between 18-25 years old.
In Latin American countries (which I actually did target), they have 146 girls in this age category. Actually worst than America where its 375.

For the moment, at least on this website (don't know about others that are out there), the only likely way to engage a girl who is really younger than I am is aim for another country (this includes America BTW), especially one like South-East Asia or Africa, and develop a penpal online relationship.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Of course men are wired to drool over young fertile female. Nothing wrong with that.

lol this is all you need to know. Young women are natural to be with. I think you can go all the way to 18 as you should.

 

[DonBud94]

I knew a 54 y.o. guy that was banging a 16 y.o. chick , and he said that the erectile problems he had been having with his former 40-something women had gone away.

I belive that's called statutory rape dude, and it is heavily frowned upon especially in prison systems. If you ask me I'm not impressed cause hes messing with a 16 year old kid her mind hasn't matured yet.

 

[manfrombelow]

lol this is all you need to know. Young women are natural to be with. I think you can go all the way to 18 as you should.

You can go all the way to the bare minimum age that can legally have sex with you, depending on the law from where you are. And that's OK.

 

[manfrombelow]

I belive that's called statutory rape dude, and it is heavily frowned upon especially in prison systems. If you ask me I'm not impressed cause hes messing with a 16 year old kid her mind hasn't matured yet.

Depend on the local law. If 16 is legal to have sex then why not?