Sex on 1st date, how to proceed?

[manfrombelow]

A word of caution. If she has two numbers, it means that she has two phones. Unless she needs a separate phone for work purposes, having a second phone likely means that she is, at minimum, major wh*re and also possibly a part-time prostitute/escort/cam girl/etc. Proceed with caution if you’re looking for something serious.

Thanks for the reminder, buddy, but I never for once looked for anything more than animal sex with this broad, so no worries. And read my update below this.

 

[manfrombelow]

UPDATE:

So, ever since I made this thread, we fvcked three times, at her place. And goddamn this woman is the embodiment of the Lust God (if there's such a god). She sucked my d!ck, munched my testicles, and best of all: She loved eating my azzhole as if she's on death row and my azz is her last meal ever on earth.

Back to where we at, I made it clear to her that at this moment of my life, I only look for a casual, FWB, and open relationship, in which me and her become animals on bed everytime we meet, and totally respect each other's time and privacy. Which she agreed to. For now, every morning she initiated contact by some funny and lustful message to which I joyfully reply to, and that's that. We don't do dating, we don't do candles-and-roses dinners, we don't even know each other's last names, we just FVCK the **** outta each other.

Meanwhile, I still date other women and happily enjoy my bachelor's life.

And, I would not be surprised if, somewhere, somehow, there's a beta cuck that's orbiting her and thinks of his girl as an angel who still refused to have sex until they become "more serious".

 

[Grounded eagle]

UPDATE:

So, ever since I made this thread, we fvcked three times, at her place. And goddamn this woman is the embodiment of the Lust God (if there's such a god). She sucked my d!ck, munched my testicles, and best of all: She loved eating my azzhole as if she's on death row and my azz is her last meal ever on earth.

Back to where we at, I made it clear to her that at this moment of my life, I only look for a casual, FWB, and open relationship, in which me and her become animals on bed everytime we meet, and totally respect each other's time and privacy. Which she agreed to. For now, every morning she initiated contact by some funny and lustful message to which I joyfully reply to, and that's that. We don't do dating, we don't do candles-and-roses dinners, we don't even know each other's last names, we just FVCK the **** outta each other.

Meanwhile, I still date other women and happily enjoy my bachelor's life.

And, I would not be surprised if, somewhere, somehow, there's a beta cuck that's orbiting her and thinks of his girl as an angel who still refused to have sex until they become "more serious".

So you have nothing to worry about.This is why it’s good to be honest about what you want with women.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Sounds like it is smooth sailing , to go back to opening message i always wait for her to text after the date , sex whatever

Hardcore red pills think its alpha to initiate the contact it's not , always remember most women have a sub conscious kink for being treated like sh1t and used

If you don't contact her , her first thought will be "why isn't he contacting me" just as it is yours

this is the game - who blinks first

Some girls are real stubborn but imo SHE has too blink first

OP's girl reached out to him she submitted defeat he remains on top of the power struggle

 

[manfrombelow]

So you have nothing to worry about.This is why it’s good to be honest about what you want with women.

Well, I think I am obligated to give you gents some context that led to this scenario, since this thread would be nothing without your input:

I met this girl through Tinder. At the beginning of our text game, she seemed conservative and at times annoyed at my attempts to make sexual jokes or remarks about sex, saying some bs like "I'm sorry but I don't think we are close enough to have these kinds of conversations".

So, finally, when I asked her this magical question "So what are you looking for on Tinder"?

To which she gave me the classic BS answer: "I'm only on Tinder to make friends, no more no less"

To which I said: "Well I'm kind of the same. I'm there to also make new open, casual relationships, to have a companion who we can share our stuff after busy long days at work, including the bed. Because sex is fun, isn't it."

To which she said something BS like: "Well, I respect that, however I have ignored many guys who tried to make me their FWBs or want to lock me a in a relationship. I don't want that at this time of my life. Now I just want to go to work, go home, have fun (Pay attention to this word - "FUN") and nothing more. So please you can have your casual open FWB relationship elsewhere, but just don't force it on me, especially the sex stuff." (Typical Anti-Slut Defense)

Wow, I knew I hit the jackpot, so I said: "Well, I totally get what you're saying. I want you to know what I appreciate what you're sharing with me about yourself. Rest assure that I won't try to make you my anything like those guys did (COME ON, AS IF I WANT HER TO BE MY GF), what we're going to have, whatever you'll call it, will be civil, fun, relaxing, respectful as much as possible. About the sex, I don't wanna have sex with somebody who's not willing to enjoy it with me. Forced sex is not fun, what's fun is the sex that both sides enjoy willingly. And I'm sure you get what I'm saying, right?"

