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nicksaiz65

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Hey guys! I've been meaning to type this for a while, but I got a new lay a few days back. Here is my field report for it.

So this Lay did not come from a traditional Cold Approach. I suppose this would be from social circle. But even so, I am proud because I still needed to pull her, successfully escalate, and so on.

I went to a small house party one evening. After socializing with the people there, I noticed that this one girl was looking at me very intentfully. When I talked to her, she would flirt with me quite a bit. It was pretty obvious that she found me attractive. Very big titties and a brunette, so I found her attractive as well. What was also interesting is that she was a bit older than me. She is 28, I am 24.

I thought to myself, ”I need to take advantage of this opportunity and pull this girl.” So I told her that I was going to the bar to get a few more drinks, and she should join me. She agreed, and hopped in the car.

I am very glad that I got that date from Cold Approach earlier in the week. Because of that, I was able to practice showing stronger intent, kino, and all of that.

We went to the bar, hung out, and played darts. The date was very physical and had a sexual vibe. I know that because I was already making out with her in the bar before I got home.

Pulling her back to my place was also very easy. I said, “I have a bottle of tequila at home. We should go home and drink that.” She responded by saying something like “Oh, tequila is my love language. We’ll do that and talk about some things. Let’s get out of here.” Talk obviously being code for sex in this case lol.

What was absolutely insane is that I got pulled over by the cops on the way to pulling her home. So the cops ended up pulling me haha. That had me stressed out to the max. I was like there is no way I’m going to jail in the middle of a pull. I was able to keep my head, and thank goodness nothing happened. But that was wild, and my heart rate probably reached 200 while I was sitting in that car lol.

So I took her home, and I pulled her straight back to my room. We had a few shots, and then we cuddled. I got a bit of LMR, with her saying something to the effect of “I can’t have sex with you tonight. All I can do is cuddle.” LMR is pretty effortless for me to break at this point though. All you have to do is pull back, and them try again a bit later. Using that strategy, you‘ll eventually be able to get through.

When I was cuddling with her, I made sure to get as sexually physical as I could, I.E. touching her lower back, rubbing her titties, and rubbing her with my c0ck. After a while, she said “OMG, I can’t do this anymore. Let’s go.” Then she started taking off all of her clothes. We got it on from there.

The sex was awesome. She was one of the wettest girls that I‘ve fvcked, like ever. She was also very vocal during the sex. I plan on adding her to my rotation. Once I do, I definitely need to learn how to make her squirt. That’s a good skill to have in general.

By the way, if you guys have any tips for maintaining girls that you’ve fvcked within rotations, be sure to let me know.

I‘m really proud of myself for this pull because Killer Instinct has been one of my sticking points for the absolute longest. The Killer Instinct was absolutely on point that night. It didn’t even feel hard to pull her to the bar, then pull her back to my room, sit on the bed close to her, escalate to kissing and then sex. So this girl was sufficiently attracted and available, then I can use Game and Killer Instinct from there to fvck her.

Now all I have to do from here is remember how that Killer Instinct felt, and keep using it from here on out. I have the reference experience.

Another thing, the Self Improvement I’ve been doing has really been helping out. This girl was constantly complimenting me on my body and how nice my 360 Waves were. So that’s a big plus. Those aspects help support the killer instinct as well. The white girls love the waves! IMO this self improvement helps create more yes girls, and then I just need adequate game to pull them.

But, I’m very proud of this interaction because I did a ton of things right. Let me know what you guys think.
 
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I got a new lay a few days back.

So this Lay did not come from a traditional Cold Approach. I suppose this would be from social circle. But even so, I am proud because I still needed to pull her, successfully escalate, and so on.

I went to a small house party one evening. After socializing with the people there, I noticed that this one girl was looking at me very intentfully. When I talked to her, she would flirt with me quite a bit. It was pretty obvious that she found me attractive. Very big titties and a brunette, so I found her attractive as well. What was also interesting is that she was a bit older than me. She is 28, I am 24.

I thought to myself, ”I need to take advantage of this opportunity and pull this girl.” So I told her that I was going to the bar to get a few more drinks, and she should join me. She agreed, and hopped in the car.
Private residence parties can be considered either social circle or cold approach, depending on the circumstances surrounding the party. When I was in college, mainly freshman and sophomore years, I'd do some investigating to find out where private residence parties were. Then I'd show up. Most of the time, I didn't know the majority of the people at the party. Sometimes, I'd know no one. Also, it was possible to show up at well known apartment complexes for parties and just walk into an apartment where there was a party going on. If I approached women at parties in apartments where I randomly showed up, that's more cold approach than social circle.

