Women WANT guys to call them out on their BS

[BackInTheGame78]

So long story short, this woman who is somewhat more than FB and somewhat less than a GF who I have slept with multiple times, did the classic pull back, to which I just basically chilled and waited her out.

She contacted me a few days after and basically gave me some version of a sob story about her past and how her life has been hard and blah blah blah...

And I told her, "well if you want your future to be different from your past, the first thing you need to do is stop sitting around and having a fvcking pity party for yourself and start doing something about it."

I saw her the next day and she almost raped me when she walked in and fvcked the hell out of me...then told me how hot she found it that I called her out on her sh!t and how do few guys are willing to do that these days.

So at the end of the day...more proof that women want you to call them out on their bullsh!t when it's appropriate

This isn't to say you should be looking for stuff to call her out on...just that when appropriate, don't be afraid to and she is actually hoping you do.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Not in my experience. Calling girls out gets me nexted repeatedly

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I've seen women say this on their dating bios over the years...rule of thumb is to do the opposite of whatever they say.

Women do not want direct confrontation, especially in regards to their own behaviors. When they do something improper, the best response is to withdraw attention in proprotion to the offense.

I suppose the girl in your case was unusual...then again, there is also something to be said for doing the opposite of what a "typical simp" would do.

 

[Robert28]

Not in my experience. Calling girls out gets me nexted repeatedly

That’s the low self esteem cluster B always the victim types. They’re in abundance.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That’s the low self esteem cluster B always the victim types. They’re in abundance.

Yeah well it is what it is.

 

[zinc4]

So long story short, this woman who is somewhat more than FB and somewhat less than a GF who I have slept with multiple times, did the classic pull back, to which I just basically chilled and waited her out.

She contacted me a few days after and basically gave me some version of a sob story about her past and how her life has been hard and blah blah blah...

And I told her, "well if you want your future to be different from your past, the first thing you need to do is stop sitting around and having a fvcking pity party for yourself and start doing something about it."

I saw her the next day and she almost raped me when she walked in and fvcked the hell out of me...then told me how hot she found it that I called her out on her sh!t and how do few guys are willing to do that these days.

So at the end of the day...more proof that women want you to call them out on their bullsh!t when it's appropriate

This isn't to say you should be looking for stuff to call her out on...just that when appropriate, don't be afraid to and she is actually hoping you do.

I know this type of girl like the back of my hand. Don't take her seriously. Only good for sex nothing else. They get off on being "alphaed." It is fun at first but then becomes a pain quickly and she will seek this same type of dominant attention elsewhere fast from strangers. Just use her for sex string her along until you are tired of her.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I know this type of girl like the back of my hand. Don't take her seriously. Only good for sex nothing else. They get off on being "alphaed." It is fun at first but then becomes a pain quickly and she will seek this same type of dominant attention elsewhere fast from strangers. Just use her for sex string her along until you are tired of her.

She is a good looking chick with an amazing ass and smaller but nice perky tits, so I am sure she has a lot of dudes probably falling over her.

I don't take her too seriously, but the sex is off the charts good and she has told me she is becoming addicted to it

 

[rjc149]

I wouldn’t say you “called out her bullsh!t” as much you assumed a dominant, paternal position in the relationship, which many women find very sexy.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I've seen women say this on their dating bios over the years...rule of thumb is to do the opposite of whatever they say.

Women do not want direct confrontation, especially in regards to their own behaviors. When they do something improper, the best response is to withdraw attention in proprotion to the offense.

I suppose the girl in your case was unusual...then again, there is also something to be said for doing the opposite of what a "typical simp" would do.

The thing is OP did ignore her at first, she came back and tried to use OP as an emotional tampon and he put her in her place.

Most guys would listen to her and she would be dryer then Ben Shapiros Wife.

 

[metalwater]

Yeah well it is what it is.

I just read again, The Art of Seduction by Robert Green.

This time it makes more sense to me than the first time. Anyway, it explains different women types and how to deal with them. Like a template. Probably not perfect, but templates never are and have to be fine-tuned to each case.

The point is that the call-out is effective with one type and would blow up with another type. Depends on what issues the woman has.

I was thinking on it, and mapping the info back into my own history and much of it fits.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I just read again, The Art of Seduction by Robert Green.

This time it makes more sense to me than the first time. Anyway, it explains different women types and how to deal with them. Like a template. Probably not perfect, but templates never are and have to be fine-tuned to each case.

The point is that the call-out is effective with one type and would blow up with another type. Depends on what issues the woman has.

I was thinking on it, and mapping the info back into my own history and much of it fits.

Yeah I’ve read that book too. I’ve still found only if I’m authentic will I be effective. I’ve called a few girls out before, it worked once. Got lucky. By and large it just isn’t me so it doesn’t work. At least that’s my theory

 

[derby1]

Ive never had much look with any macho stance with a woman, she usually ghosts me

they "think" they want beta providers they can control. due to society being over civilised.

women are architects of their own misery

 

[darksprezzatura]

So long story short, this woman who is somewhat more than FB and somewhat less than a GF who I have slept with multiple times, did the classic pull back, to which I just basically chilled and waited her out.

She contacted me a few days after and basically gave me some version of a sob story about her past and how her life has been hard and blah blah blah...

And I told her, "well if you want your future to be different from your past, the first thing you need to do is stop sitting around and having a fvcking pity party for yourself and start doing something about it."

I saw her the next day and she almost raped me when she walked in and fvcked the hell out of me...then told me how hot she found it that I called her out on her sh!t and how do few guys are willing to do that these days.

So at the end of the day...more proof that women want you to call them out on their bullsh!t when it's appropriate

This isn't to say you should be looking for stuff to call her out on...just that when appropriate, don't be afraid to and she is actually hoping you do.

Good share. On point as I've applied this and it works. Being genuine is a gift. Give it freely to people around you. Folks who understand how rare it is, will appreciate you.