Its a fine line man. But you can low key display it. It shows up in your lifestyle and in your interests. My interests and my professional goals and the way I pursue them is what sets me apart from other men. This is not bragging, its just me doing whatever I can to gain a significant advantage in the dating market. It's me just angling a way in with women when my looks alone, frankly, will not get me top notch women.
I am not really ostentatious about it. It's more of a life style thing that I low key 'sell'. It usually shows up in the form of me just being busy doing things a little out of the ordinary. Money just allows me to do more interesting things than the average person. I'm just playing the cards I was dealt. I was not blessed with above average height (Im 5'10). I was not blessed with far above average looks (I am bald, my head is shaved, lol). I cannot compete well with men that are 8's in 9's based on looks. Where I choose to compete is lifestyle and my interests. I have a good attitude and a positive mindset. You will not hear me complaining, ever (or hardly ever at least). I have a FAR above average work ethic than others. There are very few people that work harder or that are more ambitious than me. My friends playfully make fun of me, but at the same time admire me for it. They joke and kid and say that I am 'Extra'. If they are playing tennis a couple times a week, I will be playing every morning and will take a trip to Florida for intensive instruction for a long weekend. If I am playing volleyball, I am conceding no points.
Here are some examples- when I am at the gym, I have a trainer training me. When I play tennis, I am getting professional lessons to improve because I genuinely want to get better and dominate my friends. Or I am shooting trap. There are cheaper hobbies than tennis and trap shooting. I am just getting my slight, but very distinct edge on other men in everything I do in this manner. When I cannot meet up with a date at a certain time, its because I am playing tennis, a cleaner is still cleaning my place, my car is being detailed, or I am going to a motorcyle show.
I get Spanish lessons every day. Why? Because I am taking a trip to Mexico City next week (which I am) and want to speak it fluently to navigate the city and experience the culture. Or I will be in Puerto Rico for work in a month (which I will be). I never say at first where I am going. I just say I will be out of town for the week. Of course, they ask why, where are you going? I let them uncover it.
Or if its through online dating. A girl will send me a current picture of what she's doing or we will video chat. I'll send her one back and I'll be in a high end vehicle. A couple days later, and I will return a picture in a different vehicle- the one I drive for work with a completely different interior. Is it Tacky? Probably at least a little bit. I think so, lol. Does it work? YES.
