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Used to show up to social events that way and get a "you look tired" neg from the ladies with moderate-high interest there, except there was a ring of disappointment there...they wanted me to be able to charm them and to look better.
Been there and done that. And honestly those type of comments from women are the worst. Would rather deal with a flake.
 

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I cant tell you how many times I've been blown out of a set because I was too tired to really ramp up my charisma. An energetic man is an attractive man, not someone on their 6th cup of coffee just to stay awake.
Would you call "charisma" a "flow state"? IE: you are into a "charismatic" state and it's automatic? But you can also be out of it?
 

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Really depends on region. in Metro NYC, 46k wouldn't get you much. A one bedroom in the Bronx or even in Bridgeport is between 1500 1800 a month. One could prob. live like a king in the south/mid-west though (why would anyone want too, IDK).

I've always strived to make $$$ and self-supporting since my teens. We were poor and were nearly thrown out of our home more than once due to $$$ issues. Females always came second for me. Eduction and $$$ were and still are my #1 priority. Just remember, money makes more money, females can and do come and go. Every dude's # 1 is to be self-supportive and make money. Everything after that falls in line. Nothing wrong with hanging with other dudes and getting laid. However, if one doesn't plan early for sufficiency in finance, they will regret it later.
Why don't you want to live in the South or lower Midwest.

Why not move to Florida? My town has a median age of 67 years. You could be my wingman and you'd meet all sorts of women here since you're older :)
 

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Why don't you want to live in the South or lower Midwest.

Why not move to Florida? My town has a median age of 67 years. You could be my wingman and you'd meet all sorts of women here since you're older :)
LMAO. Why would you choose to live in a town where the median age is 30 years higher than your own age?
 

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LMAO. Why would you choose to live in a town where the median age is 30 years higher than your own age?
That's how it is. My county overall median age is 57, county to my north is 56, county to my south median age is 50, and next county is 52. Not my fault this area of FL is full of old people?
 

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Why don't you want to live in the South or lower Midwest.

Why not move to Florida? My town has a median age of 67 years. You could be my wingman and you'd meet all sorts of women here since you're older :)
Merry Christmas to you biggoal. I hope you're able to spend some time with the people you love.
 

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That's how it is. My county overall median age is 57, county to my north is 56, county to my south median age is 50, and next county is 52. Not my fault this area of FL is full of old people?
A median age of 50 is a heck of a lot better than 67, albeit still older than the national average (which is about 38). Why not move to a different area though?
 

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guys that complain are actually better men because they're playing the game and losing as opposed to running caveman game.
Guys that complain about women over and over again, time after time, need more help than this forum can provide.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Biggoal, do you still live with your parents and that's why you're in that particular part of Florida instead of somewhere else?
 

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Daydrinking, Hank?
Not sure who Hank is, but here's a perfect illustration of me saying something kind to someone, and getting crap for it.

That guy hasn't even responded, proving that 90% of you are only here to complain endlessly and create drama.

I'll let you get back to it.
 

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I'm sick of seeing you complain about guys complaining... It's like you think females can do no wrong. I get it there comes a point when one needs to work on themselves, but the complaining is justified. Let's not forget that men have the ultimate trump card when it comes to sex. They can take it if they so choose. Females don't have a say in the matter. It's only by the morality and civilized nature of men that females can walk around like their shjt don't stink.... So, guys that complain are actually better men because they're playing the game and losing as opposed to running caveman game.
gotta complain about something. either women; or complain about men complaining about women. the common bond is complaining. and I am complaining about that.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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everyone, literally everyone, will become average or below due to age eventually.
Also, most people go through average on their way to better things. Hardly anyone starts at the top.
 

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Also, most people go through average on their way to better things. Hardly anyone starts at the top.
except for women that are a 10.
 

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He is Willie D
Also known as Willie Dynamite

Anyways,
On the topic of complaining.
The only people that like complainers are other complainers. And no, I’m not complaining.
Are you drunk again Hank? Lol when did you start today.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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