A lot of off campus apartment parties in college are likely more cold approach than social circle. Some are just substitutes for bars for the 18-20 year old age set.

Pulling her back to my place was also very easy. I said, “I have a bottle of tequila at home. We should go home and drink that.” She responded by saying something like “Oh, tequila is my love language. We’ll do that and talk about some things. Let’s get out of here.” Talk obviously being code for sex in this case lol.
Plausible deniability. Solid move.

What was absolutely insane is that I got pulled over by the cops on the way to pulling her home. That had me stressed out to the max lol. I was like there is no way I’m going to jail in the middle of a pull. I was able to keep my head, and thank goodness nothing happened. But that was wild, and my heart rate probably reached 200 while I was sitting in that car lol.
That can be a turn on for women. Women are often excited by the criminal element. Guys with criminal records tend to pull more vag. It is good nothing happened. That could have been a DUI.
 

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Private residence parties can be considered either social circle or cold approach, depending on the circumstances surrounding the party. When I was in college, mainly freshman and sophomore years, I'd do some investigating to find out where private residence parties were. Then I'd show up. Most of the time, I didn't know the majority of the people at the party. Sometimes, I'd know no one. Also, it was possible to show up at well known apartment complexes for parties and just walk into an apartment where there was a party going on. If I approached women at parties in apartments where I randomly showed up, that's more cold approach than social circle.

A lot of off campus apartment parties in college are likely more cold approach than social circle. Some are just substitutes for bars for the 18-20 year old age set.



Plausible deniability. Solid move.



That can be a turn on for women. Women are often excited by the criminal element. Guys with criminal records tend to pull more vag. It is good nothing happened. That could have been a DUI.
Yeah you raise good points. I suppose it could be considered a hybrid of both in a way. Much like college itself.

Yes, getting pulled over like that is very scary stuff. Thank God nothing happened lol. I’m going to ensure that I am NEVER in that situation again.
 

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House party game is awesome its a shame as you get older they tend to die out

You did a good job i think as soon as the chick agreed to leave with you , the deal was pretty much done

Remember most women have a controlled r*pe and dominance fetish so most of the time if she's entered your bed she already knows she's having sex , its just how wet/excited she wants to get before penetration

A chick from OLD came over the other week after a few hours she was laying on my bed naked she said she's not having s ex i told her to start rubbing her pu$$y , then i started rubbing my c0ck against her after a while she submissed and let out a loud moan
 

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Hey guys! I've been meaning to type this for a while, but I got a new lay a few days back. Here is my field report for it.

So this Lay did not come from a traditional Cold Approach. I suppose this would be from social circle. But even so, I am proud because I still needed to pull her, successfully escalate, and so on.

I went to a small house party one evening. After socializing with the people there, I noticed that this one girl was looking at me very intentfully. When I talked to her, she would flirt with me quite a bit. It was pretty obvious that she found me attractive. Very big titties and a brunette, so I found her attractive as well. What was also interesting is that she was a bit older than me. She is 28, I am 24.

I thought to myself, ”I need to take advantage of this opportunity and pull this girl.” So I told her that I was going to the bar to get a few more drinks, and she should join me. She agreed, and hopped in the car.

I am very glad that I got that date from Cold Approach earlier in the week. Because of that, I was able to practice showing stronger intent, kino, and all of that.

We went to the bar, hung out, and played darts. The date was very physical and had a sexual vibe. I know that because I was already making out with her in the bar before I got home.

Pulling her back to my place was also very easy. I said, “I have a bottle of tequila at home. We should go home and drink that.” She responded by saying something like “Oh, tequila is my love language. We’ll do that and talk about some things. Let’s get out of here.” Talk obviously being code for sex in this case lol.

What was absolutely insane is that I got pulled over by the cops on the way to pulling her home. So the cops ended up pulling me haha. That had me stressed out to the max. I was like there is no way I’m going to jail in the middle of a pull. I was able to keep my head, and thank goodness nothing happened. But that was wild, and my heart rate probably reached 200 while I was sitting in that car lol.

So I took her home, and I pulled her straight back to my room. We had a few shots, and then we cuddled. I got a bit of LMR, with her saying something to the effect of “I can’t have sex with you tonight. All I can do is cuddle.” LMR is pretty effortless for me to break at this point though. All you have to do is pull back, and them try again a bit later. Using that strategy, you‘ll eventually be able to get through.

