To Compete?/Pulling Bikini Girls

[nicksaiz65]

Hey guys! My bad if I’m making a ton of posts in Health and Fitness lately. I’ve just been seeing such great results on my program and I’m so excited. Fitness is honestly one of my passions, and I’m thinking about the future.

My aim is obviously to build an attractive, aesthetic physique. I had MAJOR issues sticking to my diet in the past, I simply couldn’t adhere to it. Every single time, I would end up breaking and binging. I’ve done much reflection, and this was due to two reasons.
1.) Having to eat 5-6 small meals a day
2.) Having to hit these sky high protein requirements, like 180-200 G a day.

These two things made sticking to the diet absolutely miserable. But then I found Kinobody. He recommended intermittent fasting(so I can eat 2 larger meals a day) and allows you to get lower protein. I eat anywhere between 100-120 G of protein a day on average now.

This has made the diet absolutely EFFORTLESS and I’m getting fire results. Not every single meal has to have protein in it, if I don’t want to. If I want to have a big steak cooked in olive oil for my protein, I can. If I want to use any full fat sauce on my chicken breast to make it taste amazing, I can do it. If I want to have a giant chocolate bar or ice cream right before bed to keep the cravings at bay, then I can do it. Eating two big meals and not having to get all of that protein allows me to do that.

I love this physique stuff. I’ve considered competing on a bodybuilding stage in the future, in Men’s Physique. But part of me wonders if I should even do it or not. I’d have to go back to a super restrictive high protein diet, and I’d lose all my flexibility that makes the diet so easy to adhere to. I wouldn’t even be able to “bundle” my protein with tasty stuff because the calories would be so limited. Why would I ever go back to the diet that was impossible for me to stick to for years? If I go on prep, I would be on a diet that I hate and is difficult to adhere to for 25-50% of the year. Why would I ever go back to that?

But then the other part of my mind tells me that “competing would be kind of dope” and it would be a huge accolade.

Not to mention, one of my sexual dreams is to pull and bang actual contest bikini girls. I absolutely want to make this happen. Is it even possible to achieve this sexual dream as a guy who has never competed before? As just a guy who is just “beach lean” year round instead of competing?

And then, I think about what could happen if I go on prep and later go back to my normal flexible diet. I love my current way of dieting with the flexibility and lower protein. But I’d feel weird being on prep with high high protein and then being lower the rest of the year, even if it is to allow flexibility.

So yeah, I’m going through some major cognitive dissonance, guys. I don’t know what to do. I was hoping you could just straight up tell me what to do on this one lol. Every time I listen to SS on what to do with my life, it always changes for the better.

 

[rjc149]

Having low body fat and high lean muscle mass isn’t what it takes to get a bikini model.

These types of women will often go for the edgy tatted up scrawny dude over fellow fitness competitors. You’d be surprised at who those UFC ring girls are dating. Not who you’d think.

If you want a really physically attractive woman, you need high status in their professional or social sphere, be massively pre-selected, and have game. Working out for a Men’s Health cover model physique generates diminishing returns after a point. Starving yourself, severe carb deficits, dedicating huge amounts of time to the gym that could be used to improve your financial situation or become a more interesting person — to shed an extra few percentage points of body fat that makes no discernible difference in your appearance given that you’re already in good shape.

There needs to be a much greater “why” to dedicating yourself to that lifestyle, other than getting chicks.

 

[RBK]

Women are not us, they do not really care about looks as a primary factory in men that sleep with them.

Looking good helps, but money and power are above these two.

Workout for you, not them.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Having low body fat and high lean muscle mass isn’t what it takes to get a bikini model.

These types of women will often go for the edgy tatted up scrawny dude over fellow fitness competitors. You’d be surprised at who those UFC ring girls are dating. Not who you’d think.

If you want a really physically attractive woman, you need high status in their professional or social sphere, be massively pre-selected, and have game. Working out for a Men’s Health cover model physique generates diminishing returns after a point. Starving yourself, severe carb deficits, dedicating huge amounts of time to the gym that could be used to improve your financial situation or become a more interesting person — to shed an extra few percentage points of body fat that makes no discernible difference in your appearance given that you’re already in good shape.

There needs to be a much greater “why” to dedicating yourself to that lifestyle, other than getting chicks.

As for why I train… most of it would be for me. I love the way it makes me feel. I love pursuing a goal. Lifting weights and doing cardio are both awesome and I love doing them. Bodybuilding gives me the self esteem and killer instinct that I’ve wished for so long.

That being said, I don’t know if I want to compete or not. I don’t know how far I want to take this. Do I want to use a lifestyle method that is super easy/enjoyable to adhere to, get 100-140 G of protein a day? Or do I want to become a physique model who is getting 200 G of protein a day? One one hand, competing on stage would definitely be glorious and a huge accomplishment. I could definitely do it… I just don’t know if it’s worth it. My life goals are to have an aesthetic physique, have dope pictures, and bang bikini models lol. That’s it.

That being said, based on this conversation, do you think you could tell me if I should compete or just do the lifestyle method, be an in shape athletic guy, and take dope pics for Instagram? I’m lost on this and I literally have no clue. I’m exactly 50/50 on whether or not this is something I should shoot for. But every time I listen to what SS says, amazing things happen in my life lol.

Also, how would one go about meeting these bikini models, so I could get that fantasy handled?

 

[SW15]

Keep working out but don't compete in fitness competition.

If you want to meet a bikini model, become a photographer.

Looking good and flashing cash and a high rollin' lifestyle is also another way to attract them.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Keep working out but don't compete in fitness competition.

If you want to meet a bikini model, become a photographer.

Looking good and flashing cash and a high rollin' lifestyle is also another way to attract them.

Cool! I’ll just keep doing what I’ve been doing to improve the physique and look like a Greek God.

This is really helpful because my ability to stick to my current diet is actually insane. I’m able to hit it like 90% of the time. I don’t have to eat super clean, or eat super high protein. The diet is effortless. So I can for sure get a Greek God body on this with my Kinobody Lifestyle Approach.

My diet needs to be extremely flexible or I can’t stick to it for even a day. That’s why I wouldn’t want to do a competition prep diet. That flexibility: bundling, using whatever sauce I want on my chicken breast, having ice cream every night before bed… let’s me stick to the diet effortlessly without binging or breaking. My ability to stick to my diet is actually insane.

I’d lose that flexibility if I were to go on contest prep, and I can’t have that. My only goal really is to look lean and muscular.

And if I want to show off my body, I can always do it on Instagram.

That’s great news that I don’t have to be a contest prep fitness competitor myself to pull contest prep bikini models. As the ultimate testament to that: one of my PUA friends recently pulled and closed a contest prep model in Vegas. And he isn’t even in shape himself lol.