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Another problem with modern dating and amount of available women.

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We all agree on how there are a lot of obese and fat, tatted up women now which causes the pool of attractive women to be really small but there is another factor too.

Notice how like 80 years ago you had young women like 16-18 years old for example marrying and getting with older guys and starting families, lower divorce rate, etc. Now if a 23 year old guy tries getting with a 16 year old in most states it's a crime. So that's another age group off limits.

Then there is also the stigma of like a 35 year old trying to hook up with a 22 year old for example in modern society. Years ago this wouldn't be considered odd at all since the guy has a career. Now in most cases a guy that age hitting on a 22 year old is considered a total creeper.

The James Franco incident about 7 years ago was a perfect example. That 17 year old girl on instagram. If this was the 1920s and Franco, a superstar wanted her hand there would be no objection. Her family would see it as a possible provider.

A bunch of factors all rolled into a single ball has caused the perfect storm.
 

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We all agree on how there are a lot of obese and fat, tatted up women now which causes the pool of attractive women to be really small but there is another factor too.

Notice how like 80 years ago you had young women like 16-18 years old for example marrying and getting with older guys and starting families, lower divorce rate, etc. Now if a 23 year old guy tries getting with a 16 year old in most states it's a crime. So that's another age group off limits.

Then there is also the stigma of like a 35 year old trying to hook up with a 22 year old for example in modern society. Years ago this wouldn't be considered odd at all since the guy has a career. Now in most cases a guy that age hitting on a 22 year old is considered a total creeper.

The James Franco incident about 7 years ago was a perfect example. That 17 year old girl on instagram. If this was the 1920s and Franco, a superstar wanted her hand there would be no objection. Her family would see it as a possible provider.

A bunch of factors all rolled into a single ball has caused the perfect storm.
I remember that story. The girl was in New York for her 18th birthday. I don't know what silly laws they have over there, but in the UK the age of consent is 16.

So this girl, from Scotland, who probably has already had sex legally a whole bunch of times, goes to the USA and specifically NY where they have stupid laws and then tries to bait famous people on Instagram by mentioning her age as 18, whilst actually being 17.

In any case the guy should have been smarter. Tell her to meet up the day after her birthday rather than before. And also he should have known better than doing anything to "prove" his identity because her asking for that was a clear sign that she was full of shhiiit.
 

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How many different ways will you all come up with to b!tch about the same stuff?
Everyone on here just makes endless threads about needing to make 150 grand a year, height, etc. Those are all factors but there are other major forces causing the problems like I mentioned above.
 

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I remember that story. The girl was in New York for her 18th birthday. I don't know what silly laws they have over there, but in the UK the age of consent is 16.

So this girl, from Scotland, who probably has already had sex legally a whole bunch of times, goes to the USA and specifically NY where they have stupid laws and then tries to bait famous people on Instagram by mentioning her age as 18, whilst actually being 17.

In any case the guy should have been smarter. Tell her to meet up the day after her birthday rather than before. And also he should have known better than doing anything to "prove" his identity because her asking for that was a clear sign that she was full of shhiiit.
Some southern states like Missouri for example still have the age of consent at 17. Marriage younger than that was common in Missouri too.

It should be age 16 nationwide. Crap like this also has caused lower birthrates as well. One could also argue this leads to higher divorce rates.
 

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I remember that story. The girl was in New York for her 18th birthday. I don't know what silly laws they have over there, but in the UK the age of consent is 16.

So this girl, from Scotland, who probably has already had sex legally a whole bunch of times, goes to the USA and specifically NY where they have stupid laws and then tries to bait famous people on Instagram by mentioning her age as 18, whilst actually being 17.

In any case the guy should have been smarter. Tell her to meet up the day after her birthday rather than before. And also he should have known better than doing anything to "prove" his identity because her asking for that was a clear sign that she was full of shhiiit.
James Franco has no game, he was so thirsty in those texts. If he wasnt famous he would be an incel.

Then there is also the stigma of like a 35 year old trying to hook up with a 22 year old for example in modern society. Years ago this wouldn't be considered odd at all since the guy has a career. Now in most cases a guy that age hitting on a 22 year old is considered a total creeper.
Your only option is south East Asia
 

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James Franco has no game, he was so thirsty in those texts. If he wasnt famous he would be an incel.



Your only option is south East Asia
I disagree a bit. Franco was 36 at the time, even better looking back then. Even with terrible game, a decent looking guy who's an A list celebrity doesn't need game who's above average looking and loaded with cash. Women, especially ditzy young women will thrown themselves at you.

Now if he was George Clooney's age it would be different. I don't think an 18 year old would be attracted to a middle aged guy.
 

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Some southern states like Missouri for example still have the age of consent at 17. Marriage younger than that was common in Missouri too.

It should be age 16 nationwide. Crap like this also has caused lower birthrates as well. One could also argue this leads to higher divorce rates.
I agree. That's what it is in most of the world. Setting it at that age is just another way to scam men.
 