When I was cuddling with her, I made sure to get as sexually physical as I could, I.E. touching her lower back, rubbing her titties, and rubbing her with my c0ck. After a while, she said “OMG, I can’t do this anymore. Let’s go.” Then she started taking off all of her clothes. We got it on from there.

The sex was awesome. She was one of the wettest girls that I‘ve fvcked, like ever. She was also very vocal during the sex. I plan on adding her to my rotation. Once I do, I definitely need to learn how to make her squirt. That’s a good skill to have in general.

By the way, if you guys have any tips for maintaining girls that you’ve fvcked within rotations, be sure to let me know.

I‘m really proud of myself for this pull because Killer Instinct has been one of my sticking points for the absolute longest. The Killer Instinct was absolutely on point that night. It didn’t even feel hard to pull her to the bar, then pull her back to my room, sit on the bed close to her, escalate to kissing and then sex. So this girl was sufficiently attracted and available, then I can use Game and Killer Instinct from there to fvck her.

Now all I have to do from here is remember how that Killer Instinct felt, and keep using it from here on out. I have the reference experience.

Another thing, the Self Improvement I’ve been doing has really been helping out. This girl was constantly complimenting me on my body and how nice my 360 Waves were. So that’s a big plus. Those aspects help support the killer instinct as well. The white girls love the waves! IMO this self improvement helps create more yes girls, and then I just need adequate game to pull them.

But, I’m very proud of this interaction because I did a ton of things right. Let me know what you guys think.
Nicely done. This is a win.

Just remember, that losses are also bound to happen and are a fundamental part of your growth process. What I mean is absolutely feel proud of yourself but know that when the end result is not what you want/expected that you still feel good about yourself.

Having said that, this is a good example of an earlier thread by @Velasco (https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ce-the-myth-of-asd.271791/page-2#post-2893337). While you don't want to be a creep and harras a girl immediately after meeting her, you do want to be direct and intentional the first time you meet her if sex is what you both want.

As you said, I think you did a lot of things right. Also, keep in mind this girl sounded like she was also intentional so that helps as well. Not every girl will comply this much, which is when a good "game" comes into play.

Good stuff.


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Hey guys! I've been meaning to type this for a while, but I got a new lay a few days back. Here is my field report for it.

So this Lay did not come from a traditional Cold Approach. I suppose this would be from social circle. But even so, I am proud because I still needed to pull her, successfully escalate, and so on.

I went to a small house party one evening. After socializing with the people there, I noticed that this one girl was looking at me very intentfully. When I talked to her, she would flirt with me quite a bit. It was pretty obvious that she found me attractive. Very big titties and a brunette, so I found her attractive as well. What was also interesting is that she was a bit older than me. She is 28, I am 24.

I thought to myself, ”I need to take advantage of this opportunity and pull this girl.” So I told her that I was going to the bar to get a few more drinks, and she should join me. She agreed, and hopped in the car.

I am very glad that I got that date from Cold Approach earlier in the week. Because of that, I was able to practice showing stronger intent, kino, and all of that.

We went to the bar, hung out, and played darts. The date was very physical and had a sexual vibe. I know that because I was already making out with her in the bar before I got home.

Pulling her back to my place was also very easy. I said, “I have a bottle of tequila at home. We should go home and drink that.” She responded by saying something like “Oh, tequila is my love language. We’ll do that and talk about some things. Let’s get out of here.” Talk obviously being code for sex in this case lol.

What was absolutely insane is that I got pulled over by the cops on the way to pulling her home. So the cops ended up pulling me haha. That had me stressed out to the max. I was like there is no way I’m going to jail in the middle of a pull. I was able to keep my head, and thank goodness nothing happened. But that was wild, and my heart rate probably reached 200 while I was sitting in that car lol.

So I took her home, and I pulled her straight back to my room. We had a few shots, and then we cuddled. I got a bit of LMR, with her saying something to the effect of “I can’t have sex with you tonight. All I can do is cuddle.” LMR is pretty effortless for me to break at this point though. All you have to do is pull back, and them try again a bit later. Using that strategy, you‘ll eventually be able to get through.

When I was cuddling with her, I made sure to get as sexually physical as I could, I.E. touching her lower back, rubbing her titties, and rubbing her with my c0ck. After a while, she said “OMG, I can’t do this anymore. Let’s go.” Then she started taking off all of her clothes. We got it on from there.

