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Happy to see that "simp-shaming" has become mainstream

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Honestly, simps are some of the most pathetic group to have ever walked on this Earth. There is nothing more disgusting than a man pathetic enough to throw his life savings to an e-girl online just to have the pleasure of her reading his username. Honestly, I applaud the e-girls. If I was a woman, I'd take advantage of the situation and "pimp out the simps" myself lol.

Any simp who's dumb enough to believe that an attractive woman (who probably gets 1000 messages per day in her DMs) is going to fall for him deserves to life in prison for donating to her on onlyfans.
 

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The last dude on the right looks like David Duchovny. Doubtful he can't get dates and slay.
I think that's why his called a fakecel, Unless someone is on the spectrum it's very easy to add a few points to your looks with some style and gym
 

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I think that's why his called a fakecel, Unless someone is on the spectrum it's very easy to add a few points to your looks with some style and gym
Even the bald guy in premium cell still gets dates and girlfriends when I'm out in public and they're not fat. How the hell are they getting dates on OLD?
 

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I'll pay a bit more attention to where guys on dates stand on the looks scale. As a general impression, I've seen tons and tons of hb's on dates during the week. The guys as an initial impression, tend to be casually dressed and somewhere in the huge single standard deviations north and south of average, namely 5 to 7.

I can't overstate the importance of meeting women organically through social circles, clubs and organizations associated with work and school.

If and once you miss out on these opportunities, you are out in the cold, harsh, uber competitive world of swipe apps and online dating, cold approaching and meetups. At least theoretically, the few chads and the even more rare 'unicorns' have inordinate gravity here.

The male 5's to 7's who were solid picks in naturally forming early adult social circles become the leftovers once they are 30+ out of earlier forming social circles. I don't even count meetup as a true social circle. No one participating has a common bond or interest or goal, so there's no sense of comeraderie which is the glue that keeps people happy and willing to cooperate.

In the game of musical chairs analogy, the longer you wait, the fewer 'chairs' there are to sit on.
 
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I'll pay a bit more attention to where guys on dates stand on the looks scale. As a general impression, I've seen tons and tons of hb's on dates during the week. The guys as an initial impression, tend to be casually dressed and somewhere in the huge single standard deviations north and south of average, namely 5 to 7.

I can't repeat the importance of meeting women organically through social circles, clubs and organizations associated with work and school.

If and once you miss out on these opportunities, you are out in the cold, harsh, uber competitive world of swipe apps and online dating, cold approaching and meetups. At least theoretically, the few chads and the even more rare 'unicorns' have inordinate gravity here.

The male 5's to 7's who were solid picks in naturally forming early adult social circles become the leftovers once they are 30+ out of them.

In the game of musical chairs analogy, the longer you wait, the fewer 'chairs' there are to sit on.
What explains why old the last few years, but especially since covid had had a DRASTIC reduction of not only women, but far less attractive women as well? Most of the women on old are fat and ugly now. I'd say 90 percent are not that attractive.

Before covid it sucked around here, old but you could still get dates with cute chicks and maybe 80 percent were unattractive on old.

Old seems to be going the way of the dinosaurs. I think women got so bombarded they get overwhelmed and quit old. You see them for a week or two then they're off it.
 

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What explains why old the last few years, but especially since covid had had a DRASTIC reduction of not only women, but far less attractive women as well? Most of the women on old are fat and ugly now. I'd say 90 percent are not that attractive.

Before covid it sucked around here, old but you could still get dates with cute chicks and maybe 80 percent were unattractive on old.

Old seems to be going the way of the dinosaurs. I think women got so bombarded they get overwhelmed and quit old. You see them for a week or two then they're off it.
You talk about online dating an awful lot.
 

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Women where im at are hard up, covid relief is over, funds running dry, can be hard for guys to resist the attention of women that were ignoring the weeks ago lol, all the Indian guys are picking up white girls and trying to talk **** to white guys about it, it's hilarious like buddy do you understand the demon your inviting into your life, I'm just trying to get with a rich south Asian or Indian chick
 

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I can't overstate the importance of meeting women organically through social circles, clubs and organizations associated with work and school.

If and once you miss out on these opportunities, you are out in the cold, harsh, uber competitive world of swipe apps and online dating, cold approaching and meetups. At least theoretically, the few chads and the even more rare 'unicorns' have inordinate gravity here.

The male 5's to 7's who were solid picks in naturally forming early adult social circles become the leftovers once they are 30+ out of earlier forming social circles.
Agree with all of this.

I don't even count meetup as a true social circle. No one participating has a common bond or interest or goal, so there's no sense of comeraderie which is the glue that keeps people happy and willing to cooperate.

In the game of musical chairs analogy, the longer you wait, the fewer 'chairs' there are to sit on.
You are correct on Meetup. It's a shiit show too.
 

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Even the bald guy in premium cell still gets dates and girlfriends when I'm out in public and they're not fat. How the hell are they getting dates on OLD?
Maybe he's a successful business owner. Maybe he's a talented craftsman.

Nobody on this site ever even mentions personality as a factor.
 

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Agree with all of this.



You are correct on Meetup. It's a shiit show too.
I looked at the meetup site before covid hit. Most of the activities listed where nothing but ladies mid 50s and over attending when I looked at the user base who reserved spots. I'm not into gilfs.
 

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I've seen level 1's fail because they were viewed as weak or did other things to turn girls off. Girls usually found them attractive initially so it wasn't always their looks. But I've also known people who fit the exact description on here. Those guys usually didn't get as many dates or offers and were single for much longer stretches.
 

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Honestly, simps are some of the most pathetic group to have ever walked on this Earth. There is nothing more disgusting than a man pathetic enough to throw his life savings to an e-girl online just to have the pleasure of her reading his username. Honestly, I applaud the e-girls. If I was a woman, I'd take advantage of the situation and "pimp out the simps" myself lol.

Any simp who's dumb enough to believe that an attractive woman (who probably gets 1000 messages per day in her DMs) is going to fall for him deserves to life in prison for donating to her on onlyfans.
I use onlyfans, and don't see how a subscription here or there is "throwing away your life savings" and see a budget involving that not much different than having entertainment subscriptions to streaming services. I don't even reply to a lady on OF who is trying to talk with me. I just can't. Looks like I watch too many stream TV-shows/movies to care about getting too much into it. It's like I just want to see some pictures and that's it.
 

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I never understood the facination with worrying about other mens mating strategies. Especially strangers.
One thing to swap notes with a buddy but this is strange to me.

Nerds and geeks have been around a while and so have fcking weirdos.
If you took this energy and put it to use towards yourself you could possibly get 1% better each month
Ive never gotten far by saying in my mind.
"Im glad im not like those simps"

Stepping on other dudes to better your mind is not confidence.
Simps will be simps.
I think the word "simp" is entirely overused.

It's supposed to mean.... Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pu$$y.

As opposed to what? Good pus$y?

To even say that a pus$y can be "good" is simping in itself. It's just a ****ing hole.

I mean sure there can be BAD ones, like infected with untreated STDs or with lips so loose they reach the floor... But there's really no such thing as a "good" one.
 

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I think the word "simp" is entirely overused.

It's supposed to mean.... Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pu$$y.

As opposed to what? Good pus$y?

To even say that a pus$y can be "good" is simping in itself. It's just a ****ing hole.

I mean sure there can be BAD ones, like infected with untreated STDs or with lips so loose they reach the floor... But there's really no such thing as a "good" one.
Y'all spend way too much time defining things. P-I conversations about total nonsense that has no bearing on how you live your life.
 
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