Alpha widowing is reversible and overstated

[Pandora]

We tend to think that you can "alpha widow" a female and she will forever be longing for you. That she will always compare your mythical persona to every other guy. This is not the case. I have found that alpha widowing can be diluted by her having many partners after you. You, Mr.Alpha will become a distant memory.

1.) I had one girl I met when she was 19 and I was 28. I definitely alpha widowed her. She was in love big time. Used to fly across country ( she would pay for 1/2 the flight) to see me and meet my family etc. She would cry over me etc etc. We didnt work out due to distance. Fast forward many cawks later and she is not enamored anymore. She may let me kiss her but doesnt really let me smash. My dominant position in her psyche has been replaced by even more "alpha" guys. This girl is in therapy now and is a basket case from all the pleasant and not so pleasant encounters. She has had at least one domestic violence experience. She barely replies when I text now.


2.) I had another girl that would also travel to see me. I never thought that I would lose a place in her "heart". Had her as a plate for many years. She was super high interest. Well fast forward many cawks later and she is lukewarm about me. When she sees me she will let me kiss her but she doesnt let me smash. She has had ALOT of sexual encounters and at least one semi rape. She does not reply when I text now.

Both of them say something very interesting when I ask them what changed. They both say "whats the point of smashing? You are not the one. We will not fall in love." Almost like they gave up on love. This is coming from women who were once deeply in "love" with me.

If you had asked me years ago would they ever be luke warm about me I would have said no...never. This may seem like a captain obvious post but it just shows that there is no true love with promiscuous girls. Their heart is connected to their vagina. And with enough partners even the most alpha guys will be forgotten. You memory will be displaced by even more indelible experiences. It sucks.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

We tend to think that you can "alpha widow" a female and she will forever be longing for you. That she will always compare your mythical persona to every other guy. This is not the case. I have found that alpha widowing can be diluted by her having many partners after you. You, Mr.Alpha will become a distant memory.

1.) I had one girl I met when she was 19 and I was 28. I definitely alpha widowed her. She was in love big time. Used to fly across country ( she would pay for 1/2 the flight) to see me and meet my family etc. She would cry over me etc etc. We didnt work out due to distance. Fast forward many cawks later and she is not enamored anymore. She may let me kiss her but doesnt really let me smash. My dominant position in her psyche has been replaced by even more "alpha" guys. This girl is in therapy now and is a basket case from all the pleasant and not so pleasant encounters. She has had at least one domestic violence experience. She barely replies when I text now.


2.) I had another girl that would also travel to see me. I never thought that I would lose a place in her "heart". Had her as a plate for many years. She was super high interest. Well fast forward many cawks later and she is lukewarm about me. When she sees me she will let me kiss her but she doesnt let me smash. She has had ALOT of sexual encounters and at least one semi rape. She does not reply when I text now.

Both of them say something very interesting when I ask them what changed. They both say "whats the point of smashing? You are not the one. We will not fall in love." Almost like they gave up on love. This is coming from women who were once deeply in "love" with me.

If you had asked me years ago would they ever be luke warm about me I would have said no...never. This may seem like a captain obvious post but it just shows that there is no true love with promiscuous girls. Their heart is connected to their vagina. And with enough partners even the most alpha guys will be forgotten. You memory will be displaced by even more indelible experiences. It sucks.

Even though they have lost hope on you , how do you know they have stopped holding the feelings they once had for you as a gold standard and expecting every other guy to live up to that fantasy?

 

[Pandora]

Even though they have lost hope on you , how do you know they have stopped holding the feelings they once had for you as a gold standard and expecting every other guy to live up to that fantasy?

Good point. I do not know that they not using me as a point of comparison. It would be impossible not to. We use everyone as a point of comparison regardless of whether we do it consciously or not.

The younger one did say " I used to cry over you, but then I got older and dated a bunch of other guys. Now I am wondering why I was ever tripping over you". Bro that hurt me in my feels im not gonna lie. I hung up the video chat and went to sleep haha. So I am basing this post partially on that statement.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

In fairness, it's coined by somebody who last dated when AOL messenger was a thing. I think the women are a mess and ran through. The amount of obesity is off the charts. The affects of drugs, birth control, booze, and lifestyle can't be under stated. I think the alpha widow offered a limited but new understanding beyond just body count.

