A New Way to not run out of things to say !!

[RSDCharlie]

Many guys have this issue, where when they're talking to a girl they quickly run out of things to say. They start their conversations as a fun, high energy guy whose making jokes and making her laugh , but as we know that is difficult to sustain, so when they run out of things to say, they walk away.

How do you avoid that? Stop putting the pressure on yourself, transfer it to her. If you run out of things to say, don't walk away. Let her think of something fun to say, let her continue the conversation . And if she can't , let her walk away . You just smile and look it into her eyes. You don't give up my friend , let her give up on you.

 

[darksprezzatura]

That's a good thought. Often folks rush to fill the silence. Let her do it instead. If she walks away, she walks away.

Building up on this, you can ask a question about something she said earlier in the conversation.

Women are masters of dropping nuggets to thread convos from. Learn to pick them up. Match her interest and investment.

 

[SW15]

I like Roosh's breakdown in Bang. Drop some bait.
Talk normal and then drop some personal info.

Bang was an awesome book.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Bang was an awesome book.

I wish he stuck to game, his indirect game strategy was some of the best. Instead he went into politics and religion

 

[SW15]

I wish he stuck to game, his indirect game strategy was some of the best.

Roosh's indirect game strategy was more illustrated in "Day Bang" for non-bar approaching. "Day Bang" laid out a great way to do grocery store and mall approaching. I used Roosh's "Day Bang" as a way to do grocery store approaches for years and get dates. Tom Torero's more direct model is better for street game. Roosh's street opener would be horribly outdated today and I don't even think was good when it first started.

"Bang" was the first book that was easy to digest and implement. I liked how simple his night game opener was.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Roosh's indirect game strategy was more illustrated in "Day Bang" for non-bar approaching. "Day Bang" laid out a great way to do grocery store and mall approaching. I used Roosh's "Day Bang" as a way to do grocery store approaches for years and get dates. Tom Torero's more direct model is better for street game. Roosh's street opener would be horribly outdated today and I don't even think was good when it first started.

"Bang" was the first book that was easy to digest and implement. I liked how simple his night game opener was.

His whole Cafe approach was top tier, It's something i still use. There's always women reading at the cafe. It makes for some of the most chill approaches.

 

[SetinStone22]

how to not run out of **** to say.. stop thinking of **** to say, and tell her what you gon do to her when yall alone together.

if it wasnt obvious, then i guess i just had to give it to yall fellas str8 like that -- drop a gem on yall one time

seduction used to be the language of love,

now its hi let me buy you a drink and talk your ear off about **** u dont care about... if u fall in the category, you got the game twisted.

as a man and a playa, u let ya energy talk for u, the rest u tell the ***** what u want to and what ur gonna do to her, excite her curiosity, and then capitalize on it.

some yall probably gon think "broooo its not like that man, you gotta talk to a woman sometimes and have deep conversations!"--

Ima tell you right now, how you talk to a woman, is how you set your objectives up. Most of yall setting up objectives to be a woman's friend or boyfriend -- I set up my objectives to be the woman's purveyor of pleasure

 

[Atom Smasher]

Make yourself an interesting person and thinking of things to say will be a non- issue.
What are your hobbies? What are your interests? What are your life philosophies? What do you expect out of women and relationships?

These things plus knowing the art of extracting her own values and philosophies from her are more than enough to keep a compelling conversation going.

 

[characternote]

running out of things to say is often due to the fact the person you're trying to game isn't into you. Thus the convo is a one-way street and isn't sustainable. Open girls who are into you and it's rarely an issue

 

[Willie Naylor]

running out of things to say is often due to the fact the person you're trying to game isn't into you. Thus the convo is a one-way street and isn't sustainable. Open girls who are into you and it's rarely an issue

It took me a while to realize this, but I used to go on dates where I couldn't think of a thing to say to save my life. But on others, the conversation flowed freely.

You're spot on.

 

[characternote]

It took me a while to realize this, but I used to go on dates where I couldn't think of a thing to say to save my life. But on others, the conversation flowed freely.

You're spot on.

with a date i'd argue that one might have to take at least some responsibility since she was attracted enough to meet you and swiped right or whatever.
But yes, with a cold approach, it's usually very much a case of you opening a girl who isn't attracted to you. You can cold read and neg and assumption stack and ask questions until your hearts content, but she doesn't care (doesn't want to lead you on since you're not her type) and at some point you will 'run out of things to say' haha. Conversation is a two-way street

 

[darksprezzatura]

running out of things to say is often due to the fact the person you're trying to game isn't into you. Thus the convo is a one-way street and isn't sustainable. Open girls who are into you and it's rarely an issue

This

 

[SetinStone22]

running out of things to say is often due to the fact the person you're trying to game isn't into you. Thus the convo is a one-way street and isn't sustainable. Open girls who are into you and it's rarely an issue

that may be true in some cases, but thats a one sided way to look at it. doesn't mean that she isn't into you-- but rather you might not have anything in common with the bih to talk about. -- thats why conversation is weak in most instances when you're trying to have sex wit the broad and not talk her ear off.. thats when you actually take the girl out to do some fun ****, play pool, bowling, go on a drunken adventure--

there's bitches that will play the back street while you do most of the talkin. some women just aren't good conversationalists themselves or have nothin to talk about. a third type will be keepin quiet because really they're hiding too much ie: got a bf/man at home

now theres girls who jus quiet too. u gon meet them eventually if u haven't already. you'll find yaself talkin and she just dont know wht to say but she'll respond, maybe put some input into it.. but at the end of the day, none of that **** matters.. cuz it has nothing to do with whether a girl wants to f- you or not.

in fact if a girl is not talking to you as much but you know she could be a good conversationalist, she's probably sayin im done talking, take me to your place and lets bang. gotta feel that **** out of course.. cant be a dim light bulb-- gotta know what a girl is signaling.

fact of the matter is, there's several angles to look at any of the general sht people be speaking on. and at the end of the day-- conversation is only a small part of the equation. 95% of the time a woman just wants to know you're normal, cool, sane, and fun before she opens them legs, that is if she's not lookin for a "serious relationship"

Bang was an awesome book.

If you need a book to learn how to talk to women, I aint judgin' - do you. I know a lot of cats out here need help and everyone is different..

But really the best bet is to go out there, talk to as many women as you can- set u p as many dates as u can, -- thats the best way to find out whats goin to work for YOU

 

[Bingo-Player]

The easiest way not to run out things to say , is to not think about running out of things to say

Also If a broad is interested she won't make you work too hard in the convo thats one common trend ive noticed over the years

Yea some will sh1t test but if she's interested they will usually be light hearted , if interest is low they will be Snide sh1t tests

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

It's simple improv. Talk about the immediate setting, something interesting or funny to you; this keeps things light and instantly gives you both an inside joke and something in common.

@RSDCharlie
Putting the pressure on her will filter out all women except the bossy ones. The goal is absolutely no pressure on her, and to seduce her into your bed. This means making her extremely comfortable and open, so that she wants to rip her clothes off for you.

I typically gauge with questions. If I ask a question and she doesn't ask one back, she's not interested and I'll let the conversation drop off.

You can practice improv with a friend or by yourself by making a witty point about the environment, then saying 'yes and...' followed by another witty point that builds on the last. Keep going back and forth. This is a simple exercise for improv theater, but it obviously applies everywhere in life.