I met this girl a few weeks ago on a dating app. We flirted a bit and she was already planning our first 3 dates before we'd even met and telling me how in the shower she was thinking of me and imagining our first kiss and how she liked the idea of going to a movie soon and cuddling up together. 1st date she was still recovering from a cold and we had a coffee and a walk with some hand holding at the cafe. Half an hour after I dropped her off home she texted me saying she had a great time and started talking about our next date saying we could do cinema or iceskating. And then later she said she enjoyed the hand action earlier (referring to the handholding).
We couldn't seem to arrange anything for the weekend as I was out Friday night and she had plans Saturday night so we met for brunch. Oh the night before she texted me after asking how my evening was and we got talking and she said its so weird she wants us to get to know each other better and not skip steps but at the same time would love to be able to cosy up on the sofa now/soon.
Anyway the following day we met for brunch she seemed quite nervous but was very chatty and gradually over the date she let me get closer and we had our first kiss and she kissed me back quite passionately. Later that evening we agreed a movie date the following Friday. Sunday evening we got chatting about Christmas and Christmas movies. She hadn't seen my favourite and said we could watch it together sometime. The next day she said she was so tempted to invite me over last night and couldn't wait until Friday to see me and suggested a home movie night during the week at hers and said maybe Wednesday but said she had some online training she had to finish by midnight on Wednesday. Next day she said she still had a lot of training modules to do and Friday wouldbe safer but we can plan a really great date for then.
Thursday evening she asked me what we should do on Friday. I said I was still keen on the movie idea but she ignored this and started talking about dinner or iceskating but before we could agree anything she said she was falling asleep and dropped off. Friday with nothing confirmed I texted saying how about we meet after work for dinner and take it from there? She was OK with this and I booked something but an hour before the date she said she was tired/sleepy from her week so better to do movie another night.
We had dinner and she seemed a little bit off repeating a lot of stories and things she'd told me on our previous dates and not really making any attempt to flirt or anything mostly just talking about herself and when I walked her home we kissed a bit at her doorstep but she didn't invite me up and made it clear the night was over. I texted her an hour later saying it was lovely to see her and she said same and said she liked the restaurant I chose. I said glad you enjoyed and heard nothing from her since.
What is going on? Five days ago she wanted me to come over for a movie at hers and couldnt wait until Friday. Come Friday she only wants dinner and didn't seem at all in the mood for anything.
We couldn't seem to arrange anything for the weekend as I was out Friday night and she had plans Saturday night so we met for brunch. Oh the night before she texted me after asking how my evening was and we got talking and she said its so weird she wants us to get to know each other better and not skip steps but at the same time would love to be able to cosy up on the sofa now/soon.
Anyway the following day we met for brunch she seemed quite nervous but was very chatty and gradually over the date she let me get closer and we had our first kiss and she kissed me back quite passionately. Later that evening we agreed a movie date the following Friday. Sunday evening we got chatting about Christmas and Christmas movies. She hadn't seen my favourite and said we could watch it together sometime. The next day she said she was so tempted to invite me over last night and couldn't wait until Friday to see me and suggested a home movie night during the week at hers and said maybe Wednesday but said she had some online training she had to finish by midnight on Wednesday. Next day she said she still had a lot of training modules to do and Friday wouldbe safer but we can plan a really great date for then.
Thursday evening she asked me what we should do on Friday. I said I was still keen on the movie idea but she ignored this and started talking about dinner or iceskating but before we could agree anything she said she was falling asleep and dropped off. Friday with nothing confirmed I texted saying how about we meet after work for dinner and take it from there? She was OK with this and I booked something but an hour before the date she said she was tired/sleepy from her week so better to do movie another night.
We had dinner and she seemed a little bit off repeating a lot of stories and things she'd told me on our previous dates and not really making any attempt to flirt or anything mostly just talking about herself and when I walked her home we kissed a bit at her doorstep but she didn't invite me up and made it clear the night was over. I texted her an hour later saying it was lovely to see her and she said same and said she liked the restaurant I chose. I said glad you enjoyed and heard nothing from her since.
What is going on? Five days ago she wanted me to come over for a movie at hers and couldnt wait until Friday. Come Friday she only wants dinner and didn't seem at all in the mood for anything.
