You constantly read women don't want to be stared at the gym or don't ever stare at a woman at the gym. I feel the rules and etiquette at the gym are different.
I do my best to try and sneak in glances here and there and I think if a woman likes you she will help you.
Today, cute personal trainer was there working out on her own time with big head-phones in.
I was about 10 yards from her in between sets and she was standing by a mirror. I looked at her and she caught me looking and I quickly averted my gaze.
I was mad at myself because I averted my gaze, however I looked off to the side (not down). Now she might think I am shy or lack confidence (which I don't). I was too far away to crack a slight smile as well.
However, at the same time if I didn't avert my gaze and kept looking at her, I would of come across as creepy because I was staring.
Some situations, you cannot win.
It would be so much easier to run into these women outside the gym because you now have an ice-breaker. E.g. "I know you from the gym:"
I do my best to try and sneak in glances here and there and I think if a woman likes you she will help you.
Today, cute personal trainer was there working out on her own time with big head-phones in.
I was about 10 yards from her in between sets and she was standing by a mirror. I looked at her and she caught me looking and I quickly averted my gaze.
I was mad at myself because I averted my gaze, however I looked off to the side (not down). Now she might think I am shy or lack confidence (which I don't). I was too far away to crack a slight smile as well.
However, at the same time if I didn't avert my gaze and kept looking at her, I would of come across as creepy because I was staring.
Some situations, you cannot win.
It would be so much easier to run into these women outside the gym because you now have an ice-breaker. E.g. "I know you from the gym:"