How would you steer this conversation to a more sexual direction?

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I was on a date recently that I failed to get a hook up on. It was just a first date though so there is still a strong chance we will hook up on the second date. I'm still a bit new to the alpha male strategies so I wanted to see how some experienced guys would have done. The convo is below and we were talking about how we both love to travel and how we both have Spain as our next bucket list country and somehow the conversation went to how naked beaches are a thing in Spain and Europe. I feel like I could have taken the conversation into a more sexual direction after this but failed. How would you do it?

Woman: My favorite thing is to travel around the world, there is nothing that is more fun.
Me: Same with me, what is on your bucket list as your next country you want to see?
Woman: I want to go to Spain because I've heard the beaches are amazing.
Me: My friends and I are actually in the process of planning a Spain trip! Which part of the Spain?
Woman: I want to go to the South Spain because my girls told me the beaches are amazing there. It's so different there and supposedly some of the beaches are apparently naked beaches.
 

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Woman: My favorite thing is to travel around the world, there is nothing that is more fun.
Me: Same with me, what is on your bucket list as your next country you want to see?
Woman: I want to go to Spain because I've heard the beaches are amazing.
Me: My friends and I are actually in the process of planning a Spain trip! Which part of the Spain?
Woman: I want to go to the South Spain because my girls told me the beaches are amazing there. It's so different there and supposedly some of the beaches are apparently naked beaches.
I'd ask her if she's throwing an all girls naked beach party or if I'm allowed to come too.

I'd also probably make a joke/tease her by asking if she wants to go to the beach to check out the hot Spanish girls in bikinis.
 

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Woman: I want to go to Spain because I've heard the beaches are amazing.
Me: My friends and I are actually in the process of planning a Spain trip! Which part of the Spain?
Woman: I want to go to the South Spain because my girls told me the beaches are amazing there. It's so different there and supposedly some of the beaches are apparently naked beaches.
"I heard some of the beaches in the North part of Spain are clothing optional."
 

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Woman: I want to go to the South Spain because my girls told me the beaches are amazing there. It's so different there and supposedly some of the beaches are apparently naked beaches.
She has started it for you

You simply reply

"well in that case when you get there make sure you send me a picture "
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A girl said something similar to me a while back and I replied with something along the lines of 'Very clever. Is that your way of trying to make me think of you being naked?!'' and she laughed and denied it and went red and hit my arm etc. So probably something like that?
 

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I was on a date recently that I failed to get a hook up on. It was just a first date though so there is still a strong chance we will hook up on the second date. I'm still a bit new to the alpha male strategies so I wanted to see how some experienced guys would have done. The convo is below and we were talking about how we both love to travel and how we both have Spain as our next bucket list country and somehow the conversation went to how naked beaches are a thing in Spain and Europe. I feel like I could have taken the conversation into a more sexual direction after this but failed. How would you do it?

Woman: My favorite thing is to travel around the world, there is nothing that is more fun.
Me: Same with me, what is on your bucket list as your next country you want to see?
Woman: I want to go to Spain because I've heard the beaches are amazing.
Me: My friends and I are actually in the process of planning a Spain trip! Which part of the Spain?
Woman: I want to go to the South Spain because my girls told me the beaches are amazing there. It's so different there and supposedly some of the beaches are apparently naked beaches.
I once banged a Spanish girl on a beach at night. Maybe she'd be up for that.
 

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"So if you go to a clothing optional beach, are you taking off your top? I love a woman who is confident in her own skin"

It gives her something to qualify herself with and leads to more interesting topics. If she is reluctant because she is self conscious about her body, it is a good time to slip in a sly compliment.
 
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