And when she reacted positively to this text (lots of funny emoticons and stuff), I quickly said good night, and then the next day, when she initiated contact again, I immediately made the date. I have planned the logistics so that we could have sex on 1st date as follows:

We went to a food bar where they served good food and drinks for very reasonable price, and where we could sit NEXT TO EACH OTHER (this is very very very important, NEVER EVER SIT ACROSS EACH OTHER ON 1ST DATES because you need to kino her). This date is set at 8:15 PM, we sit there for a good 2 hours, and then I suggested a movie at the late showing time, and we made out heavily during the movie, I grabbed her boobs and her soaking wet pvssy while we exchanged saliva.

So, knowing she's all horny, after the movie, when we finally reached her doorstep, I just asked her hey could I use the toilet, and you know what happens when you open the door for the wolf to come in.

 

[manfrombelow]

However, I have to mind you: This is a number game.

To be able to land this lustful animal of a woman to be my FWB, I got DEAD SILENCE from at least a few dozens of other women, maybe 20-30, even 50.

So, yeah, like anything else on this world, if you want to achieve something, you have to be VERY VERY VERY PATIENT!

 

[manfrombelow]

Sounds like it is smooth sailing , to go back to opening message i always wait for her to text after the date , sex whatever

Hardcore red pills think its alpha to initiate the contact it's not , always remember most women have a sub conscious kink for being treated like sh1t and used

If you don't contact her , her first thought will be "why isn't he contacting me" just as it is yours

this is the game - who blinks first

Some girls are real stubborn but imo SHE has too blink first

OP's girl reached out to him she submitted defeat he remains on top of the power struggle

The bolded part is true with this particular girl: During one of our exchange of sexual texts, she said something like "Hey you be my wh0re"

Even though I knew she said it half jokingly, I still said: "Naw, you be my wh0re, my slave, and I'll be your boss."

To which she made a lot of L-O-L emoticons. Later that day she received a mouth full of d!ck!

 

[Willie Naylor]

UPDATE:

So, ever since I made this thread, we fvcked three times, at her place. And goddamn this woman is the embodiment of the Lust God (if there's such a god). She sucked my d!ck, munched my testicles, and best of all: She loved eating my azzhole as if she's on death row and my azz is her last meal ever on earth.

Back to where we at, I made it clear to her that at this moment of my life, I only look for a casual, FWB, and open relationship, in which me and her become animals on bed everytime we meet, and totally respect each other's time and privacy. Which she agreed to. For now, every morning she initiated contact by some funny and lustful message to which I joyfully reply to, and that's that. We don't do dating, we don't do candles-and-roses dinners, we don't even know each other's last names, we just FVCK the **** outta each other.

Meanwhile, I still date other women and happily enjoy my bachelor's life.

And, I would not be surprised if, somewhere, somehow, there's a beta cuck that's orbiting her and thinks of his girl as an angel who still refused to have sex until they become "more serious".

They're all librarian on the outside, but on the inside, there's a sexy vixen waiting for you to bust her out of her cage.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Well, I think I am obligated to give you gents some context that led to this scenario, since this thread would be nothing without your input:

I met this girl through Tinder. At the beginning of our text game, she seemed conservative and at times annoyed at my attempts to make sexual jokes or remarks about sex, saying some bs like "I'm sorry but I don't think we are close enough to have these kinds of conversations".

So, finally, when I asked her this magical question "So what are you looking for on Tinder"?

To which she gave me the classic BS answer: "I'm only on Tinder to make friends, no more no less"

To which I said: "Well I'm kind of the same. I'm there to also make new open, casual relationships, to have a companion who we can share our stuff after busy long days at work, including the bed. Because sex is fun, isn't it."

