You are missing one of the principles of female nature: Actions over words.I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.
Just asking for advice
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
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I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.
Solid advice thank you.You are missing one of the principles of female nature: Actions over words.
In your case, you are on the good side of things. She is displaying positive actions. Focus on what she does, not what she says or in this case texts.
Also, guys need to stop overthinking interactions we have with women. Relax, enjoy it, man. Focus on what you can control and embrace every possible outcome chin up high.
Over and out.
Modern Man Advice
being off for Christmas has done this I think. im back working and doing hobbies very soon so it shouldn't bother me for long.If you're noticing her replies being slower, match them. You're probably overeager yourself.
Cue for getting busy with your own life.