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I disagree a bit. Franco was 36 at the time, even better looking back then. Even with terrible game, a decent looking guy who's an A list celebrity doesn't need game who's above average looking and loaded with cash. Women, especially ditzy young women will thrown themselves at you.

Now if he was George Clooney's age it would be different. I don't think an 18 year old would be attracted to a middle aged guy.
I'm sure women were throwing themselves at him, but this particular woman was obviously just baiting him to draw attention to herself.

When a woman leads an interaction, there's something wrong. The guy let himself be led.
 

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I disagree a bit. Franco was 36 at the time, even better looking back then. Even with terrible game, a decent looking guy who's an A list celebrity doesn't need game who's above average looking and loaded with cash. Women, especially ditzy young women will thrown themselves at you.

Now if he was George Clooney's age it would be different. I don't think an 18 year old would be attracted to a middle aged guy.
Clearly he does need game since she publically humiliated him for his sad pathetic attempt at texting.

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Clearly he does need game since she publically humiliated him for his sad pathetic attempt at texting.

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If this was another country and different laws There would be no problem with it. The tabloids would just think it's funny and not call it creepy.

But man. If things did revert to the 1920s or like the laws of other countries.

All I can say is millions and millions of women in the United States are going to get a hard dose of reality check big time if that did happen.

Especially like your women in the 23 to 32 age range who're picky AF. If the age was lowered they would go down in flames HARD when they're ignored for younger women.
 

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If this was another country and different laws There would be no problem with it. The tabloids would just think it's funny and not call it creepy.

But man. If things did revert to the 1920s or like the laws of other countries.

All I can say is millions and millions of women in the United States are going to get a hard dose of reality check big time if that did happen.

Especially like your women in the 23 to 32 age range who're picky AF. If the age was lowered they would go down in flames HARD when they're ignored for younger women.
Several woman have come forward with sexual assualt allegations against james franco, the guy is creepy no matter how you look at it.


 

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Several woman have come forward with sexual assualt allegations against james franco, the guy is creepy no matter how you look at it.


Another way to spin it. For us guys ages 27 to 40. If Gisele Bündchen were single and was hitting you up on IG I don't think any of you would be giving it second thought to go bang her ASAP. Yea, you will say she's 41 but lets be real lol.
 

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We all agree on how there are a lot of obese and fat, tatted up women now which causes the pool of attractive women to be really small but there is another factor too.

Notice how like 80 years ago you had young women like 16-18 years old for example marrying and getting with older guys and starting families, lower divorce rate, etc. Now if a 23 year old guy tries getting with a 16 year old in most states it's a crime. So that's another age group off limits.

Then there is also the stigma of like a 35 year old trying to hook up with a 22 year old for example in modern society. Years ago this wouldn't be considered odd at all since the guy has a career. Now in most cases a guy that age hitting on a 22 year old is considered a total creeper.

The James Franco incident about 7 years ago was a perfect example. That 17 year old girl on instagram. If this was the 1920s and Franco, a superstar wanted her hand there would be no objection. Her family would see it as a possible provider.

A bunch of factors all rolled into a single ball has caused the perfect storm.
Yes, there are alot of obese and overweight women, but the majority of these are middle aged women.

Most 35 and under women are still 6's and above. I'd say about 65%

A woman with a cute face, who could stand to lose 10 to 15 lbs is not a pig and unattractive. I agree, there are plenty of those out there (women that can lose 10 to 15)but they are still attractive (just not at their full potential)
 

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Yes, there are alot of obese and overweight women, but the majority of these are middle aged women.

Most 35 and under women are still 6's and above. I'd say about 65%

A woman with a cute face, who could stand to lose 10 to 15 lbs is not a pig and unattractive. I agree, there are plenty of those out there (women that can lose 10 to 15)but they are still attractive (just not at their full potential)
Maybe in LA and NYC sure, but no way in hell 65 percent under 35 are at least a 6 unless your standards are low. IRL in this region I'd say it's about 20 percent. Even when I'm in the Tampa area it's no 65 percent.

Again, the scale is subjective. Like that one thread recently. Guy posted this girl was HB6 and is now fat. The before pics she was about a 4 or below. 4 was pushing it.

If 65 percent were HB6 and above then this forum would be crickets.

OLD is even worse. I'd say maybe 15 percent are HB6 and above.
 

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Maybe in LA and NYC sure, but no way in hell 65 percent under 35 are at least a 6 unless your standards are low. IRL in this region I'd say it's about 20 percent. Even when I'm in the Tampa area it's no 65 percent.

Again, the scale is subjective. Like that one thread recently. Guy posted this girl was HB6 and is now fat. The before pics she was about a 4 or below. 4 was pushing it.

If 65 percent were HB6 and above then this forum would be crickets.

OLD is even worse. I'd say maybe 15 percent are HB6 and above.
That's where we disagree. I would say both of those women in those pics were between a 6 or 7.

A 4 is an unattractive woman.
 
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