Hardballing: the latest trend in dating, a very positive thing!

[DonJuanjr]

I've done the exact same/similar approach in grocery stores many times over the years. Notice how I state my sexual intentions directly ('I'm not looking for anything serious, just casual sex, maybe a fvck buddy' and that I told her I'd like her to come over to my place so we can make passionate love to each other).

This is an example of a positive reception to being direct. Are the majority of responses looks of disgust, blowouts ect?

 

[DonJuanjr]

@SargeMaximus have you tried being direct like op with any of your cold approach attempts?

 

[DonJuanjr]

I see way too many holes with this.

I see you wrote this in another thread:

I have/had a reputation as a "player".
A female friend of mine introduced me to another female saying "This is Scars, he's probably gonna try to fvck you tonight." (She said it sarcastically/jokingly but I also think it was a little bitter because I kind of friend-zoned her)

This caught me off guard but my instinct was to reach out my hand and shake hers and say "Hi, I'm Scars and I'm probably gonna try to fvck you tonight." After I said this, the girl was glued to me. She followed me around the rest of the night and seemed to only want to talk to me.

Long story short, we ended up having sex.

Couldn't it be argued that you were being direct when you said it? It was true after all.

 

[SargeMaximus]

@SargeMaximus have you tried being direct like op with any of your cold approach attempts?

Not exactly. I always feared some liberal minded woman or passerby getting triggered and going off on me. One of the reasons I wanted to learn martial arts but I think that ship has sailed. I seem to attract the crabs in the barrel doing anything remotely good for myself. People pounce on me hard. Requires me to be more subtle and control the encounter. I like online because there are no other elements just me and the girl

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not exactly. I always feared some liberal minded woman or passerby getting triggered and going off on me. One of the reasons I wanted to learn martial arts but I think that ship has sailed. I seem to attract the crabs in the barrel doing anything remotely good for myself. People pounce on me hard. Requires me to be more subtle and control the encounter. I like online because there are no other elements just me and the girl

"They" just don't like to see you succeed. There must be something about you.

 

[SargeMaximus]

"They" just don't like to see you succeed. There must be something about you.

I’ve got an indominable spirit

 

[Pandora]

Women want to be destroyed. They prefer a man they would be happy with. Good luck in 2022.

What do you mean destroyed bro? You mean sexually?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I’ve got an indominable spirit

Win!

 

[Scars]

I see you wrote this in another thread:


Couldn't it be argued that you were being direct when you said it? It was true after all.

Oh, it was definitely direct.

My post on this thread was more leaning towards the fact that women can never be honest because they hardly ever know what they want.

If men want to be direct I am fine with that, and actually encourage it. I just can't see women following the same suit. This "movement" was more than likely created by women anyway.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

You're not a direct guy correct? Have you tried it?

Definitely. Did both. Better outcomes indirect or a variation of the two.

 

[derby1]

Ive never had much luck with mode 1, if im direct and give off "instant hook up vibes" Ive always been shut down, as if shes some virtuous woman.

when Im a liar and make them feel like their going to be a G/f I get better results...

go figure.