@Pandora mate, I don't think your experience disapproved the phenomenon. It just changed your perspective. You alpha widow her. She looks for safety elsewhere. Couldn't tie you down or play house. After the 1000 cawk stare skiing down cawk mountain, all bets are off. She's for the streets.

I've had girls comeback who thought I was the same as before game. I got D sucked and I bounced. This was on my come up. Now I wouldn't even read the msg.

Good point. I do not know that they not using me as a point of comparison. It would be impossible not to. We use everyone as a point of comparison regardless of whether we do it consciously or not.

The younger one did say " I used to cry over you, but then I got older and dated a bunch of other guys. Now I am wondering why I was ever tripping over you". Bro that hurt me in my feels im not gonna lie. I hung up the video chat and went to sleep haha. So I am basing this post partially on that statement.

Pandora mate, CARING IS OVERRATED. Some modern woman jump off. Skat!

Tate Bros went off on a rant about these *** dumpsters. Women are slobs today. The alternative is the foreign girl virgin or has two kills, and is ASHAMED of it. The biggest difference between modern women *** dumpster vs the alternative. The alternative is boring but stable.

I stopped caring a long time ago. A girl with her hymen or 1 body doesn't respond that way. It's ****ed here.

The worst thing you or I could do is paying any mind to female logic. I don't text girls from the past. The block delete function is underrated and under utilized.

 

[Pandora]

In fairness, it's coined by somebody who last dated when AOL messenger was a thing. I think the women are a mess and ran through. The amount of obesity is off the charts. The affects of drugs, birth control, booze, and lifestyle can't be under stated. I think the alpha widow offered a limited but new understanding beyond just body count.



Tate Bros went off on a rant about these *** dumpsters. Women are slobs today. The alternative is the foreign girl virgin or has two kills, and is ASHAMED of it. The biggest difference between modern women *** dumpster vs the alternative. The alternative is boring but stable.


The worst thing you or I could do is paying any mind to female logic. I don't text girls from the past. The block delete function is underrated and under utilized.

Yeh dude you make a very good point. I am not realizing how much havoc drugs, booze, and promiscuity has on their psyche. Its devastating. You are very correct about the foreign alternative. I am going to a foreign nation in a few weeks.

 

[Pandora]

because their SMV has gone up so much in the past 5 years due to tech alone. You would have to date way down to widow someone today.

Ahhh i see what you are saying. A lot has changed between the time I used to smash her and now. Yeh but I thought I would have a loyalty member benefit to the puzzy. No rewards for brand loyalty with these hoes.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I agree with the title. I think too many users here have a bunch of mental barriers saying "what's the point?" Ironic, I know, since I won't approach anymore because there is no point. But that has come from finding a superior way for myself, and simply not wanting to waste time.

What I'm getting at is, if you don't see yourself as alpha and make other people higher in priority than you (her feelings or experiences don't change how awesome YOU are), then you've lost before you even started. Assertively move towards what you want and let her be the judge. You don't know till you try.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yeh dude you make a very good point. I am not realizing how much havoc drugs, booze, and promiscuity has on their psyche. Its devastating. You are very correct about the foreign alternative. I am going to a foreign nation in a few weeks.

It wrecks women. Feminism champions dumpster babies and abortions aka murdering babies. Add in gang bangs and a lifetime of getting ran through. These people don't deserve a afterthought nor are they worthy of any time.

Compare and contrast the dumpster fire that is modern women to your foreign experience. It's not even comparable. Modern are Netflix and chill material because it's funny. And even there they fail at. Bodies for days and she still can't ****. Femininity is dead in the west.

Fellas still play house with slobs. There's an absurd amount of house husband's on YouTube pedaling nonsensical game rubbish. Zero receipts but new digital program... can't approach. Never pulls. Sign up. Even more hilarious is that the loudest sperg and most belligerent of the bunch is the ultimate house husband. This is what the younger generation is learning from a boomer playing house.

You are doing it right playboy. Actually living it. A thread the other day was about not approaching because a girl looked away. #cucked!

Classic house husband boomer advice.