To which she said something BS like: "Well, I respect that, however I have ignored many guys who tried to make me their FWBs or want to lock me a in a relationship. I don't want that at this time of my life. Now I just want to go to work, go home, have fun (Pay attention to this word - "FUN") and nothing more. So please you can have your casual open FWB relationship elsewhere, but just don't force it on me, especially the sex stuff." (Typical Anti-Slut Defense)

Wow, I knew I hit the jackpot, so I said: "Well, I totally get what you're saying. I want you to know what I appreciate what you're sharing with me about yourself. Rest assure that I won't try to make you my anything like those guys did (COME ON, AS IF I WANT HER TO BE MY GF), what we're going to have, whatever you'll call it, will be civil, fun, relaxing, respectful as much as possible. About the sex, I don't wanna have sex with somebody who's not willing to enjoy it with me. Forced sex is not fun, what's fun is the sex that both sides enjoy willingly. And I'm sure you get what I'm saying, right?"

And when she reacted positively to this text (lots of funny emoticons and stuff), I quickly said good night, and then the next day, when she initiated contact again, I immediately made the date. I have planned the logistics so that we could have sex on 1st date as follows:

We went to a food bar where they served good food and drinks for very reasonable price, and where we could sit NEXT TO EACH OTHER (this is very very very important, NEVER EVER SIT ACROSS EACH OTHER ON 1ST DATES because you need to kino her). This date is set at 8:15 PM, we sit there for a good 2 hours, and then I suggested a movie at the late showing time, and we made out heavily during the movie, I grabbed her boobs and her soaking wet pvssy while we exchanged saliva.

So, knowing she's all horny, after the movie, when we finally reached her doorstep, I just asked her hey could I use the toilet, and you know what happens when you open the door for the wolf to come in.

Uh huh,now imagine you’d taken her seriously when she said she didn’t want sex,and compromised your ability to get what you wanted from her by playing along to that false narrative instead of being upfront.

You would have lost out on(from the sound of it)a very good FWB.

 

[manfrombelow]

Uh huh,now imagine you’d taken her seriously when she said she didn’t want sex,and compromised your ability to get what you wanted from her by playing along to that false narrative instead of being upfront.

You would have lost out on(from the sound of it)a very good FWB.

It would have been the old beta-cuck version of myself. Fortunately I murdered and buried him for good.

And yes, this is absolutely a FWB, a very good one so far I must say.

 

[manfrombelow]

They're all librarian on the outside, but on the inside, there's a sexy vixen waiting for you to bust her out of her cage.

Your signature is perfect to describe my story: I showed her who I am and what I am looking for (a fun, relaxing, casual, and respectful FWB relationship) so she could know what kind of girl she could be (a lustful & slutty animal).

 

[manfrombelow]

UPDATE:

We have had many fvcks so far.

We are having a healthy FWB relationship, in which I let her initiate most of the meaningless chit-chat on a daily basis to keep things light & fun at maximum.

During said chit-chat, I would invite her to fvck, either at a hotel or her place. I don't want her come to my place to avoid unnecessary drama, and she actually has never asked to come to my place either.

Beside fvcking like animals, we don't get nosy at each other's private life, we never phoned each other out of the blue, and like I said we still don't even know each other's last name.

She loves sex, she loves eating my azzhole, she fvks like a wh0re, and she's not trying to turn our little dirty world into a relationship... YET!

To me, this is all I could ask for at this moment of my life. No drama. No ups and downs. No headaches. No BS. No arguments. Nothing. Only sex and respect for each other's private life.

And I'm always mentally prepared that one day she might stop all contact with me out-of-the-blue for whatever reasons, and I'm 100% fine with that. She does what she does, and so do I.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Updated:

A couple of minutes after I made this thread, when I was attempting to send her a text, she contacted me first.

The content was neutral, something like:

"Good morning old man, how are you doing" (Because I was teasing her that if she found me too old for her, she should call me old man, which she reacted to very positively).

I let her wait about half an hour before replying with something like "Morning young gal, how are you today"

to which she replied "Never been better *wink*"

To which I said "Sounds good, must have been all the vaccine Dr.OldMan here injected you with last night *wink*"

to which she gave a big laughing emoji and, guess what, she told me to add another number of her, saying this number is her MAIN number and the number that we had been using for communication is only SECONDARY. Another lesson learned: Women nowadays have a lot of numbers/chatting accounts that they use for multiple kinds of men they meet.

All of my replies are at least 40-60 minutes behind hers, that's how I always do it.

I'll keep this thread updated. This girl is 25 years old. She looks like your typical nerdy and stoic girl in the office, but damn, she sucked my d!ck like there's no tomorrow!

Nice! You are good to go bro...she is into you. Just keep doing what you are doing.