I feel like the luckiest man alive right now. Should I be worried?

[Sgthaytham]

I've honestly has the best 3 weeks with the Brazilian woman I have been dating.

Last Thursday she invited me round to hers and she made me dinner. The next day she made me breakfast. Today she sent me a video of her singing one of all time favourite songs.

We have a date set up for this coming Saturday.

Things have been so damn smooth.

I guess I'm worried it's going too smooth, should I be?

 

[rjc149]

Enjoy the sunshine. The storm is always right around the corner.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Enjoy the sunshine. The storm is always right around the corner.

If you're that pessimistic, no ****ing wonder.

 

[Billtx49]

I guess I'm worried it's going too smooth, should I be?

No. Winners never worry during the game, they concentrate on giving their best effort.
A current worry is only a fear of the unknown future…

 

[Sgthaytham]

No. Winners never worry during the game, they concentrate on giving their best effort.
A current worry is only a fear of the unknown future…

I guess I've never been used to a woman so forward. Thanks

 

[rjc149]

If you're that pessimistic, no ****ing wonder.

You're in the honeymoon glow, and her interest level in you is now very high. All relationships begin this way. Her lovebombing is not a reflection of your relationship -- it's a reflection of her current emotional state. Which will change.

Women's emotions will ebb and flow, ebb and flow, completely on their own, for reasons that may or may not have anything to do with you, or anything logical.

It's good to be optimistic. It's better to manage your expectations for what is an inevitability. Manage your expectations properly, and her innately erratic emotions will not shake you.

Once she knows she can shake you, and that you will conform to her emotional frame to keep the relationship, smooth sailing is over. And that's not pessimism. That's a fact, Jack.

 

[jimwho]

This is a refreshing thread. "An old one"> The only thing you have to fear is fear itself. Don't be a Simp, enjoy
The ride's and don't buy her flowers.

 

[Francis]

No. There's no sense worrying / stressing over things you can't control and living your life with this mindset. Enjoy it while it lasts and always stay in the moment incase things change. And if they change, don't think back to how great things were as if that's how she view things. This is how a lot of people get stuck in dwelling on the good times and obsessively trying to get things back to how they were like their life depends on it. For whatever reason, the other person's feelings changed. (Not that it hurts to try, but not going insane if it doesn't happen).

Don't forget that people put on their best act in the beginning and it's easy to get swept up in the fantasy. Some people do it on purpose to hook others (love bombing).

 

[SW15]

No, don't be worried. Enjoy the moment!

 

[MissouriMark]

Enjoy the honeymoon phase for as long as it lasts!

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Typically in these situations what's happening is she has an idea of something about you that isn't necessarily true or maybe you undervalue yourself, but if you don't regularly see women qualifying for you, the best thing to do is just keep doing whatever you are doing until she attempts to interface with whatever quality she thinks you have but don't.

She will tell some guy qualifying himself for her and he'll attempt to neg you by questioning whatever quality she thinks you have.

Ill never forget when I moved in with my ex-gf, she says to me "OK, you need to start getting your 6 pack" and I laughed in her face and said "If I had a 6 pack the **** would I be doing with you? I'm here already, what's for supper?" and she just continued qualifying for me

Your there already, even if she attempts to qualify you, change nothing.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've honestly has the best 3 weeks with the Brazilian woman I have been dating.

Last Thursday she invited me round to hers and she made me dinner. The next day she made me breakfast. Today she sent me a video of her singing one of all time favourite songs.

We have a date set up for this coming Saturday.

Things have been so damn smooth.

I guess I'm worried it's going too smooth, should I be?

Are you sure she was born a woman? El Presidente do Brasil seems to think there is a tranny problem there.

Bolsonaro Censors Video Starring Black People and Transwoman

Brazilian human rights defenders could file a complaint against the president's censorship before the United Nations.

www.telesurenglish.net

"If you want to come to have sex with a woman, go ahead," Bolsonaro said during a breakfast with Brazilian reporters. "But we cannot let this place be known as a paradise for gay tourism. We have families," said the head of state in reference to his eliminating the bank's ad, according to The Guardian.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Are you sure she was born a woman? El Presidente do Brasil seems to think there is a tranny problem there.

Bolsonaro Censors Video Starring Black People and Transwoman

Brazilian human rights defenders could file a complaint against the president's censorship before the United Nations.

www.telesurenglish.net

Of course she is, Jesus Christ.

 

[Grounded eagle]

I've honestly has the best 3 weeks with the Brazilian woman I have been dating.

Last Thursday she invited me round to hers and she made me dinner. The next day she made me breakfast. Today she sent me a video of her singing one of all time favourite songs.

We have a date set up for this coming Saturday.

Things have been so damn smooth.

I guess I'm worried it's going too smooth, should I be?

No.Enjoy what you have while you have it.Just understand that it can end at any time for a multitude of reasons.It may happen,it may not,but you’ll be in a better place if you’re aware of the possibility and it eventually comes to pass.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Are you sure she was born a woman? El Presidente do Brasil seems to think there is a tranny problem there.

Bolsonaro Censors Video Starring Black People and Transwoman

Brazilian human rights defenders could file a complaint against the president's censorship before the United Nations.

www.telesurenglish.net

What is wrong with you man?

 

[Willie Naylor]

What is wrong with you man?

We're not sure.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Enjoy the sunshine. The storm is always right around the corner.

Why do doomer pessimistic posters think they are so smart

 

[Sgthaytham]

No.Enjoy what you have while you have it.Just understand that it can end at any time for a multitude of reasons.It may happen,it may not,but you’ll be in a better place if you’re aware of the possibility and it eventually comes to pass.

The only way this is going to end is if I massively **** up.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Why do doomer pessimistic posters think they are so smart

I believe it's a projection of how unhappy about their current lives and their securities.

See someone happy? Gotta shoot them down to make myself feel better.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Are you sure she was born a woman? El Presidente do Brasil seems to think there is a tranny problem there.

Bolsonaro Censors Video Starring Black People and Transwoman

Brazilian human rights defenders could file a complaint against the president's censorship before the United Nations.

www.telesurenglish.net

Also if you're going to pretend you know Portuguese... It's O not El