The sex was awesome. She was one of the wettest girls that I‘ve fvcked, like ever. She was also very vocal during the sex. I plan on adding her to my rotation. Once I do, I definitely need to learn how to make her squirt. That’s a good skill to have in general.

By the way, if you guys have any tips for maintaining girls that you’ve fvcked within rotations, be sure to let me know.

I‘m really proud of myself for this pull because Killer Instinct has been one of my sticking points for the absolute longest. The Killer Instinct was absolutely on point that night. It didn’t even feel hard to pull her to the bar, then pull her back to my room, sit on the bed close to her, escalate to kissing and then sex. So this girl was sufficiently attracted and available, then I can use Game and Killer Instinct from there to fvck her.

Now all I have to do from here is remember how that Killer Instinct felt, and keep using it from here on out. I have the reference experience.

Another thing, the Self Improvement I’ve been doing has really been helping out. This girl was constantly complimenting me on my body and how nice my 360 Waves were. So that’s a big plus. Those aspects help support the killer instinct as well. The white girls love the waves! IMO this self improvement helps create more yes girls, and then I just need adequate game to pull them.

But, I’m very proud of this interaction because I did a ton of things right. Let me know what you guys think.
Nice work from beginning to end. Glad you pushed through the LMR. When they say things like "I can't have sex with you tonight" that means they are already thinking about sex and you're pretty much in unless you do something dumb.
 

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Nicely done. This is a win.

Just remember, that losses are also bound to happen and are a fundamental part of your growth process. What I mean is absolutely feel proud of yourself but know that when the end result is not what you want/expected that you still feel good about yourself.

Having said that, this is a good example of an earlier thread by @Velasco (https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ce-the-myth-of-asd.271791/page-2#post-2893337). While you don't want to be a creep and harras a girl immediately after meeting her, you do want to be direct and intentional the first time you meet her if sex is what you both want.

As you said, I think you did a lot of things right. Also, keep in mind this girl sounded like she was also intentional so that helps as well. Not every girl will comply this much, which is when a good "game" comes into play.

Good stuff.


Modern Man Advice
Yes, definitely. This was a “yes” girl which makes things easier.

Can you tell me more about converting “maybe” girls into “yes” girls by using your game? I’d like to reach the point where I can do that, instead of only banging “yes” girls.
 

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Nice work from beginning to end. Glad you pushed through the LMR. When they say things like "I can't have sex with you tonight" that means they are already thinking about sex and you're pretty much in unless you do something dumb.
Definitely. Thanks bro. LMR isn’t even really an issue for me at this point anymore. I know exactly how to deal with it. I’ll also make sure to have this level of killer instinct every time I pull.
 

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Yes, definitely. This was a “yes” girl which makes things easier.

Can you tell me more about converting “maybe” girls into “yes” girls by using your game? I’d like to reach the point where I can do that, instead of only banging “yes” girls.
Unfortunately, I can't help you with that. Are there tactics to game a low-medium interest girl? Yes. However, I have a strict philosophy about a girl with low-medium interest girl and that is I am not interested in convincing anyone. I only deal and invest energy with high (genuine) interest level women.

I suggest you do the same. It comes from setting high standards for yourself, knowing your worth and what you deserve. Anything less than that won't cut it and I show them the door.

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I think we've gotten to the point where we need receipts, it's kind of crazy because the second we started asking BackInTheGame for receipts he suddenly stopped posting reports and became a crypto guru, again without receipts, shell game gets old.

Im not discounting this happened either but seeing messages and **** minimum will help others more.
 

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I think we've gotten to the point where we need receipts, it's kind of crazy because the second we started asking BackInTheGame for receipts he suddenly stopped posting reports and became a crypto guru, again without receipts, shell game gets old.

Im not discounting this happened either but seeing messages and **** minimum will help others more.
Sure. There was no texting for this one actually lol. Considering it was a same night lay. But in future ones I’ll post any text messaging.

But trust me this is 100% real. No point in making **** up lol
 

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I think we've gotten to the point where we need receipts, it's kind of crazy because the second we started asking BackInTheGame for receipts he suddenly stopped posting reports and became a crypto guru, again without receipts, shell game gets old.

Im not discounting this happened either but seeing messages and **** minimum will help others more.
Oh? I can post plenty more like this but I think you get the gist...happy now?

And as far as crypto, let's just say I will be retired soon.
 

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