As i mentioned in a post yesterday , i don't think anyone does
most men will usually admit that "they got lucky" with several women in their lifetimes including their partners /wifes
its all to do with right place, right time, right girl you get those 3 right and you can only screw it up for yourself
It's all luck not judgement , i met my ex girlfriend on complete and utter chance , i literally turned around in a bar saw her chatted to her for a bit swapped numbers and we spent 4 years together
instead of getting annoyed at how random they are i just chuckle to myself , was chatting to a girl on an app yesterday she was about a 6 she started the convo we exchanged some messages she was responding quickly
At one stage i was driving so i sent her a reply as a voice message it was clear and confident asking something about her .... bam goes ghost
Too soon for voice notes ? , didn't like my voice ? My tone reminded her of a en EX ?
who knows and who cares lol ….. i had a good laugh to myself about it in the car and then later removed her
this scenario happens a lot especially on OLD
just take a break refresh reset go again … try to mix it up a bit too with real life approaches
Whilst i was out walking and chilling by the beach yesterday i bumped into a HB8 that works in my gym …she was quite excited says "omg fancy seeing you here what are you doing ?"
I nonchalantly said oh i was hungover so I've been having a nap down there listening to the waves
HB8 found this hilarious , not sure why i wasn't trying to be funny
But ill take that as an IOI and escalate when i see her next , may come to nothing she may come over and fvck my brains out who knows it will literally be how she's feeling that day