Girlfriend broke up with me after I spent Christmas Day with my family.

[The Duke]

I'd say this girl is mad about something else she isnt happy about. Rarely what breaks the camel's back is the same as the root of the problem. Women are notorious for letting the true issue fester, the lashing out about something else. Life is too short for manufactured drama.

 

[Glassguy]

I'd say this girl is mad about something else she isnt happy about. Rarely what breaks the camel's back is the same as the root of the problem. Women are notorious for letting the true issue fester, the lashing out about something else. Life is too short for manufactured drama.

This is true and I agree with the others who say this was probably a while coming and this was just the opportune time for her to end things when the situation presented itself.

@TheProspect gave solid advice. 2 years is long enough to attempt a conversation with her. But if she balks at that idea, just give her S&D.

The best revenge is finding someone better, forgetting about her and living a happy life. And OP, you have 100% control of that.

 

[nismo-4]

Happy New Year OP, well if only she weren't seeing Tyrone before the ball dropped.

She just needed an out to get away from you. Maybe you did something in 2020 that lingered. Well, instead of investing in this girl, invest in some real estate. Grow your business. It's over like 2021. Go get a better girl. You can do it. I believe in you.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

She looks like she was looking for an excuse to get out.

This ^^ @Floydispink01

Women do not break up with men for one reason and so suddenly. In my experience, women that break up relationships have already made that decision a while back and the act of breaking it up is only a formality. Meaning, in her mind/heart she was gone way before this happened and most likely unhappy about other underlying things or simply found somebody else with more money and better looking.

To your inquiry, and based on your side of the story, this is simply an unreasonable reason to break up with someone you've been together with for so long and are so invested as you guys are/were.

That only reinforces that as Woujo said, she was looking for an excuse to split.



Modern Man Advice

 

[Bokanovsky]

Come 10pm I get very angry messages from GF saying she can’t believe I’m choosing staying down my families over her. She calls it disrespectful and humiliating. I tell her it’s an hour’s drive and I cant get home because I lent the car to her. She gets animated saying she didn’t know her daughter was going to stay. She proceeds to tells me Goodnight.

Come Boxing Day, she doesn’t pick me up. As it’s a holiday their is no public transport so I borrow my brother’s car that afternoon. I try to speak to her at the house but she adamantly tells me not to approach her. We live together so we are now staying in seperate rooms. Come a few days later, she tells me to pack my things up and leave. She never wants to see me again. I was downright disrespectful and I don’t care about her.

She sounds like a cvnt. Good riddance.

 

[Bokanovsky]

All I had to read was “girlfriend of a couple years.”

You guys gotta shvt or get off the pot. Women don’t do these long ass relationships.

LMAO.

Listen to this guy if you want to be a miserable cvck for the rest of your life.

 

[EyeBRollin]

LMAO.

Listen to this guy if you want to be a miserable cvck for the rest of your life.

Oh right. Carry on with telling average men to be “spinning plates” until they’re 80 years old.